BB_snickers: Could it not be true that who you really are is already someone who is trusting and someone who aims to enhance another. I mean without waiting to see if another responds in kind. Or you reacting to them disproportionately when they do behave in a certain way?
Maybe I haven't been real clear enough; but it seems to me that we as a species in general tend to act and react based on another's behaviour rather than on our self intention or what we know our true self can be.
I'm going to be very honest Snicky.. I won't take the chance again because I am afraid of rejection. I can handle rejection of my personality and opinions but to be rejected because I am a full figured woman is something that I do not want to entertain again.
I am definitely a person to BE trusted and I did enjoy enhancing someone else's life but it all backfired on me because I was to eager to be in love with him.
Hey - I think my responses are hijacking this thread and I'm sorry about that. I got too serious in my posts....Sowwy... Thanks for responding even though I wasn't on point with your subject...
montemonte: I'm going to be very honest Snicky.. I won't take the chance again because I am afraid of rejection. I can handle rejection of my personality and opinions but to be rejected because I am a full figured woman is something that I do not want to entertain again.
I am definitely a person to BE trusted and I did enjoy enhancing someone else's life but it all backfired on me because I was to eager to be in love with him.
Hey - I think my responses are hijacking this thread and I'm sorry about that. I got too serious in my posts....Sowwy... Thanks for responding even though I wasn't on point with your subject...
Not to worry. As they say, "it all comes out in the wash". You just use different detergent.
BB_snickers: Difficult to find in you is the important, self realization part.
Difficult to find similarity,acceptation and love of course, self realization part is very important when the other part fill the needs mentally and physically and vice versa
minnie50: Difficult to find similarity,acceptation and love of course, self realization part is very important when the other part fill the needs mentally and physically and vice versa
I think this all stems from what we 'want' ourselves to be in relationship.
I want to trust. I want to be loved for myself, flaws and all. I have so much love to give and want a partner willing and ready to accept it all. I want the feeling of security. I want a man that can tame me.
Kaybee50: I want to trust. I want to be loved for myself, flaws and all. I have so much love to give and want a partner willing and ready to accept it all. I want the feeling of security. I want a man that can tame me.
I want to be loved for myself, flaws and all. That's self if you strike the d from loved.
I have so much love to give and want a partner willing and ready to accept it all. And I wish that for you but that's not self. Self would be something like "I'm ready and willing to accept it all in a man cos he has so much to love give."
I want the feeling of security. That's self if not reliant on another.
I want a man that can tame me. Self, would be something like "I want to be tame, cos I know I'm untame.
Just flipping the mirror of expectation, so you can see your 'self'. Doors opening?
We really are loving humans, when we look in that mirror of positive expectation in others.
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who said it's easy? is reciprocal, both ways...simple & difficult to find.