Aswina: because we are not still satisfied with what we see in media and what we have in a real life...as for outfit, appearance,social status ... we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,
shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists
EagleWoman: Good men are secure enough in themselvesnot to be jealous of vulnerable animals who by the nature of being an animals cannot look after themselves.
Measuring how much is done to look after a vulnerable creature against what is done to "look after" a grown man sounds extremely strange and out of place in a "grown people´s world"
exactly whomever "he" is - he needs to take care of himself. a partner is not a man's mother....I think that can be a big road block when a man expects his partner to care for him as though he were a child...
dan_barry64: i totally agree with what you have said.
I agree with aswina too. It is not so much that we cannot find a good man/woman
there are a lot of good people out there - it's more a matter of, are they good as a partner for "me"????
many of us are on our second or third relationship, at first with our first marriages or LDRs the world was full of hope - now after a few breakups and divorces we know what can go wrong and are less apt to "jump in"
that can be a good thing
but it can also make the process of partnering up take longer
Only one thing ... I won´t be NEEDING a guy who has higher than average or average earning capability ... as long as he earns enough to cater for his own needs. I´m happy!!!
Nice men are difficult to find because women have little patience plus an attitude. You have to get to know someone through correspondence over time. Women are very eager for a commitment. They write the guy off because they have a void in their lives that has to be filled quickly. They talk about love and never seem to ask questions of the guy and to discover common interests or to follow the formula that opposites attract. They wind up blaming the website only to go out and repeat the same pattern "Attitude" on another website.
ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
After we men manage to filter out the fakes we can' t find any nice women either, this problem goes both ways.
ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
May be because you are hiding your self, no photo profile!!
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ohhhh!! All right! Then!! But you´ll to waittill I finished bathing the dog!!!