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umm by the way, why you dig out asian? is there any particular reasons for your propensity?
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umm by the way, why you dig out asian? is there any particular reasons for your propensity?
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In response to: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
I may be wrong, but you seem to come across as being somewhat needy, i'm going to stay away from the fact that it's Indian men that You're having problems with. I don't think it's a cultural issue. You say that You have been "dumped" 8 times in 7 years and used by many men. Maybe You need to take a look at Yourself, i don't mean that you're not attractive or You're not a nice person, but do You really know Yourself? It seems that You jump from one failed relationship to the next. Have You ever considered being single for a while so that You can get to know Yourself? Think about what values You have, what You want out of life etc. You seem to be basing your sense of self worth on whether or not you're in a relationship. Give yourself a break, maybe seek some form of councelling as to why you feel you need to be in a relationship, develop your own sense of self worth, By being confident in yourself and working on your personal values, you'll become more attractive to the right kind of people, don't sell yourself short.
Goodluck with your future.
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wisdombeam: umm by the way, why you dig out asian? is there any particular reasons for your propensity?
Who you talking to?
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jac379: Perhaps your problem is focussing upon Indian-ness, rather than appropriate-partner-ness.
There is so much more to a human being than their race, or nationality.
If you make shallow choices, expect a shallow response.
There is so much more to a human being than their race, or nationality.
If you make shallow choices, expect a shallow response.
right, ny thoughts too
also no that's not a boat I am in....you may want to look at your choices and make sure you don't sleep with them right away unless u don't care if they walk away. IME they tend to with hold (lie by omission) their real intention - which is usually just getting laid
but expect that from most men not just Indian men
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Hi Michelle, have you familiarised youself with Indian culture? You have to consider different religions, moral values, upbringing etc. Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone from India and know about their motivations etc.?
On another note, if you do notice yourself that you have beend used and that you are too trusting, did you ever consider working on that? I personally believe you can only be happy with someone if you are happy with yourself. If you are vulnerable and needy, what type of men will you attract?
I do wish you best of luck.
On another note, if you do notice yourself that you have beend used and that you are too trusting, did you ever consider working on that? I personally believe you can only be happy with someone if you are happy with yourself. If you are vulnerable and needy, what type of men will you attract?
I do wish you best of luck.
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Hi Michelle, have you familiarised youself with Indian culture? You have to consider different religions, moral values, upbringing etc. Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone from India and know about their motivations etc.?
On another note, if you do notice yourself that you have beend used and that you are too trusting, did you ever consider working on that? I personally believe you can only be happy with someone if you are happy with yourself. If you are vulnerable and needy, what type of men will you attract?
I do wish you best of luck.
On another note, if you do notice yourself that you have beend used and that you are too trusting, did you ever consider working on that? I personally believe you can only be happy with someone if you are happy with yourself. If you are vulnerable and needy, what type of men will you attract?
I do wish you best of luck.
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michelle000: I am talking the early 30s age and yes i think they do require alot more from a woman then a westeren man
they can require all they want, doesn't mean they are getting it...
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When you say Indian man are you referring to the people from India???
Here in USA when we say Indian men its referring to Native American Indian. (e.g. Choctaw, Chickasaw, Cherokee, Creek, Seminole, Kiowa....etc)
Here in USA when we say Indian men its referring to Native American Indian. (e.g. Choctaw, Chickasaw, Cherokee, Creek, Seminole, Kiowa....etc)
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I have been dumped by Indian women.I dont think that the Indian people are as stable in their relationship as people believed them to be.Whats more I kept waiting for my wife for 10 years declining all other marriage proposals and then one fine morning she says you are divorced.Ten years I led a celibate life,just to get this divorce notice.
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horseandstag: I have been dumped by Indian women.I dont think that the Indian people are as stable in their relationship as people believed them to be.Whats more I kept waiting for my wife for 10 years declining all other marriage proposals and then one fine morning she says you are divorced.Ten years I led a celibate life,just to get this divorce notice.
Buy a sock an some potatoes my friend.
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jac379: Perhaps your problem is focussing upon Indian-ness, rather than appropriate-partner-ness.
There is so much more to a human being than their race, or nationality.
If you make shallow choices, expect a shallow response.
There is so much more to a human being than their race, or nationality.
If you make shallow choices, expect a shallow response.
Jac - Well said!
You must be one amazing woman....
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michelle000: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
Dear if u are dumped 8 times in 7 yrs than the fault lies in u.if u are dumped for 1st times its not u r fault but if u r dumped for 8 times than 100% u r faulty.and try to know whether they want to move out of india or they are looking for sugar mommy.when i send mail to women`s on this site i clearly write that i not willing to get out of my country or want any country visa.Due to that no women wants to keep relationship with me.Now thinking to write that if needed i will relocate so that i will get some response
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michelle000: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
Firstly, you need to understand the 'general makeup' of a male. We are hunters. We hunt love, just like other things.
Men are not, by nature, patient. We don't wait around for a woman to 'make up her mind'. We work on a principal of 'we make up our mind relatively quickly' so our 'prey' or the one we are interested in should also be able to make up her mind relatively quickly.
Women on the other hand can take seemingly forever. Women, generally speaking, are very very very cautious about exposing their true feelings about a man too soon. Women try to find every single excuse under the sun to 'rule out' a man as a candidate for a long-term relationship. Only after exhausting this, do they then express how they feel.
Often men perceive this caution and patience, as a sign of "not interested". So men go hunting elsewhere. No point hunting something that you just can't catch relatively quickly......
The other things you need to look at with "ASIA" (including India) is culture. Generally speaking, women are far less in value, worth, and standing. So women do not have the same rights.
You being from a more 'liberated' culture will find that often men in these cultures will 'hunt' you with all manners. But dig just below the surface and the cultural beliefs and thinking about women will raise themselves up.
Why do you think so many Asian women want to be with Western men? Because Western men treat them better than their own do, generally speaking.
I know from personal friendships with many Asian women I am proud to call my friends, and also from my Fiance, who I am proud to be in love with and soon will marry.
And as others have said, there are those that want marriage, but others that want a free ride into another country.
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michelle000: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
You must be asking for money, which sometimes take a while after a few weeks gone by. That's what I have experienced with scammers.....exactly same thing, and when I tell them I will not send any money I get dumped.
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michelle000: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
I assume that they are foreigners...and there are so many "the next stories"... If I were you I will date the same Irish (native)...
Relationship is about personality things....Do you like them just because they are Asian/Indian or because you like their personalities ???
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hi,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I m sri lankan boy if u like me.chat with me,face book - Prabath dushyantha
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michelle000: Hi all i hope somebody could see where i could be going wrong.i am a 33 year old irish woman who likes asian and indian men but i am finding they start out all intrested but then after just a few weeks they dump me just when i feel i trust them..i have been dumped 8 times in 7 year and used by many other men i know i am too trusting and fall for a man very fast,is anybody in same boat as me,i would love some advice
Perhaps its time to expand your dating pool. I don't think being Asian or Indian has anything to do with it. Its the qualities you're looking for and what you can or cannot tolerate.
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I can give you some advice if you want to meet up,then we can sleep together and I will dump you thus you have learned a valuable lesson in life,and I´m not even Indian.