Why nice men are difficult to find? (369)
I don't believe "nice men" are to find. It is usually a preconceived notion that there are no "nice men." Sometimes, we just close our eyes and hearts to those that would be what we need/want in our lives.
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Stephen771: You got it twisted here. "WOMEN" dont want nice men. They want idiots, jerks. Broken, bent, stupid, mean, cant hold a job, the list goes on. Why,?!!!
So they can "FIX" them. meanwhile the woman is abused, used, beaten on belittled, gets broken bones, and yes crippled and even dead. and when friends, family ask or tell them to leave, The answer is. I cant.
"I""LOVE""HIM"!!!!.
Im speaking from experience. I am the original nice guy. I have worked a full time since I was able to. I dont argue about anything. Problems need solutions not drama. Ultimately it comes down to Im no challenge. "LIFE" with me would be to smooth. This my friend Beth told me in 1986. Your never going to be with anyone Steve. I asked her why,?. She said point blank... Because your just to damn nice.
I laughed at her comment then. now, 2012,? Im not laughing anymore.
You want to know where all the nice guys are,? we are still out here... rotting away because "WOMEN"!!! Dont want us...
So they can "FIX" them. meanwhile the woman is abused, used, beaten on belittled, gets broken bones, and yes crippled and even dead. and when friends, family ask or tell them to leave, The answer is. I cant.
"I""LOVE""HIM"!!!!.
Im speaking from experience. I am the original nice guy. I have worked a full time since I was able to. I dont argue about anything. Problems need solutions not drama. Ultimately it comes down to Im no challenge. "LIFE" with me would be to smooth. This my friend Beth told me in 1986. Your never going to be with anyone Steve. I asked her why,?. She said point blank... Because your just to damn nice.
I laughed at her comment then. now, 2012,? Im not laughing anymore.
You want to know where all the nice guys are,? we are still out here... rotting away because "WOMEN"!!! Dont want us...
Read my post just above yours!
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"idiots, jerks. Broken, bent, stupid, mean, cant hold a job, the list goes on"
That is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
That is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
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StillOfTheNight: "idiots, jerks. Broken, bent, stupid, mean, cant hold a job, the list goes on"
That is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
That is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
But that is your description of yourself Still; it almost matches my description of myself but I know that I don't actually come across that way to others. You don't either....
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amahlala: But that is your description of yourself Still; it almost matches my description of myself but I know that I don't actually come across that way to others. You don't either....
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I really don't know what I am to others.. as of late I have found out that many people see me as something I am not. Seen a lot of that in the last few months. All I can say for sure is That I know what it is to be "UnWanted" good, bad or indifferent....I not that feeling very well.
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Nikogas: I really don't know what I am to others.. as of late I have found out that many people see me as something I am not. Seen a lot of that in the last few months. All I can say for sure is That I know what it is to be "UnWanted" good, bad or indifferent....I not that feeling very well.
Hey Nik!!!
This site is only a tiny slice of people.
Why do you think you come accross to people as something you´re not?
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EagleWoman: Sooooooooooo many aimless people around!! Good to know YOU know what you want!!!
thanks I take pride in my decisive nature!
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EagleWoman: Hey Nik!!!
This site is only a tiny slice of people.
Why do you think you come accross to people as something you´re not?
This site is only a tiny slice of people.
Why do you think you come accross to people as something you´re not?
Let's just say I have been told. lol..Maybe they see me different now, maybe not....but it was a surprise. I guess it is better to know than not.
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StillOfTheNight: "idiots, jerks. Broken, bent, stupid, mean, cant hold a job, the list goes on"
That is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
well you certainly don't come across that way to me eitherThat is a PERFECT description of myself and women want nothing to do with me so I don't think they are looking for that type of person.
GOOD GRIEF - just what the world needs is another nice guy thread
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Nikogas: Let's just say I have been told. lol..Maybe they see me different now, maybe not....but it was a surprise. I guess it is better to know than not.
Reading between the lines ... you may be talking about your pics
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Nikogas: I really don't know what I am to others.. as of late I have found out that many people see me as something I am not. Seen a lot of that in the last few months. All I can say for sure is That I know what it is to be "UnWanted" good, bad or indifferent....I not that feeling very well.
I think we all get times like that. Un needed, un wanted and un loved. I was once dumped for being too nice would you believed. Nowadays when a woman calls me 'nice,' I figure it's going nowhere. And if the ladies on here would be honest, they'd agree. They don't want nice.
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Due to lack of nice womans
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Godsgift: I think we all get times like that. Un needed, un wanted and un loved. I was once dumped for being too nice would you believed. Nowadays when a woman calls me 'nice,' I figure it's going nowhere. And if the ladies on here would be honest, they'd agree. They don't want nice.
And if the guys on here would be honest with themselves they would realise that "nice" means nothing much. See my post about "nice" a little further up or may be on page just before this one.
Why do so many men want to be seen as "nice"?
I prefer a man without resentments or stereotypes. One who doesn´t blame others for his own shortcomings.
No one is "just nice" because we are all human and are no saint!
I´ve met some guys who call themselves "nice" and other people also see as "nice" ... What I saw: someone without a backbone who get taken advantage of by people without scrupules. Somebody who doesn´t know how to set bounderies to be respected by others which means they don´t respect themselves. To me that doesn´t mean the person is "nice". "Nice" is someone who knows themselves and doesn´t need others to define who they are.
This post isn´t about you GG ... it´s general
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EagleWoman: Sooooooooooooooo, THERE you are!!! And I´m HERE!!!!
And I got flowers for you
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uptall: And I got flowers for you ..............
Aw! Thanks! Glad you didn´t put these ones in the post!!!
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EagleWoman: Aw! Thanks! Glad you didn´t put these ones in the post!!!
"No, I'm gonna come with them myself this time...in this
should be there soon, put the kettle on....... 
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uptall: "No, I'm gonna come with them myself this time...in this should be there soon, put the kettle on.......
Aw!! An alien!! My fav!!! Soooooooooooo much more exciting than an ordinary nice human!!! Are you a "nice" alien?
Kettle´s on!! What sort of tea would you like? Or do you prefer coffee?
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EagleWoman: Aw!! An alien!! My fav!!! Soooooooooooo much more exciting than an ordinary nice human!!! Are you a "nice" alien?
Kettle´s on!! What sort of tea would you like? Or do you prefer coffee?
Kettle´s on!! What sort of tea would you like? Or do you prefer coffee?
Of course I'm nice..and I can do sooooooo much more than an human
Tea or coffee..or I'll drink any juice you have!
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So they can "FIX" them. meanwhile the woman is abused, used, beaten on belittled, gets broken bones, and yes crippled and even dead. and when friends, family ask or tell them to leave, The answer is. I cant.
"I""LOVE""HIM"!!!!.
Im speaking from experience. I am the original nice guy. I have worked a full time since I was able to. I dont argue about anything. Problems need solutions not drama. Ultimately it comes down to Im no challenge. "LIFE" with me would be to smooth. This my friend Beth told me in 1986. Your never going to be with anyone Steve. I asked her why,?. She said point blank... Because your just to damn nice.
I laughed at her comment then. now, 2012,? Im not laughing anymore.
You want to know where all the nice guys are,? we are still out here... rotting away because "WOMEN"!!! Dont want us...