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online today!online today!emmy1morlaix, Bretagne France3 Threads 414 PostsWhen in love nothing else matters,Sun shines every day, birds sing don't care what he looks like.
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emmy1: When in love nothing else matters,Sun shines every day, birds sing don't care what he looks like.
aahh...love
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Well they do say love is blind
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truheart1941: ....£££££££££££££££££££££££££££or....$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
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truheart1941: ....£££££££££££££££££££££££££££or....$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
That's kinda cynical and, I THINK, in most cases, it is NOT true.
Want to know what money is to a woman? It's a sign of personal POWER/skill/prowess/ability/intelligence/craft/tenacity. If a man knows how to go get the bacon, he's represents a good provider who is likely to keep her safe. So money, to a woman, at least THIS woman, is a symbol for a man's ability to create a safe place to be and to love each other. When it's a young woman, it represents to her a safe father for her children who will be able to provide for them.
I do not believe I am an unusual woman. I think I am probably wired similarly to most and I can say without equivocation that "Relationships are much more important than things/possessions/money."
Money is JUST a symbol for prowess.
A LOT of men are in fact intimidated by a woman who appears not to NEED them because she has demonstrated that she can fend for herself.
Therefore, men want to feel needed as much as women want to feel safe. You all want to be our hero. AND YOU KNOW THIS IS TRUE. And we feel obliged to help you feel that way too, because it turns you on when you feel powerful and needed and capable. (Don't try to deny it!)
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CailinCallaghan: That's kinda cynical and, I THINK, in most cases, it is NOT true.
Want to know what money is to a woman? It's a sign of personal POWER/skill/prowess/ability/intelligence/craft/tenacity. If a man knows how to go get the bacon, he's represents a good provider who is likely to keep her safe. So money, to a woman, at least THIS woman, is a symbol for a man's ability to create a safe place to be and to love each other. When it's a young woman, it represents to her a safe father for her children who will be able to provide for them.
I do not believe I am an unusual woman. I think I am probably wired similarly to most and I can say without equivocation that "Relationships are much more important than things/possessions/money."
Money is JUST a symbol for prowess.
A LOT of men are in fact intimidated by a woman who appears not to NEED them because she has demonstrated that she can fend for herself.
Therefore, men want to feel needed as much as women want to feel safe. You all want to be our hero. AND YOU KNOW THIS IS TRUE. And we feel obliged to help you feel that way too, because it turns you on when you feel powerful and needed and capable. (Don't try to deny it!)
no I was joking C...in actull fact....the wellbeing of the person I was with....would take top priority....regarding her well being.......Want to know what money is to a woman? It's a sign of personal POWER/skill/prowess/ability/intelligence/craft/tenacity. If a man knows how to go get the bacon, he's represents a good provider who is likely to keep her safe. So money, to a woman, at least THIS woman, is a symbol for a man's ability to create a safe place to be and to love each other. When it's a young woman, it represents to her a safe father for her children who will be able to provide for them.
I do not believe I am an unusual woman. I think I am probably wired similarly to most and I can say without equivocation that "Relationships are much more important than things/possessions/money."
Money is JUST a symbol for prowess.
A LOT of men are in fact intimidated by a woman who appears not to NEED them because she has demonstrated that she can fend for herself.
Therefore, men want to feel needed as much as women want to feel safe. You all want to be our hero. AND YOU KNOW THIS IS TRUE. And we feel obliged to help you feel that way too, because it turns you on when you feel powerful and needed and capable. (Don't try to deny it!)
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CailinCallaghan: Thank you Larry but I personally still do not see the basis of the attraction. Of course, none of us are ever satified with our looks. Worse yet, I sculpt and, when I look at people I think "Were I God, I'd have made that person's appearance perfect for them, because I love them." (I have a few beefs with The Almighty. <RASH>) And then my mind goes about covertly correecting the lines of their architecture.
NOW, in PERSON, I understand why people are attracted to me: I am playful and goofy and I look at them. I mean I really LOOK right into their eyes and smile. They feel recognized. They see that I am harmless and that I love them already. (NOT as "in love" -- agape.) They feel "at home".
