Second Chances... (55)
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person?
No second chances. Once they start to pull stunts they are only going to escalate if you give them the chance.
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
It all depends on what the second chance is for, and like you say, how much you love this person.
I think a lot of people use their partners indiscretion (whatever it was) as the excuse to get out, in so far as they weren't brave/strong enough to make the break without that excuse
Glengirl: It all depends on what the second chance is for, and like you say, how much you love this person.
I think a lot of people use their partners indiscretion (whatever it was) as the excuse to get out, in so far as they weren't brave/strong enough to make the break without that excuse
I think a lot of people use their partners indiscretion (whatever it was) as the excuse to get out, in so far as they weren't brave/strong enough to make the break without that excuse
That's true and if you give them a second chance they will only have to cheat again to try and get your attention.
Are you talking just a second chance Mac or are you talking third and fourth chances too?
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
I think we all deserve a second chance, but if you don't learn by your mistake then that's it, you're out. No more chances.
facetowardsfront: That's true and if you give them a second chance they will only have to cheat again to try and get your attention.
Are you talking just a second chance Mac or are you talking third and fourth chances too?
Are you talking just a second chance Mac or are you talking third and fourth chances too?
Cheating is about the only instance that I would consider giving a second chance (and I'm not sure that I would). If it involved an addiction, drink/drugs/gambling etc, not a hope in hell
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Yeh I'd defo give a second chance. I guess it depends on the situation. If I really liked someone I'd hope we could sort it out. But some things just cant be sorted I guess.Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Glengirl: Cheating is about the only instance that I would consider giving a second chance (and I'm not sure that I would). If it involved an addiction, drink/drugs/gambling etc, not a hope in hell
Oh God yeah, the addicts would take as many chances as you were foolish enough to give them
its like what everyone is saying it depends on the situation and how you feel about that person but I would guarantee 100% there wouldn't be a third chance....
tusiemc: its like what everyone is saying it depends on the situation and how you feel about that person but I would guarantee 100% there wouldn't be a third chance....
Tusie we both know you'd be giving me chance after chance
Short Answer Macca: No. And I wouldn't expect a second chance either.
facetowardsfront: That's true and if you give them a second chance they will only have to cheat again to try and get your attention.
Are you talking just a second chance Mac or are you talking third and fourth chances too?
Are you talking just a second chance Mac or are you talking third and fourth chances too?
Just second chances, i know there are people out there that would run a mile and not even contemplate a second chance..men and women!! we're all human after all and can make mistakes
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
I do believe in second chances. Unforunately, also in third and fourth chances, which, I have learned, is not always a good way to be.
Nobody is without flaws. We all make mistakes. If BOTH parties involved are willing to admit to them, learn from them and forgive them, then there is no good reason to not try and rebuild the relationship - as long as both still have feelings for each other.
However, there comes a time when enough is enough and there is no going back.
In the case of cheating, it would very much depend on the circumstances.
mcattack: Just second chances, i know there are people out there that would run a mile and not even contemplate a second chance..men and women!! we're all human after all and can make mistakes
Ok, that's fair enough but after the first mistake I would tell them, as I have done, "you did that once and you may do it twice but you won't do it a third time". They can figure that out
Most likely not, once trust is lost...can be kinda hard to find it again.
I believe in 2nd chances because we can all make mistakes but it would depend on the circumstances, of course. Like what the person did to need a 2nd chance and whether or not they really wanted one. I think I would draw the line at 3rd or 4th chances, though. However, we all have different tolerance levels and some of us could have been bitten so many times that we can't give any more chances to anybody.
mcattack: Tusie we both know you'd be giving me chance after chance
absolutely macca your so special and an exception to the rule
mcattack: Do you think everyone deserves a second chance in a relationship or are you the the "once bitten twice shy" type of person??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??
I might give a second chance but i don't think i'll ever trust that person again...
MADDOG69: Short Answer Macca: No. And I wouldn't expect a second chance either.
Why though?? have you ever cheated on anyone??
Alpina84: I might give a second chance but i don't think i'll ever trust that person again...
If you can't trust the person you're with, you shouldn't be there.
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Now i know the people that have been burned by a cheat before will say "once a cheater always a cheater" and all that craic, i'm all for giving someone a second chance, of course it depends who it was and how i felt about them, but if i loved her then i'd give her a second chance and see if we can rebuild our relationship and start trusting again....well??