Catsy: Messages? Talking on Skype or Yahoo? If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do??? ADVICE! TY
I'm not so sure it can be so easily defined. It is different for everyone.
One thing for sure...if only one party is writing a line per day, and the other party is not communicating, there seems to be a lack of any kind of relationship there.
Kaybee50: I'm not so sure it can be so easily defined. It is different for everyone.
One thing for sure...if only one party is writing a line per day, and the other party is not communicating, there seems to be a lack of any kind of relationship there.
This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!
Maybe he needs to develop more in depth communication skills, but maybe you need to develop more patience.
Relationships require work, whoever you're with.
Maybe the relationship is not compatible and not right for you, but before you throw things away, consider if you also need to develop in order to have a happy, healthy relationship.
One day at a time is not a bad policy in my book. If you can still learn, develop and enjoy someone's company for one more day and that day would be better for having that person around rather than not, then give it one more day. Tomorrow, decide again.
This is how intimacy grows and people become less distant.
Catsy: Yep....me too...I guess I had much more interest than him....his loss...Thanks!
Hello? what's this? my way or the high way? First thing not up to your expectations so dump the lot in the skip? I think the skip will fill up soon enough me thinks. Suggest you re-read jac's last post. Relationship is a constant compromise. Ever thought of the idea it might be your loss and not his? Work on it, communicate.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Maus19: Hello? what's this? my way or the high way? First thing not up to your expectations so dump the lot in the skip? I think the skip will fill up soon enough me thinks. Suggest you re-read jac's last post. Relationship is a constant compromise. Ever thought of the idea it might be your loss and not his? Work on it, communicate.
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!
Isnt it about 3 days since you said you thought you were in love? Glow wore of rather quickly didnt it :)
I dont do LDR personally, I think you have to be able to have actual physical contact with a person to fall in love.
Glatlol: Isnt it about 3 days since you said you thought you were in love? Glow wore of rather quickly didnt it :)
I dont do LDR personally, I think you have to be able to have actual physical contact with a person to fall in love.
Yes Glatol, I sure did Post that i believed I was in love....but I obviously don't need somebody writing me ONE WORD per day...if that....so I am calling it quits....I am not that bad off anyway...lol Thanks for writing!
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!
Catsy, didn't you write a thread yesterday that you found the one and you are in love.
Perhaps this answers the question that so many ask about falling in love with someone they never met.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
I have a theory that sometimes those who are the quietest feel the most deeply and those who are the noisiest in their protestations of love are the most shallow.
Sorry Catsy, but I don't think you've considered this man's feelings in the way you've handled things, only your own.
Maybe I'm very wrong, but this is the impression I've got.
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Talking on Skype or Yahoo?
If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY