wolfenfun: yes rummy, i agree,the same observed symptoms of the "l" word,as with peoples' concept of god;nervousness,uncertainty,falling,fear,esctatic,loss,depression. over 1/2 the people that tell each other that they"l" each other ends up in divorce.these same people with they same belief systems,on opposite sides of the oceans,kill each other,while professing to "l" each other. it's definetly more of a curse, than a blessing. i say we stop using this bandaid,and come up with something other than this "canned" response!
how you gonna say I Love without your Identity coming into play? Unless you think Love is something one has to be Dis-Interested,not involved in! You can't say Love without saying "I"!
[Selfless love] would have to mean that you derive no personal pleasure or happiness from the company and the existence of the person you love, and that you are motivated only by self-sacrificial pity for that person’s need of you. I don’t have to point out to you that no one would be flattered by, nor would accept, a concept of that kind. Love is not self-sacrifice, but the most profound assertion of your own needs and values. It is for your own happiness that you need the person you love, and that is the greatest compliment, the greatest tribute you can pay to that person.
as i have mentioned before.i'm a culturist.my people had ways of expressing meanings, with out the canned responses we have today. if someone likes some thing now,it's always made a little more dramatic by saying i "love"it,or them,or animal,vegetable,or mineral,it's too generic, and you say i'm the one that's being impersonal,about my expressions. what about my other statements, of care,affection,loyalty,devotion,chemistry,and passion,do those not have value or meaning. you go ahead, and use the canned response, all you want, and i'll use my long version of telling, my intented how i feel about her. the old gaelic peoples used to say do you know how fine you are to me? denoting value, and quality, i like that better. if you can't think of any other word(s) to describe how you feel about someone other than the canned response,then good luck with that. notice i didn't have to quote someone else?
Conrad73: how you gonna say I Love without your Identity coming into play? Unless you think Love is something one has to be Dis-Interested,not involved in! You can't say Love without saying "I"!
[Selfless love] would have to mean that you derive no personal pleasure or happiness from the company and the existence of the person you love, and that you are motivated only by self-sacrificial pity for that person’s need of you. I don’t have to point out to you that no one would be flattered by, nor would accept, a concept of that kind. Love is not self-sacrifice, but the most profound assertion of your own needs and values. It is for your own happiness that you need the person you love, and that is the greatest compliment, the greatest tribute you can pay to that person.
Boy67: Love is a word that poor and middle class people can use to gain access to womans private parts easy.
some people are accessing to womans private parts without any heart feelings, do you think they are the same? what about women with love, are they also trying to gain access there? disagree with you my friend
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tajammal333: understanding
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I Heard that many times