solsticemoon: Ive just had such a lovely day..just pottering. But Ive cleaned the house, swept the terraces, done a spot of gardening..sorry yep throw up now, been nearly 20 C and sunny here.................... BUT............... Ive done it all in my pj's, no make up and no worry that any man is gonna "need" anything. Am I so wrong to be enjoying the single status or should I be worrying?
I just read down the posts in here and it became clear real fast you girl just have no idea how to pick a good guy. You all must have picked such losers for guys. What a shame because thats just not right. If you had found the right guys you would happy as larks. You would be out and about with that funny crooked smile on your faces that tells the world "I MADE LOVE AND I FEEL WONDERFUL!"
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Mermaidon: No no, no need to "sort" anything out in private. It's really no big deal, typical Forum misunderstanding. Most of the people who fight in here is because of just such misunderstandings, it's a shame, really, but it's Internet. No sense in loosing one's cool... I try hard not to, we're not gonna change the world in here anyhow.
As you wish, but your original hostile post to me (for which you haven't aplogised) said a lot more than your offense at my one post.
If you don't wish to sort it out, that's your decision, but I'm not comfortable with that.
Boy67: As far as i know "goddess" is been chased around by men, and as far as i see you are still looking. This is the second conflict i see tonight. I have never been in a position of a woman to see how wonderful it is but crying all week and begging to come back when i through them out is not so wonderful to me.
I do not need to chase .. I have been chased... it is my hobbie as for crying... sure, women´s tears are a good weapon and great relief for us - Goddess, and begging to come back some crap... Goddess never do that
theromancepoet: I just read down the posts in here and it became clear real fast you girl just have no idea how to pick a good guy. You all must have picked such losers for guys. What a shame because thats just not right. If you had found the right guys you would happy as larks. You would be out and about with that funny crooked smile on your faces that tells the world "I MADE LOVE AND I FEEL WONDERFUL!"
I think the guys were fine, just read very well and figure out their attitude even a dump guy will leave them. Lucky guys run away.
theromancepoet: I just read down the posts in here and it became clear real fast you girl just have no idea how to pick a good guy. You all must have picked such losers for guys. What a shame because thats just not right. If you had found the right guys you would happy as larks. You would be out and about with that funny crooked smile on your faces that tells the world "I MADE LOVE AND I FEEL WONDERFUL!"
well we can do that and still not have to have u around the house - I think u missed her point
felixis99: not at all. it's whether you want a man not "need" one
once u fall in love with one of them....that's when the need happens IMO
Bingo.... Right on! When I think of "love"I think it's a wonderful thing to know that someone, out of all the other possibilities out there, selects and wants to be with that other one special person in their life. Needing someone isn't love in my humble opinion.
Barbieval: I believe it is not a matter of need but of desire, we are created to connect with on another. Let's all be honest sometimes space is good regardless if it is from a man or woman but being with someone you care deeply for is also good....and yes he will know I like my pj days or he can show himself out.
A man that truly honors you for who you are will do just that. Happy New Year to you all and good luck.
When you use the word "honors" your stepping on to a pedestal. I think the word you want is 'respects' the difference speaks volumes.
galrads: Bingo.... Right on! When I think of "love"I think it's a wonderful thing to know that someone, out of all the other possibilities out there, selects and wants to be with that other one special person in their life. Needing someone isn't love in my humble opinion.
I dont appreciate being redlined - I wasn't talking about need in terms if dependency as in using someone or taking advantage - but a need based a desire for that person - we do need the people we care about -at least I do - my life would not be complete without them
so I think you may have misinterpreted me - it happens
Mermaidon: No, really. If you can continue to pretend I'm not a member here, I'll be grateful. I'll even send you a box of some good Belgian chocolates to thank you. Just have someone you know here contact me and I'll send it to them for you. The posts I write, aren't for your eyes, and if they have the mischance to even look like they're for your eyes, rest assured, they are not at all. Thanks for giving this due thought.
Oh please send me some Belgian chocolates. I miss them since I left Brussels and EFSA in 2005. I know someone in Evere but I don't think she would get involved in this - she is a bit bizarre.
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But Ive cleaned the house, swept the terraces, done a spot of gardening..sorry yep throw up now, been nearly 20 C and sunny here....................
BUT...............
Ive done it all in my pj's, no make up and no worry that any man is gonna "need" anything.
Am I so wrong to be enjoying the single status or should I be worrying?
I just read down the posts in here and it became clear real fast you girl just have no idea how to pick a good guy. You all must have picked such losers for guys. What a shame because thats just not right.
If you had found the right guys you would happy as larks. You would be out and about with that funny crooked smile on your faces that tells the world "I MADE LOVE AND I FEEL WONDERFUL!"