what will be best first Email to someone on connecitng singles? (38)
classicboy: I you find some good profile and you like and wanna email about your feelings,,some many things come in mind bcz you wanna express your views and get in connection with the person of the profile
so what you will write in this first email?
You don't want to know what I write because it apparently does not work so what you will write in this first email?
Next time I am starting my email as " I really know I should not be writing since they have found no cure for my nimphomania and therapy does not seem to be working,,,,,,,,and see if that will get a response
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Halv0: Yeah, I had to make a choice. Very hard thing to do. But out of respect for both, I had to make a choice.
And how does one do this? Not easily.
Oh and no, I'm not bragging, and it is really difficult to have to break the hopes and dreams of a living and beautiful person.....
And how does one do this? Not easily.
Oh and no, I'm not bragging, and it is really difficult to have to break the hopes and dreams of a living and beautiful person.....
Ummm...how does one get oneself into a position like that without being the orchestrator of it?
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sounds nice but these days,,ladies dont appreciate the owrds beautiful,love etc,,,they wanan hear some thing else
That's true, Classic. When you tell her she's beautiful it's an indicator that you have done nothing other than look at her pics and that you are only interested in her physical beauty. Never use the words love or marriage in emails to a western woman; it will send her running. In the western world love and marriage comes later. Much later.
Read her profile and respond to something specifically. Keep it short for the initial contact. Send flowers with an original message. Humor will give you extra points. Make friends with her by finding similar interests. This will separate you from all the other inane emails she gets on a regular basis.
That's true, Classic. When you tell her she's beautiful it's an indicator that you have done nothing other than look at her pics and that you are only interested in her physical beauty. Never use the words love or marriage in emails to a western woman; it will send her running. In the western world love and marriage comes later. Much later.
Read her profile and respond to something specifically. Keep it short for the initial contact. Send flowers with an original message. Humor will give you extra points. Make friends with her by finding similar interests. This will separate you from all the other inane emails she gets on a regular basis.
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My reply would be. "didn't not invited you, to mail me".
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Jillll: sounds nice but these days,,ladies dont appreciate the owrds beautiful,love etc,,,they wanan hear some thing elseThat's true, Classic. When you tell her she's beautiful it's an indicator that you have done nothing other than look at her pics and that you are only interested in her physical beauty. Never use the words love or marriage in emails to a western woman; it will send her running. In the western world love and marriage comes later. Much later.
Read her profile and respond to something specifically. Keep it short for the initial contact. Send flowers with an original message. Humor will give you extra points. Make friends with her by finding similar interests. This will separate you from all the other inane emails she gets on a regular basis.
Read her profile and respond to something specifically. Keep it short for the initial contact. Send flowers with an original message. Humor will give you extra points. Make friends with her by finding similar interests. This will separate you from all the other inane emails she gets on a regular basis.
agree completely awesome jilll,
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Boban1: Babe ,shake that moneymaker ,big poppa is in the house ...
wow! Youll have the women swooning with that one Boban!
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I had one today that said "you are eye candy, I wanna eat you"
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classicboy: I you find some good profile and you like and wanna email about your feelings,,some many things come in mind bcz you wanna express your views and get in connection with the person of the profile
so what you will write in this first email?
so what you will write in this first email?
I would say; hello-goodbye. Cause I won't get any
reply anyway.
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Halv0: Yeah, I had to make a choice. Very hard thing to do. But out of respect for both, I had to make a choice.
And how does one do this? Not easily.
Oh and no, I'm not bragging, and it is really difficult to have to break the hopes and dreams of a living and beautiful person.....
Out for respect for both, I personally think that you should have never pursued two relationships at the same time. And how does one do this? Not easily.
Oh and no, I'm not bragging, and it is really difficult to have to break the hopes and dreams of a living and beautiful person.....
Having had 3 separate experiences where men have done this with me, I personally think its awful to do this to someone.
If I make the time and effort to speak to someone to try and get to know them, then I refrain from talking with anyone else on a serious basis.
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langleygirl: Out for respect for both, I personally think that you should have never pursued two relationships at the same time.
Having had 3 separate experiences where men have done this with me, I personally think its awful to do this to someone.
If I make the time and effort to speak to someone to try and get to know them, then I refrain from talking with anyone else on a serious basis.
Having had 3 separate experiences where men have done this with me, I personally think its awful to do this to someone.
If I make the time and effort to speak to someone to try and get to know them, then I refrain from talking with anyone else on a serious basis.
I agree with you LG
I've had it happen to me too and it doesn't feel good to be discarded...candy store syndrome comes to mind. 
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classicboy: I you find some good profile and you like and wanna email about your feelings,,some many things come in mind bcz you wanna express your views and get in connection with the person of the profile
so what you will write in this first email?
so what you will write in this first email?
I'll write, hiya beauty, how much money
in your account?
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langleygirl: Out for respect for both, I personally think that you should have never pursued two relationships at the same time.
Having had 3 separate experiences where men have done this with me, I personally think its awful to do this to someone.
If I make the time and effort to speak to someone to try and get to know them, then I refrain from talking with anyone else on a serious basis.
Having had 3 separate experiences where men have done this with me, I personally think its awful to do this to someone.
If I make the time and effort to speak to someone to try and get to know them, then I refrain from talking with anyone else on a serious basis.
well said langleygirl
i'm the same.having been on the receiving end of someone pursuing another relationship while in relationship with me...i really didn't feel respected anymore. it was years ago...but i still remember the heartache it created.
i think it's ok for folks to date more than one person, as long as everyone knows about it and is ok with it. but once it starts to get serious...pursuing two relationship at the same time just made me feel like i was being played.
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in a first mail, some mention of something from the person's profile yo are trying to meet, separates it from the bulk e-messages sent out. if you want to get to know the person...some effort should be evident.
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jono7: in a first mail, some mention of something from the person's profile yo are trying to meet, separates it from the bulk e-messages sent out. if you want to get to know the person...some effort should be evident.
soooooooo demanding.
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purr4mance: soooooooo demanding.
yaaaaah..........i know......
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jono7: yaaaaah..........i know......
but i give as good as i get.....
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so what you will write in this first email?
Give the individual a compliment instead of writing "How are you?" How are you is so boring. Drives me up the wall, but a compliment or several compliments puts a smile on my face and makes me want to respond.