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Feb 10, 2012 8:56 PM CST rude or not
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
rider4u: If women don't reply (which the last time I looked wasn't against the rules) it is their perogative and as has already been stated, there are a bunch of lowlife scum who harrass them for rejection. I would feel the same if it happened to me. Some people (men or women) reach beyond what would be a reasonable expectation of attraction just because it is from behind the protection of their computer screen. A little dose of reality wouldn't hurt. jmho


Rider - I agree. If I'm interested, I will write back. Men do the same thing. You should not take it personal that you do not get mail back.

I have written back and have gotten attacked for it. I will not let that happen again.
Keep the note simple, say hello, I'm interested. If they are interested, they will write back. You will not have invested so much time, then, so what if they don't answer.

The Dobe

I am going to be brutally honest, I'd would take another profile picture. I can't tell what you look like at all. The baby is sweet, but women are more interested in seeing your face.
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Feb 10, 2012 9:00 PM CST rude or not
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
laugh ..... coming from a dog that's pretty funny .....rolling on the floor laughing

You're looking a bit grey these days Dobe .....laugh wine
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Feb 10, 2012 9:02 PM CST rude or not
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
hwood: Why do women not respond to getting flowered or a email evan if its just to say no thanks not interested. If a women take the time to email me I can at least take the time to ansewer


maybe not rude,,,maybe just not interested.....dunno
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Feb 10, 2012 9:03 PM CST rude or not
mtncabingirl
mtncabingirlmtncabingirlboise, Idaho USA13 Threads 2 Polls 133 Posts
i usually avoid anyone that doesn't know the witch from wizard of oz movie uses- hellllooo my PRETTY!NEVER SAW HOW THAT'S A GOOD INTRO line?:witch:
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Feb 10, 2012 9:08 PM CST rude or not
mtncabingirl
mtncabingirlmtncabingirlboise, Idaho USA13 Threads 2 Polls 133 Posts
mtncabingirl: i usually avoid anyone that doesn't know the witch from wizard of oz movie uses- hellllooo my PRETTY!NEVER SAW HOW THAT'S A GOOD INTRO line?:witch:
....is that a british greeting?help
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Feb 10, 2012 9:11 PM CST rude or not
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
RDM59: ..... coming from a dog that's pretty funny .....

You're looking a bit grey these days Dobe .....


RDM, you are really funny. What an imagination! cheers
I read what you said, then imagined my Doberman saying what I had written.grin He does have a certain bark that means do what I want now.

Yes, I do look different and very grey.

Thanks, dancing doghandshake
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Feb 12, 2012 10:30 PM CST rude or not
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
mtncabingirl: i usually avoid anyone that doesn't know the witch from wizard of oz movie uses- hellllooo my PRETTY!NEVER SAW HOW THAT'S A GOOD INTRO line?:witch:


Hi Mtncabin, that movie scared me so bad, the "Wizard of Oz". My Mom took me over to her girlfriend's house to see it,she had a daughter also.
I stayed glued to my chair in fear: the horrible beasty flying monkey's, the evil Witch, Dorthy being taken away by a tornado. I had nightmares after that. I thought it might be possible that the same thing could happen to me, being swept away. I only like Toto and the cowardly Lion.

The Dobe
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Feb 12, 2012 10:42 PM CST rude or not
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
mtncabingirl: ....is that a british greeting?
crying The Cloud
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Feb 12, 2012 10:45 PM CST rude or not
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
Boban1: Women are weird...
they show that they care about you by ignoring you ,but it could also mean that they don`t give damn about you...
Women are weird...
applause thumbs up
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Feb 13, 2012 5:05 PM CST rude or not
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
Reasons I don't respond:
1) The messages I get creeped me out.
2) I didn't understand what they were saying.
3) The message seems like it's from a scammer.

Those are the main reasons. Sometimes, I don't have a lot of time. When I come here, I may only have a few minutes. I'll read the message, but not have time to respond. I think that I'll respond but then I forget about it until I get another message.
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Feb 13, 2012 5:09 PM CST rude or not
gypseyblue
gypseybluegypseybluehalifax, West Yorkshire, England UK69 Posts
i normaly send a thank you , unless its a scam message
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Feb 16, 2012 9:28 PM CST rude or not
outfitter
outfitteroutfitterSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: Ok.... just got this in my mail box.Hello pretty,, Damn it you drop gorgeous...what's the secret?Now... how do I reply to that?? OK, I could reply and put..... Thank you, ... plastic surgery and airbrushing.. (kidding)

but whatever I put, they will reply again.. and then on it goes, so sometimes its easier not to if you are not interested..
come on guys if u have rejection problems then go see your gramma she'll cosol you;;ask your self why are you alone?
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Feb 16, 2012 9:31 PM CST rude or not
outfitter
outfitteroutfitterSaskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada2 Posts
RDM59: ..... coming from a dog that's pretty funny .....

You're looking a bit grey these days Dobe .....
you are totally disrepectful;what an a**hole
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Feb 16, 2012 9:40 PM CST rude or not
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
outfitter: you are totally disrepectful;what an a**hole


Settle down, he's not an a**hole, he's Scottish.laugh

It was a comment made in humour, in reference to a pic she had up of her grey Doberman, and they know each other. Of course, being new, you're probably not aware of that.

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Mar 12, 2012 9:52 PM CST rude or not
hwood: Why do women not respond to getting flowered or a email evan if its just to say no thanks not interested. If a women take the time to email me I can at least take the time to ansewer


good questions! the only ones I don't answer are the ones who might be scammers
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Mar 13, 2012 12:38 AM CST rude or not
jimson99
jimson99jimson99armidale, New South Wales Australia312 Posts
If the girl does not reply that's fine.Nothing sent nothing gained..wink
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Mar 13, 2012 12:49 AM CST rude or not
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
morgan5: Because have had the experience that when they respond and say thanks but no thanks, they then get further mails often very abusive.

I agree.thumbs up
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Mar 13, 2012 1:05 AM CST rude or not
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
hwood: Why do women not respond to getting flowered or a email evan if its just to say no thanks not interested. If a women take the time to email me I can at least take the time to ansewer


I just got a mail from some guy saying nothing but this:

"If Germany took all the jews back that they deported, all the world's problems would be solved."

So do you think I should reply to that imbecile? Does it make me rude if I don't write back?
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Mar 13, 2012 1:18 AM CST rude or not
Torontosrose12
Torontosrose12Torontosrose12Toronto, Ontario Canada8 Posts
Boban1: Women are weird...
they show that they care about you by ignoring you ,but it could also mean that they don`t give damn about you...
Women are weird...



My big question is: Why do people always say, 'Why do women do .... etc' or 'Why do men do .... etc'? I think the best way to address issues are "Why do some people do .... etc?"

Manners, behaviours shouldn't be gender based should they? Men are known to suffer PMS type symptoms or go through a form of menopause just like a woman can have a "Mid life crises". Equality through and through in my eyes. And yes even though some behaviours are gender specific, its been determined in studies that most everything is a matter of learned behaviors through life experiences.

And since I am truly broke this month...I can truthfully say that I broke into my lil ones piggie bank to get the 2 cents that I paid for putting my opinion on here.
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Mar 13, 2012 1:23 AM CST rude or not
Rummy1
Rummy1Rummy1Baku, Azerbaijan38 Threads 3 Polls 565 Posts
not rude.if she is not interested,its better her not to respond and not waste her and your time.
I personally dont respond any mails or flowers if i m not interested.cheers

why would u want her to respond if she is not interested in u?
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