Interracial Dating ( Archived) (20)

Sep 30, 2012 4:22 PM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest
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Sep 30, 2012 4:30 PM CST Interracial Dating
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest
I think it depends who your attracted to. I see old white men with asian girls and older women with younger men, it's like trend. I suppose people don't judge as much as they would years ago. Live and let live.cheers
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Sep 30, 2012 4:39 PM CST Interracial Dating
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
The cultural differences are more important than the race in itself.

It can make things go wrong, not race, at least for me.
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Sep 30, 2012 4:41 PM CST Interracial Dating
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
GUZMAN1: The cultural differences are more important than the race in itself.

It can make things go wrong, not race, at least for me.

That's a good point.thumbs up
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Sep 30, 2012 4:44 PM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
GUZMAN1: The cultural differences are more important than the race in itself.

It can make things go wrong, not race, at least for me.



you are very right about that religion is probably the biggest factor also
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Sep 30, 2012 4:49 PM CST Interracial Dating
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
escobar84: you are very right about that religion is probably the biggest factor also
Religion is a cultural factor.

It can create a great disagreement between persons, sure.
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Sep 30, 2012 4:59 PM CST Interracial Dating
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest


Your name is scary....uh oh uh oh
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Sep 30, 2012 5:02 PM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
montemonte: Your name is scary....


people fear what they don't understand
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Sep 30, 2012 5:03 PM CST Interracial Dating
LuckysEdge
LuckysEdgeLuckysEdgeMississauga, Ontario Canada18 Posts
GUZMAN1: Religion is a cultural factor.

It can create a great disagreement between persons, sure.


Religion can be a huge factor even within the same culture.

I'd hate to think that I was holding someone back from being completely true to their faith and certainly wouldn't change my beliefs for the sake of a relationship.
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Sep 30, 2012 5:19 PM CST Interracial Dating
Dadude62
Dadude62Dadude62Elkton, Maryland USA1,120 Posts
escobar84: people fear what they don't understand


Maybe she thinks your first name is Pablo..
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Sep 30, 2012 5:56 PM CST Interracial Dating
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest


I agree with the guys above. Culture can be a big issue. Personally I would choose the person that I am attracted to (in many ways), race being a secondary consideration.

Just heard on the tube this morning that Alabama didn't change its race laws until 2000! Interracial marriage was illegal until then. THAT says a lot about the attitudes that still exist.

I think that that sort of thinking goes away more with every generation of more enlightened people
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Sep 30, 2012 6:14 PM CST Interracial Dating
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Meh the heart wants what the heart wants heart wings
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Oct 6, 2012 10:58 AM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
peace
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Oct 6, 2012 11:06 AM CST Interracial Dating
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
I dont think race is or should be an issue but culture can be an issue and requires communication and flexibility for both people. Religion can be a major factor if you both decide to have children, even if it is not a problem to begin with.
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Oct 6, 2012 11:07 AM CST Interracial Dating
Rumple4skin
Rumple4skinRumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK4 Threads 1 Polls 980 Posts
In response to: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest


There's a racial pecking order for physical attraction.

There's a cultural pecking order for personality attraction.

For me, at least.
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Oct 6, 2012 11:10 AM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84: people fear what they don't understand

and sometimes they fear because they understand quite well....but I don't see why your name would bescary. I'd be a bit hesitant about the sunglasses - like - are u hiding????laugh
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Oct 6, 2012 11:17 AM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest


I haven't given it much thought. personality and having things in common and being attracted to each other is most important
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Oct 6, 2012 12:32 PM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
felixis99: and sometimes they fear because they understand quite well....but I don't see why your name would bescary. I'd be a bit hesitant about the sunglasses - like - are u hiding????


well my middle name is escobar some people call me esco for short i m mixed and very proud of my heritage and background
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Oct 6, 2012 12:48 PM CST Interracial Dating
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
escobar84: ...i m mixed and very proud of my heritage and background

Which begs the question, how can any of us guarantee we are in a relationship within our own race, given its unlikely that any of us are of only one race.
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Oct 6, 2012 12:51 PM CST Interracial Dating
escobar84
escobar84escobar84decatur, Georgia USA5 Threads 14 Posts
jac379: Which begs the question, how can any of us guarantee we are in a relationship within our own race, given its unlikely that any of us are of only one race.


good question are you mix what is your nationality
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