Hello everyone! hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
vic86: Hello everyone! hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me.
i think everyone brings something different to a relationship. and you can't measure it. often we hear reasons for breakups as money, distance, family stuff... but i don't really believe these are the real reasons in many cases as i believe it's deeper than that. if two folks love each other and want to be together, they'll work through those things together. jmho
venusenvy: I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me.
So it does matter? You're contradicting yourself there
butterfly0123: So it does matter? You're contradicting yourself there
where's the contradiction? if one person is working outside the home earning money and the other is working in the home but not earning money... (or perhaps volunteering somewhere) are they both not working?
vic86: Hello everyone! hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
Could be lack of understanding. If you were not generous but had money would not the lack of generosity become the prime factor? Or would you see it as still the money being the problem?
jono7: where's the contradiction? if one person is working outside the home earning money and the other is working in the home but not earning money... (or perhaps volunteering somewhere) are they both not working?
venusenvy: I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me.
vic86: Hello everyone! hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
Money is one of the major issues in a relationship, and few things cause more fights withing a relationship.
no, you did not quote me.. nor did you answer my question... was wondering what the contradiction was as i wasn't seeing it. so wondered what you saw that i may of missed. have a nice day.
Its not money to me but the standard of living is at the beginning and what they become accustom to. When money levels drops below that comfort level is when the stress comes out. When it drops quickly than the couple is use to, stress is even greater. Its not the money but a triggering factor in what once was happy relationship. So yeas money does become a factor in a relationship.
jono7: i think everyone brings something different to a relationship. and you can't measure it. often we hear reasons for breakups as money, distance, family stuff... but i don't really believe these are the real reasons in many cases as i believe it's deeper than that. if two folks love each other and want to be together, they'll work through those things together. jmho
I agree Jono!! Usually those things are the symptom with something else as the "reason behind the reason"
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vic86: Hello everyone! hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
For a good relationship there must be honesty and generosity of understanding, caring, loving.....wanting to make it work, wanting to be together!
lifeisadream: For a good relationship there must be honesty and generosity of understanding, caring, loving.....wanting to make it work, wanting to be together!Money comes and goes.
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hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.