Why nice men are difficult to find? ( Archived) (369)

Mar 27, 2012 1:56 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
uptall: you were doing so good until you said that



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

roll eyes ohhhh!! All right! Then!! But you´ll to waittill I finished bathing the dog!!! mumbling
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Mar 27, 2012 1:56 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
uptall: Oh you're so strong minded, ok, I'm yours


laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 2:01 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
dan_barry64
dan_barry64dan_barry64lucknow, Uttar Pradesh India10 Threads 199 Posts
Aswina: because we are not still satisfied with what we see in media and what we have in a real life...as for outfit, appearance,social status ...
we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,

shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists

i totally agree with what you have said.
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Mar 27, 2012 5:50 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
Forget the NICE GUY.....

I prefer a GOOD MAN
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Mar 27, 2012 5:59 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
Urbuddy
UrbuddyUrbuddyYellow Brick Rd , Larganville, Mayo Ireland94 Threads 4 Polls 2,441 Posts
rivame: Forget the NICE GUY.....

I prefer a GOOD MAN
You called tip hat bouquet laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 6:07 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
Urbuddy: You called


Ahhhhh but you forgot to ask ..good at what ??? laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 6:20 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
rivame: Forget the NICE GUY.....

I prefer a GOOD MAN


How about mediocre, yet still functional. banana laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 6:26 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
kidatheart: How about mediocre, yet still functional.


hey you :)Ok you won me kiss

laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 6:30 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Well I do know "A hard man is good to find" wink
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Mar 27, 2012 7:04 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
venusenvy: Well I do know "A hard man is good to find"
"A strong soft woman is also hard to find"...
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Mar 27, 2012 8:55 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
EagleWoman: Good men are secure enough in themselvesnot to be jealous of vulnerable animals who by the nature of being an animals cannot look after themselves.

Measuring how much is done to look after a vulnerable creature against what is done to "look after" a grown man sounds extremely strange and out of place in a "grown people´s world"


exactly whomever "he" is - he needs to take care of himself. a partner is not a man's mother....I think that can be a big road block when a man expects his partner to care for him as though he were a child...doh
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Mar 27, 2012 9:00 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
Girls like bad boys. It's always teh way, and always will be the way. devil
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Mar 27, 2012 9:01 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
dan_barry64: i totally agree with what you have said.
I agree with aswina too. It is not so much that we cannot find a good man/woman

there are a lot of good people out there - it's more a matter of, are they good as a partner for "me"????

many of us are on our second or third relationship, at first with our first marriages or LDRs the world was full of hope - now after a few breakups and divorces we know what can go wrong and are less apt to "jump in"

that can be a good thing

but it can also make the process of partnering up take longer
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Mar 28, 2012 8:28 AM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
EagleWoman: Interesting!!!

Only one thing ... I won´t be NEEDING a guy who has higher than average or average earning capability ... as long as he earns enough to cater for his own needs. I´m happy!!!



laugh And here I am...tip hat


bouquet
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Mar 28, 2012 9:07 AM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
hankharlow
hankharlowhankharlowUnion, New Jersey USA45 Posts
Nice men are difficult to find because women have little patience plus an attitude. You have to get to know someone through correspondence over time. Women are very eager for a commitment. They write the guy off because they have a void in their lives that has to be filled quickly. They talk about love and never seem to ask questions of the guy and to discover common interests or to follow the formula that opposites attract. They wind up blaming the website only to go out and repeat the same pattern "Attitude" on another website.
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Mar 28, 2012 9:11 AM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
yellow1
yellow1yellow1London, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 2 Polls 172 Posts
I think both men and women need to decide what they really require frome each other too much schizophrenia hope that helps.
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Mar 28, 2012 9:30 AM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
southmiami12
southmiami12southmiami12Tampa, Florida, Florida USA5 Threads 162 Posts
Good guys are still out there but it takes time to sort them out.

So don't wonder too much because they can slip away...

Whatever relationship you are looking for good luckwave wave
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Mar 28, 2012 9:38 AM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??


After we men manage to filter out the fakes we can'
t find any nice women either, this problem goes both ways.
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Mar 28, 2012 1:08 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
samfreebird
samfreebirdsamfreebirdManama, Bahrain1 Posts
ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??


May be because you are hiding your self, no photo profile!!
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Mar 28, 2012 3:58 PM CST Why nice men are difficult to find?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
uptall: And here I am...




Sooooooooooooooo, THERE you are!!! And I´m HERE!!!! laugh

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