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Mar 18, 2012 11:10 AM CST what is love in your openion
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
amahlala: Love is what finds you when you stop trying to find love.


I Heard that many times grin cheers
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Mar 18, 2012 11:11 AM CST what is love in your openion
wolfenfun: yes rummy, i agree,the same observed symptoms of the "l" word,as with peoples' concept of god;nervousness,uncertainty,falling,fear,esctatic,loss,depression. over 1/2 the people that tell each other that they"l" each other ends up in divorce.these same people with they same belief systems,on opposite sides of the oceans,kill each other,while professing to "l" each other. it's definetly more of a curse, than a blessing. i say we stop using this bandaid,and come up with something other than this "canned" response!
how you gonna say I Love without your Identity coming into play?
Unless you think Love is something one has to be Dis-Interested,not involved in!
You can't say Love without saying "I"!

[Selfless love] would have to mean that you derive no personal pleasure or happiness from the company and the existence of the person you love, and that you are motivated only by self-sacrificial pity for that person’s need of you. I don’t have to point out to you that no one would be flattered by, nor would accept, a concept of that kind. Love is not self-sacrifice, but the most profound assertion of your own needs and values. It is for your own happiness that you need the person you love, and that is the greatest compliment, the greatest tribute you can pay to that person.

Playboy Interview: Ayn Rand
Playboy, March 1964
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Mar 18, 2012 11:17 AM CST what is love in your openion
xxlmushroomtool
xxlmushroomtoolxxlmushroomtoolwest riffa Awali, Bahrain5 Posts
nothing official about it ,its just a game played by rats to find a new hole n relax the night
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Mar 18, 2012 11:20 AM CST what is love in your openion
Boy67
Boy67Boy67Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus379 Posts
modimodi: ?????
Love is a word that poor and middle class people can use to gain access to womans private parts easy.laugh rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Mar 18, 2012 11:22 AM CST what is love in your openion
wolfenfun
wolfenfunwolfenfunriddle, Oregon USA16 Threads 5 Polls 302 Posts
as i have mentioned before.i'm a culturist.my people had ways of expressing meanings, with out the canned responses we have today. if someone likes some thing now,it's always made a little more dramatic by saying i "love"it,or them,or animal,vegetable,or mineral,it's too generic, and you say i'm the one that's being impersonal,about my expressions. what about my other statements, of care,affection,loyalty,devotion,chemistry,and passion,do those not have value or meaning. you go ahead, and use the canned response, all you want, and i'll use my long version of telling, my intented how i feel about her. the old gaelic peoples used to say do you know how fine you are to me? denoting value, and quality, i like that better. if you can't think of any other word(s) to describe how you feel about someone other than the canned response,then good luck with that. notice i didn't have to quote someone else?
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Mar 18, 2012 11:40 AM CST what is love in your openion
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Conrad73: how you gonna say I Love without your Identity coming into play?
Unless you think Love is something one has to be Dis-Interested,not involved in!
You can't say Love without saying "I"!

[Selfless love] would have to mean that you derive no personal pleasure or happiness from the company and the existence of the person you love, and that you are motivated only by self-sacrificial pity for that person’s need of you. I don’t have to point out to you that no one would be flattered by, nor would accept, a concept of that kind. Love is not self-sacrifice, but the most profound assertion of your own needs and values. It is for your own happiness that you need the person you love, and that is the greatest compliment, the greatest tribute you can pay to that person.

Playboy Interview: Ayn Rand
Playboy, March 1964


Well, now we know your sources at least :) buddies
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Mar 25, 2012 12:07 PM CST what is love in your openion
Esperanzador
EsperanzadorEsperanzadorSeattle, Washington USA3 Posts
Love is the blossum that arises when you lose a part of yourself and focus your compassion on an other.
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Mar 25, 2012 1:21 PM CST what is love in your openion
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Its something that I hope you get to experience very soon and answer all your questions for yourself wine
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Mar 25, 2012 1:30 PM CST what is love in your openion
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
.........bump...grin
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Mar 25, 2012 1:33 PM CST what is love in your openion
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
trueheart1941: .........bump...


teddybear
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Mar 25, 2012 1:36 PM CST what is love in your openion
wolfenfun
wolfenfunwolfenfunriddle, Oregon USA16 Threads 5 Polls 302 Posts
comfort confused comfort
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Mar 25, 2012 1:36 PM CST what is love in your openion
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Bump grin
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Mar 25, 2012 1:44 PM CST what is love in your openion
modimodi
modimodimodimodiNicosia, Cyprus7 Threads 50 Posts
Boy67: Love is a word that poor and middle class people can use to gain access to womans private parts easy.

some people are accessing to womans private parts without any heart feelings, do you think they are the same? what about women with love, are they also trying to gain access there?
disagree with you my friend
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Mar 25, 2012 1:47 PM CST what is love in your openion
modimodi
modimodimodimodiNicosia, Cyprus7 Threads 50 Posts
venusenvy: Its something that I hope you get to experience very soon and answer all your questions for yourself


I hope so with real big love
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Mar 25, 2012 1:50 PM CST what is love in your openion
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
modimodi: I hope so with real big love


I think it will happen (usually when you least expect it) grin
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Mar 25, 2012 2:00 PM CST what is love in your openion
modimodi
modimodimodimodiNicosia, Cyprus7 Threads 50 Posts
venusenvy: I think it will happen (usually when you least expect it)


sure about that but im afraid from that say '' it will find you when you will stop looking for it''
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Mar 25, 2012 2:04 PM CST what is love in your openion
tajammal333
tajammal333tajammal333Rawalpindi, Punjab Pakistan6 Threads 6 Polls 54 Posts
understanding
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Mar 25, 2012 2:08 PM CST what is love in your openion
amahlala: Love is what finds you when you stop trying to find love.
applause I like that!
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Mar 25, 2012 2:09 PM CST what is love in your openion
venusenvy: I think it will happen (usually when you least expect it)
laugh ironic kind of - but I have also heard that

I think sometimes we overlook what is most obvious also
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Mar 25, 2012 2:14 PM CST what is love in your openion
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
tajammal333: understanding
...hi....when they award you...the nobel prize....in finding out.......*unerstanding a woman*....please publish......a dollar per book....you could become the richest man in the world....(bill.gates ...etc......will be working for you..............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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