Why nice men are difficult to find? (369)
marss: your postings always have impressed me...i think i show you respect...am i a good guy?i want a bad girl....
i feel directionless today....what are you up to?
i feel directionless today....what are you up to?
You want a bad girl
I feel directionless most days so join the club
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i am sure , life is full of nice men as its full of bad men ,,,but you have to search ,,,,,,,,
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i have a lot to do tho...going to get a free t v after my shower going to ocala to pick flowers up from an admirer...is it ok for women to send a man flowers?then lunch in ocala with my buddy mo and family...he is buying....i just wanna be led around i think is why i want a bad girl....i found one thats where the flowers are from....but this means i am off the market as another dear friend pointed out to me...
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marss: i have a lot to do tho...going to get a free t v after my shower going to ocala to pick flowers up from an admirer...is it ok for women to send a man flowers?then lunch in ocala with my buddy mo and family...he is buying....i just wanna be led around i think is why i want a bad girl....i found one thats where the flowers are from....but this means i am off the market as another dear friend pointed out to me...
I´m not bad.....just a little naughty! And I have to say that I know a lot of "nice" men............it´s just that none of them are the "one" for me.
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NCC1968: Same reasons nice girls are hard to find..........gender is not the issue.
Guess both *nice* genders are somewhat jaded, so they tend to hide.
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bhirdie: is it just me or this is somehow turning into 'why a nice girl is so difficult to find'
It's just the evolution of an average thread, barely recognisable by the time you hit the last page.
I think many are looking for something that doesn't exist, except in their heads. That's why it's so difficult to find that "perfect person" for them.
I don't seem to have any trouble in meeting nice people all around the globe, and even here in Canada.
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*** and good men aren't hard to find here,there are increasing numbers of widows and men who've had strong,healthy relationships looking for their next lovely lady****and yes i confess i love the cs ad robot too!
this site has far less shirtless teenagers trying to hook-up and more articulate messagers than any site i've been on.i appreciate you can show caring with e-cards,recognize birthdays,get help with intros,blog and indicate you have a real personality.i love the ladies here!you are raising the bar.welcoming to others,witty,classy:not rude or competitive.
this site has far less shirtless teenagers trying to hook-up and more articulate messagers than any site i've been on.i appreciate you can show caring with e-cards,recognize birthdays,get help with intros,blog and indicate you have a real personality.i love the ladies here!you are raising the bar.welcoming to others,witty,classy:not rude or competitive.
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ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
Now a-days woman seem to be looking for looks and security in a man, not looking for who he really is from within. JMO.
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Finding them is Easy..!!
Finding them _Close to you_ is much more difficult..!!
First find one....then talk about potential relocation..!
Finding them _Close to you_ is much more difficult..!!
First find one....then talk about potential relocation..!
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bhirdie: none. but sometimes they can be very deceitful,and so bloody charming and charismatic and before you know it...you're trapped.
Maybe not trapped, but it is easy to be fooled. Some people don't take their masks off for a very long time. Some just change as they get older and wiser. The dating world is a tricky one...
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menu2: Now a-days woman seem to be looking for looks and security in a man, not looking for who he really is from within. JMO.
Really, I disagree with you. I do look for what is within and I think alot of women on CS do. That is really a harsh statement, Texas.
The Virginia Doberman
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RDM59: I don't understand why the good guys are attracted to the bad girls. It can't be because of their personalities so it must be a purely physical attraction and to obtain an ego boosting arm trophy perhaps....
I don't have much sympathy for their whining due to their lack of foresight and judgement.
I don't have much sympathy for their whining due to their lack of foresight and judgement.
Yeah; I find that strange too. Nice girls attracted to bad guys and nice guys attracted to bad girls. What a strange world we live in.
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Sunrise2010: because women turn to find the younger ones
Why are we writing about women like the above moment when the topic is why nice men are difficult to find?
I guess because we are. As for the quote above, even a little younger men and a little older than me act in the same way. There are players from 49-56. I've dated the whole group. There are still bad guys, and I stay away from them. These days, I go out with groups or try dating who I think is a good guy or stay at home. I have a better life that way. I have lost the attraction to bad guys, their talk doesn't effect me anymore. They can mosey on little doggy.
The Dobe
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doberman3: Why are we writing about women like the above moment when the topic is why nice men are difficult to find?
I guess because we are. As for the quote above, even a little younger men and a little older than me act in the same way. There are players from 49-56. I've dated the whole group. There are still bad guys, and I stay away from them. These days, I go out with groups or try dating who I think is a good guy or stay at home. I have a better life that way. I have lost the attraction to bad guys, their talk doesn't effect me anymore. They can mosey on little doggy.
The Dobe
I guess because we are. As for the quote above, even a little younger men and a little older than me act in the same way. There are players from 49-56. I've dated the whole group. There are still bad guys, and I stay away from them. These days, I go out with groups or try dating who I think is a good guy or stay at home. I have a better life that way. I have lost the attraction to bad guys, their talk doesn't effect me anymore. They can mosey on little doggy.
The Dobe
The Nice Men and Women....where could they be?
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menu2: Now a-days woman seem to be looking for looks and security in a man, not looking for who he really is from within. JMO.
Hahahaha!! You sure you haven´t got that backwards?
Wasn´t it in the past when women had no choice but to rely on men to provide for them because of gender inequality in most societies?
And don´t a lot of men tend to go for looks? Why can´t women do it too if they so wish (just because they can!!)?
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ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
There is a simple answer: such men are seemingly not equipped with the masculine things women are attracted to (in the hormonal level for mating etc.) I do not mean such men are queers or stuff like that but their masculinity expresses in their capacity to take care of a home and chidren properly, to look after their relationship and all sort of things that mean attachment. Women cannot see or smell such thing (paradoxically) when the mating comes first. Evolutionary biology plays many tricks on poor humans.I have known some guys of that rare kind but when we were in a public place only the guys with the other kind of attraction got the attention from women. The "nice" guys just waited for a miracle then.
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i feel directionless today....what are you up to?