I only meant that sometimes there are too respponsibilities that tend to keep us from doing the things we like, not that your boyfriend would hold you back.
lalasierra: I only meant that sometimes there are too respponsibilities that tend to keep us from doing the things we like, not that your boyfriend would hold you back.
Then being in a relationship or not has eff all to do with it.
lalasierra: Being a single lady, do you have things that you would like to do before you enter a relationship.
For example: You may want to go on an all girls vacation. If you were in a relationship, you may not have that opportunity.
I wouldn't be in a relationship where I couldn't do something I enjoy on my own.
Taking the example of going on holidays, my family lives abroad so I would often fly to visit them. A partner would be welcome to come along, but I wouldn't let anyone stop me from going. I also never had a problem with someone going away with his group of friends from time to time. As long as both can agree on the amount of "we time and me time", it shouldn't be a problem
In response to: Being a single lady, do you have things that you would like to do before you enter a relationship.
For example: You may want to go on an all girls vacation. If you were in a relationship, you may not have that opportunity.
I did things I chose to do while I was married and after my late husband passed away.I'm in a relationship and I still do things I like to do.My guy does things he likes to do.
Ive pretty much knocked off my bucket list LaLa...Although I find it just grows...Ive been single for a long time and now I feel relationship ready. I think that may be the next adventure for me!
i had a 'todo' list...didn't really think of it as a bucket list, and thought it would take me at least this lifetime to tick off all the items on it. but i finished it a while back...oh no!!...what to do now...
so now it's not so much a list of things to do, but more a list of things to let go of..let go of things that hold me back or slow me down, and i try to focus on what helps me to be happy, and expand.
sooo....no list of things i'd like to do before entering a relationship, cuz if a relationship keeps me from doing something, or being who i am, it's not the relationship i want.
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For example: You may want to go on an all girls vacation. If you were in a relationship, you may not have that opportunity.