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Oct 27, 2012 11:54 AM CST Relationships & Money
vic86
vic86vic86Manama, Bahrain19 Threads 41 Posts
Hello everyone!
hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
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Oct 27, 2012 11:55 AM CST Relationships & Money
zmountainman
zmountainmanzmountainmanMotril, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 186 Posts
vic86: Hello everyone!
hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.


Or a lack of moneydunno
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Oct 27, 2012 11:57 AM CST Relationships & Money
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me. wine
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Oct 27, 2012 12:20 PM CST Relationships & Money
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i think everyone brings something different to a relationship.
and you can't measure it.
often we hear reasons for breakups as money, distance, family stuff...
but i don't really believe these are the real reasons in many cases as i
believe it's deeper than that. if two folks love each other and want to be
together, they'll work through those things together.
jmho
wine
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Oct 27, 2012 2:34 PM CST Relationships & Money
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
zmountainman: Or a lack of money


thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2012 2:36 PM CST Relationships & Money
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
venusenvy: I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me.


So it does matter? confused You're contradicting yourself there
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Oct 27, 2012 2:39 PM CST Relationships & Money
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
income minus one pound expenditure happiness, income plus one pound expenditure misery, any one know where this came from?????
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Oct 27, 2012 2:57 PM CST Relationships & Money
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
butterfly0123: So it does matter? You're contradicting yourself there


where's the contradiction?
if one person is working outside the home earning money
and the other is working in the home but not earning money...
(or perhaps volunteering somewhere)
are they both not working?
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Oct 27, 2012 3:11 PM CST Relationships & Money
1Bell4truth
1Bell4truth1Bell4truthLumberton, North Carolina USA1 Threads 1 Polls 108 Posts
vic86: Hello everyone!
hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.
Could be lack of understanding. If you were not generous but had money would not the lack of generosity become the prime factor? Or would you see it as still the money being the problem?
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Oct 27, 2012 3:25 PM CST Relationships & Money
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
jono7: where's the contradiction?
if one person is working outside the home earning money
and the other is working in the home but not earning money...
(or perhaps volunteering somewhere)
are they both not working?



Did I quote you? No, I think not
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Oct 27, 2012 4:56 PM CST Relationships & Money
venusenvy: I dont think money plays that big of a part in the end. I want my partner to be as hard working as I am but thats about as far as it goes ...At least for me.


So your partner can't be retired, then? grin
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Oct 27, 2012 4:59 PM CST Relationships & Money
vic86: Hello everyone!
hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.


Money is one of the major issues in a relationship, and few things cause more fights withing a relationship.
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Oct 27, 2012 5:14 PM CST Relationships & Money
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
butterfly0123: Did I quote you? No, I think not


no, you did not quote me..
nor did you answer my question... laugh
was wondering what the contradiction was as i wasn't
seeing it. so wondered what you saw that i may of missed.
have a nice day.handshake
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Oct 27, 2012 5:32 PM CST Relationships & Money
BadinPaid
BadinPaidBadinPaidmesa, Arizona USA1 Threads 12 Posts
Its not money to me but the standard of living is at the beginning and what they become accustom to. When money levels drops below that comfort level is when the stress comes out. When it drops quickly than the couple is use to, stress is even greater. Its not the money but a triggering factor in what once was happy relationship. So yeas money does become a factor in a relationship.
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Oct 27, 2012 6:55 PM CST Relationships & Money
jono7: i think everyone brings something different to a relationship.
and you can't measure it.
often we hear reasons for breakups as money, distance, family stuff...
but i don't really believe these are the real reasons in many cases as i
believe it's deeper than that. if two folks love each other and want to be
together, they'll work through those things together.
jmho
thumbs up I agree Jono!! Usually those things are the symptom with something else as the "reason behind the reason"
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Oct 27, 2012 10:25 PM CST Relationships & Money
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
vic86: Hello everyone!
hope everyone is good, money is like paper blood but at times does money interfers all the time in a relationship?how does it affect? i tend to be generous most of the times but I have seen in several cases where money becomes a prime factor in a relationship?or is it because of lack of mutual understanding.


For a good relationship there must be honesty and generosity of understanding, caring, loving.....wanting to make it work, wanting to be together!


Money comes and goes.


typing
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Oct 27, 2012 10:33 PM CST Relationships & Money
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
lifeisadream: For a good relationship there must be honesty and generosity of understanding, caring, loving.....wanting to make it work, wanting to be together!Money comes and goes.


hiya lifeisadream wave

boy! wish i'd said that! thumbs up

(just corrected a typo...had lifeisateam...(grin)
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Oct 27, 2012 10:38 PM CST Relationships & Money
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
jono7: hiya lifeisadream

boy! wish i'd said that!

(just corrected a typo...had lifeisateam...(grin)



Hi Jono!

Quite better: Life is a team!


A good relationship is one working -as a team - for the same goals, dreams,.......





wave
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Oct 27, 2012 10:41 PM CST Relationships & Money
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
jono7: --


And please stop answering other people's post!









rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 27, 2012 10:56 PM CST Relationships & Money
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
lifeisadream: And please stop answering other people's post!


That was in jest.



I just couldn't resist!



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