am i relly that bad :( (14)

im a sporty lad as i play soccer nd im a goalkeeper bt find it hard to get a woman even tho ive a heart of gold nd jst want the best for any lady can any1 give me a few tips?? i have a warm heart nd always spoil any girl i have been on a date bt wen it comes to relationships i cnt find no1 :(
i got dumped by my ex for been to sweet by txt.. wud love to hear wat uses have got to say

I know what your saying. Ditto with me. All your female friends cant understand coz "your such a nice guy". I even had female friends tell me "if I ever got hooked up she would interview her make sure she was good enough for me".
Sorry dont have any advice if I did I wouldnt be on this site!

Don't use the text language when you mailing them for a start.Seemingly women on here don't like it.

You dont seem to me to be very confident in yourself?? Your pointing out your good points but then turning them into a reason why your not having much luck with the ladies. I think you should build up your confidence and believe that you are the type of man that a girl would be lucky to have spoiling them Try toughen up a lil bit but no need to try turn yourself into some hardman that your not, girls dont like fellas that are too sweet/soft/nice in my opinion. They like a man to be a man and maybe a bit of a challenge at times

JMO of course

cheers every1 for the messages :D

be a bollix

Well, we dont know you, so, its kinda hard to give you advice on your personality, we can only comment on what you are telling us, which is jusy your opinion of yourself. Maybe you come across differently in real life

Based on what you said though, others have more or less said what I'm gonna say, but, just dont dwell so much on trying to find someone, your only a young falla still, live a little, enjoying doing the things you do, have fun, be confident, even if you dont really feel it, still, who's to know that?!

There is such a thing as being too nice, you dont want to be a push over, women want a strong man, the 'hunter gatherer', a confident man whom has his own mind and does his own things, not necessarily a sweet guy that you see in soppy chick flicks, thats not to say you cant be sweet and spoil a lady etc, but being overly sweet is defo a kiss of death!

Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen