What does a LDR consist of? ( Archived) (29)

Apr 10, 2013 2:32 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TYteddybear heart beating heart beating heart beating
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Apr 10, 2013 2:36 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
GUZMAN1
GUZMAN1GUZMAN1Barcelona, Catalonia Spain65 Threads 44 Polls 5,101 Posts
acronym for "long-distance relationship".

He is in obligation of send you flowers once a week. If not, it's not a LDR. professor laugh
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Apr 10, 2013 2:37 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
GUZMAN1: acronym for "long-distance relationship".

He is in obligation of send you flowers once a week. If not, it's not a LDR.

TY Guzman, This has NEVER happened!!!!!handshake
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Apr 10, 2013 2:44 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy: Messages?
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY


I'm not so sure it can be so easily defined. It is different for everyone.

One thing for sure...if only one party is writing a line per day, and the other party is not communicating, there seems to be a lack of any kind of relationship there. hug
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Apr 10, 2013 2:48 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Catsy: Messages?
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY

You both need to communicate your needs and desires and come to a negotiated arrangement.
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Apr 10, 2013 2:52 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
jac379: You both need to communicate your needs and desires and come to a negotiated arrangement.

You are sooo right jac....you said it, BOTH...not just one!!!!!teddybear
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Apr 10, 2013 2:55 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Kaybee50: I'm not so sure it can be so easily defined. It is different for everyone.

One thing for sure...if only one party is writing a line per day, and the other party is not communicating, there seems to be a lack of any kind of relationship there.

This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!bouquet
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Apr 10, 2013 3:05 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Catsy: Messages?
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY


This sounds like a lack of interest to me...I would end it quickly and not dwell on it. Life is too short. hug
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Apr 10, 2013 3:05 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!

Maybe he needs to develop more in depth communication skills, but maybe you need to develop more patience.

Relationships require work, whoever you're with.

Maybe the relationship is not compatible and not right for you, but before you throw things away, consider if you also need to develop in order to have a happy, healthy relationship.

One day at a time is not a bad policy in my book. If you can still learn, develop and enjoy someone's company for one more day and that day would be better for having that person around rather than not, then give it one more day. Tomorrow, decide again.

This is how intimacy grows and people become less distant.
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Apr 10, 2013 3:07 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
In response to: Messages?
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY



A MUTUAL will to share TIME and life... regardless of the distance that separates you both.

Now , it has to be MUTUAL ...as in everything in life... specially when it comes to romantic relationships.




teddybear
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Apr 10, 2013 3:14 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
2intrigued: This sounds like a lack of interest to me...I would end it quickly and not dwell on it. Life is too short.

Yep....me too...I guess I had much more interest than him....his loss...Thanks!bouquet
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Apr 10, 2013 3:18 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Catsy: Yep....me too...I guess I had much more interest than him....his loss...Thanks!


His loss indeed. teddybear
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Apr 10, 2013 3:34 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Maus19
Maus19Maus19Kilkenny, Ireland3 Threads 397 Posts
Catsy: Yep....me too...I guess I had much more interest than him....his loss...Thanks!
Hello? what's this? my way or the high way?
First thing not up to your expectations so dump the lot in the skip? I think the skip will fill up soon enough me thinks.
Suggest you re-read jac's last post. Relationship is a constant compromise. Ever thought of the idea it might be your loss and not his?
Work on it, communicate. dunno
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Apr 10, 2013 3:43 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Maus19: Hello? what's this? my way or the high way?
First thing not up to your expectations so dump the lot in the skip? I think the skip will fill up soon enough me thinks.
Suggest you re-read jac's last post. Relationship is a constant compromise. Ever thought of the idea it might be your loss and not his?
Work on it, communicate.

I was thinking this, also.
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Apr 10, 2013 3:50 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!


Isnt it about 3 days since you said you thought you were in love? Glow wore of rather quickly didnt it :)

I dont do LDR personally, I think you have to be able to have actual physical contact with a person to fall in love.
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Apr 10, 2013 3:58 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Glatlol: Isnt it about 3 days since you said you thought you were in love? Glow wore of rather quickly didnt it :)

I dont do LDR personally, I think you have to be able to have actual physical contact with a person to fall in love.

Yes Glatol, I sure did Post that i believed I was in love....but I obviously don't need somebody writing me ONE WORD per day...if that....so I am calling it quits....I am not that bad off anyway...lol
Thanks for writing!bouquet
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Apr 10, 2013 4:07 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Catsy: This is exactly what I feel. maybe it's best to end this....I am at no age nor any desperate need to fo;;ow somebody who seems so distant~! Thanks Kay!



Catsy, didn't you write a thread yesterday that you found the one and you are in love.

Perhaps this answers the question that so many ask about falling in love with someone they never met.
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Apr 10, 2013 4:09 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I have a theory that sometimes those who are the quietest feel the most deeply and those who are the noisiest in their protestations of love are the most shallow.

Sorry Catsy, but I don't think you've considered this man's feelings in the way you've handled things, only your own.

Maybe I'm very wrong, but this is the impression I've got.
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Apr 10, 2013 4:11 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy: Messages?
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If only ONE side shows interest, by writing a line per day....what would you do???
ADVICE! TY
i will ask for naked picsgiggle grin laugh laugh (fun)laugh
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Apr 10, 2013 4:15 PM CST What does a LDR consist of?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
ali110: i will ask for naked pics (fun)

Typical "Ali" answer!!!!!!1rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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