escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest
I think it depends who your attracted to. I see old white men with asian girls and older women with younger men, it's like trend. I suppose people don't judge as much as they would years ago. Live and let live.
It can create a great disagreement between persons, sure.
Religion can be a huge factor even within the same culture.
I'd hate to think that I was holding someone back from being completely true to their faith and certainly wouldn't change my beliefs for the sake of a relationship.
escobar84: What are your views, do you prefer a certain race or sticking to your race or it doesn't matter be honest
I agree with the guys above. Culture can be a big issue. Personally I would choose the person that I am attracted to (in many ways), race being a secondary consideration.
Just heard on the tube this morning that Alabama didn't change its race laws until 2000! Interracial marriage was illegal until then. THAT says a lot about the attitudes that still exist.
I think that that sort of thinking goes away more with every generation of more enlightened people
I dont think race is or should be an issue but culture can be an issue and requires communication and flexibility for both people. Religion can be a major factor if you both decide to have children, even if it is not a problem to begin with.
and sometimes they fear because they understand quite well....but I don't see why your name would bescary. I'd be a bit hesitant about the sunglasses - like - are u hiding????
felixis99: and sometimes they fear because they understand quite well....but I don't see why your name would bescary. I'd be a bit hesitant about the sunglasses - like - are u hiding????
well my middle name is escobar some people call me esco for short i m mixed and very proud of my heritage and background
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
escobar84: ...i m mixed and very proud of my heritage and background
Which begs the question, how can any of us guarantee we are in a relationship within our own race, given its unlikely that any of us are of only one race.
jac379: Which begs the question, how can any of us guarantee we are in a relationship within our own race, given its unlikely that any of us are of only one race.
good question are you mix what is your nationality
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