People rarely remember what you do, and they often forget what you say. But they always remember the way you make them feel about their selves.
NOW, in PERSON, I understand why people are attracted to me: I am playful and goofy and I look at them. I mean I really LOOK right into their eyes and smile. They feel recognized. They see that I am harmless and that I love them already. (NOT as "in love" -- agape.) They feel "at home".
People rarely remember what you do, and they often forget what you say. But they always remember the way you make them feel about their selves.
Oh I agree, Our Profile, Pics and word are just the wrapping Paper... The True Present is what is in our Hearts and Personality! That can take a long time to figure out even in Person...
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CailinCallaghan: Thanks! That's very kind of you, Intrigued!
I think it's all about creating for each other a space of emotional and phsyical safety: a feeling of being "home again". When we create that for each other, emotional intimacy happens and once that comes, physical intimacy is just spantaneous and natural.
Wouldn't you say this is what ladies who are friends with each other create for each other? I guess it all comes down to the T word: Trust.
Trust is rare and sacred to me. It is very flattering to me to be trusted.
I think it's all about creating for each other a space of emotional and phsyical safety: a feeling of being "home again". When we create that for each other, emotional intimacy happens and once that comes, physical intimacy is just spantaneous and natural.
Wouldn't you say this is what ladies who are friends with each other create for each other? I guess it all comes down to the T word: Trust.
Trust is rare and sacred to me. It is very flattering to me to be trusted.
Indeed, it's no accident that the primary motive, the hidden agenda in any relationship, is the yearning to return. It's the unconscious underpinning of the 'fascination' with a potential partner, the search to find the lost paradise of childhood.
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CailinCallaghan: That's kinda cynical and, I THINK, in most cases, it is NOT true.
Want to know what money is to a woman? It's a sign of personal POWER/skill/prowess/ability/intelligence/craft/tenacity. If a man knows how to go get the bacon, he's represents a good provider who is likely to keep her safe. So money, to a woman, at least THIS woman, is a symbol for a man's ability to create a safe place to be and to love each other. When it's a young woman, it represents to her a safe father for her children who will be able to provide for them.
I do not believe I am an unusual woman. I think I am probably wired similarly to most and I can say without equivocation that "Relationships are much more important than things/possessions/money."
Money is JUST a symbol for prowess.
A LOT of men are in fact intimidated by a woman who appears not to NEED them because she has demonstrated that she can fend for herself.
Therefore, men want to feel needed as much as women want to feel safe. You all want to be our hero. AND YOU KNOW THIS IS TRUE. And we feel obliged to help you feel that way too, because it turns you on when you feel powerful and needed and capable. (Don't try to deny it!)
Want to know what money is to a woman? It's a sign of personal POWER/skill/prowess/ability/intelligence/craft/tenacity. If a man knows how to go get the bacon, he's represents a good provider who is likely to keep her safe. So money, to a woman, at least THIS woman, is a symbol for a man's ability to create a safe place to be and to love each other. When it's a young woman, it represents to her a safe father for her children who will be able to provide for them.
I do not believe I am an unusual woman. I think I am probably wired similarly to most and I can say without equivocation that "Relationships are much more important than things/possessions/money."
Money is JUST a symbol for prowess.
A LOT of men are in fact intimidated by a woman who appears not to NEED them because she has demonstrated that she can fend for herself.
Therefore, men want to feel needed as much as women want to feel safe. You all want to be our hero. AND YOU KNOW THIS IS TRUE. And we feel obliged to help you feel that way too, because it turns you on when you feel powerful and needed and capable. (Don't try to deny it!)
Yes I relate to this, and I think males want and need to protect and be a provider.
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tomcatwarne: Yes I relate to this, and I think males want and need to protect and be a provider.
I would prefer to be provided, be protected and my vices paid by my wife.
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GUZMAN1: I would prefer to be provided, be protected and my vices paid by my wife.
Yeh never happen, have you met wonder woman??????
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tomcatwarne: Yeh never happen, have you met wonder woman??????
