What must we do or what the topic of our conversation when the first date (48)
smallcutesemarang, Central Java Indonesia3 Threads 45 Postsi am asian woman and have a penpals friend..he is from australia.. he is funny and i look we are similar with conversation , and some we talk about the serious and i meet the same with him.. he wants to visit me nest year to my country and this is the first time to me to have dating with western friend 
.. pls suggest me how must i do or what the topic for our conversation.. thx
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smallcute: i am asian woman and have a penpals friend..he is from australia.. he is funny and i look we are similar with conversation , and some we talk about the serious and i meet the same with him.. he wants to visit me nest year to my country and this is the first time to me to have dating with western friend .. pls suggest me how must i do or what the topic for our conversation.. thx
Just say G'day... and show him some of your country sights... you will find conversation will just flow on from there...
Good luck.
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Trust me, you don`t wanna hear any advice from Boban1
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Boban1: Trust me, you don`t wanna hear any advice from Boban1
LOL Boban, you always have extreme advice, just give her one advice.
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smallcute: i am asian woman and have a penpals friend..he is from australia.. he is funny and i look we are similar with conversation , and some we talk about the serious and i meet the same with him.. he wants to visit me nest year to my country and this is the first time to me to have dating with western friend .. pls suggest me how must i do or what the topic for our conversation.. thx
When you first meet him, if conversation slows, talk about the setting. Whatever is around you. Say you meet at the airport. You can talk about that advertising poster, that man's luggage, how many people wait for a taxi, anything that you see.
It is easy to talk of other things. It is harder to talk of you or of him. That will come in time.
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dont plan or expect anything ....just be yourself
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Of course I will show my country Merry..thanx
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smallcute: i am asian woman and have a penpals friend..he is from australia.. he is funny and i look we are similar with conversation , and some we talk about the serious and i meet the same with him.. he wants to visit me nest year to my country and this is the first time to me to have dating with western friend .. pls suggest me how must i do or what the topic for our conversation.. thx
First of all,u have to make sure that he doesn't know anything about u seeking advice on C.S.
I would say if he knows,what u done here.He'll drop u as a hot patatoe n I also believe he'll not come to visit u at all !
It seem u done wrong move,but anyway that's my opinion n I can only hope that he might have positive view on what u try to achieve.
I wish u going to learn good lesson one r the other way !
Try to be more responsible n good luck.
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If i were on her shoes i can check his personal documents like passport and i would insist his bc,i sound stupid but i would do that
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vodla3: First of all,u have to make sure that he doesn't know anything about u seeking advice on C.S.
I would say if he knows,what u done here.He'll drop u as a hot patatoe n I also believe he'll not come to visit u at all !
It seem u done wrong move,but anyway that's my opinion n I can only hope that he might have positive view on what u try to achieve.
I wish u going to learn good lesson one r the other way !
Try to be more responsible n good luck.
I would say if he knows,what u done here.He'll drop u as a hot patatoe n I also believe he'll not come to visit u at all !
It seem u done wrong move,but anyway that's my opinion n I can only hope that he might have positive view on what u try to achieve.
I wish u going to learn good lesson one r the other way !
Try to be more responsible n good luck.
I disagree entirely. Unless YOU are HE.
And even then...ok, so, she's nervous, she doesn't really seek advice, just reassurance...what's wrong with that?
But if you ARE he, maybe she's better off without someone so suspicious and untrusting.
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You better ask your aussie about his interests in life and there u can get an idea,and just a piece of advice dont marry a western for green card save asian women image,i hope u dont mind:-)
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Frends.. I am a bit nervous and just ask advise what the topic of our conversation? Bcs he decide to my country and I do not want to dissapoint him if we hv no the good topic to talking..do you ever feel useless to visit your friend from another country if just for meet with dissapoinment? Come on..let's possitive thinking..and if I want to look his privacy document like passport..is it polite?
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Migsy: You better ask your aussie about his interests in life and there u can get an idea,and just a piece of advice dont marry a western for green card save asian women image,i hope u dont mind:-)
Migsy! So adorably cute, yet so hard-bitten and practical, and proud too. I'm impressed.
But, from Smallcute's original post, it would seem she has already chatted the fellow up quite a bit. No doubt she already knows his interests and such, or they wouldn't be planning a meet.
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Depends if u are like me i can do that ,but you and me are different so just be yourself,:-)
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Thanks dagosto,i have heard a lot of stupid asian women who married western men just for green card that i found stupidity..
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smallcute: Frends.. I am a bit nervous and just ask advise what the topic of our conversation? Bcs he decide to my country and I do not want to dissapoint him if we hv no the good topic to talking..do you ever feel useless to visit your friend from another country if just for meet with dissapoinment? Come on..let's possitive thinking..and if I want to look his privacy document like passport..is it polite?
Just be yourself, both of you have to be comfortable with each other and like each other to get a relationship of the ground. If both of you don't know what to say, talk about your country and the sights etc. If it's meant to be, you'll get a conversation going and get on.
I wish you best of luck and hope you both enjoy your time together.
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JulesLove: LOL Boban, you always have extreme advice, just give her one advice.
well I was gonna advice to either show up for the first date in a wedding dress ,followed by her family and a minister or
a dressed up as catwoman , leather outfit and a whip...
First impression is very important ...
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