Not yet.
Why do you think I'm in CS?
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ali110: Ladies ,what do you feel when u fall inlove ,how a guy look in your sight ?
Perfect......with all his imperfections
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truheart1941: no I was joking C...in actull fact....the wellbeing of the person I was with....would take top priority....regarding her well being.......
Well alrighty then!
I feel the same way. I am as protective of my partner/spouse as I expect him to be of me -- and likely just as aggressively so as himself. I am not likely to stand around wringing my hands while he takes on whatever. Callaghan has a tendency to leap into the breach. (Rash.) Adrenaline hits my system and I ain't askeart of nothin'. It's all no-brainers.
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HotrodLarrys: Oh I agree, Our Profile, Pics and word are just the wrapping Paper... The True Present is what is in our Hearts and Personality! That can take a long time to figure out even in Person...
Blessedly I am incredibly transparent and comfortable with myself and the outcomes that procede from who I am as I am. I've a tendency to tell any man I am interested in all the worst stuff about me right up front. If he's dissuaded, Que sera, sera...
I also think being so up front makes others more comfortable with being candid (at least, that's my intention.) Once the ice is broken people find me remarkably easy to deal with because I don't try to hide anything. Why would I? If I care for you I want you to be comfortable, to feel like you can tell me anything. How could we be friends otherwise?
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bodleing2: Indeed, it's no accident that the primary motive, the hidden agenda in any relationship, is the yearning to return. It's the unconscious underpinning of the 'fascination' with a potential partner, the search to find the lost paradise of childhood.
Sure is! But not so unconscious in me and childhood sucked so I am looking back for the comfort of perhaps the "pre-embodied" feeling of "at home" with God. And I know others feel this way too so I spill the beans straight away so there will be no unpleasant surprises.
The gentleman I man seeing is 7 years younger than myself. Christ seven years has made a huge difference in how relaxed I am. What happens, happens. I am so much more relaxed than he is. I am also a spoiler so I endeavor to put people at ease and make them laugh. Laughter is so blessed. I finally got him to laugh tonight. It made my day... It really is reinforcing to hear others laugh and to know I'm the one who provoked it. When I welcome people to my home for the first time my fist question/concern is "How can I put you at ease? I want you to feel at home and to be comfortable." I love creating that feeling in others. It makes me feel useful.
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tomcatwarne: Yes I relate to this, and I think males want and need to protect and be a provider.
That's been my experience and I really love that about men. It's sweet: one of the sweetest things about the heart and mind of a man.
Mind you, women are often just as protective and when something threatens "Mister", God have mercy on the one threatening mine, because I will have none at all.
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CailinCallaghan: Sure is! But not so unconscious in me and childhood sucked so I am looking back for the comfort of perhaps the "pre-embodied" feeling of "at home" with God. And I know others feel this way too so I spill the beans straight away so there will be no unpleasant surprises.
The gentleman I man seeing is 7 years younger than myself. Christ seven years has made a huge difference in how relaxed I am. What happens, happens. I am so much more relaxed than he is. I am also a spoiler so I endeavor to put people at ease and make them laugh. Laughter is so blessed. I finally got him to laugh tonight. It made my day... It really is reinforcing to hear others laugh and to know I'm the one who provoked it. When I welcome people to my home for the first time my fist question/concern is "How can I put you at ease? I want you to feel at home and to be comfortable." I love creating that feeling in others. It makes me feel useful.
The gentleman I man seeing is 7 years younger than myself. Christ seven years has made a huge difference in how relaxed I am. What happens, happens. I am so much more relaxed than he is. I am also a spoiler so I endeavor to put people at ease and make them laugh. Laughter is so blessed. I finally got him to laugh tonight. It made my day... It really is reinforcing to hear others laugh and to know I'm the one who provoked it. When I welcome people to my home for the first time my fist question/concern is "How can I put you at ease? I want you to feel at home and to be comfortable." I love creating that feeling in others. It makes me feel useful.
i totally agree with you, laughter cleanses the soul, and opens the heart for joy and abundance
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hoolet: Perfect......with all his imperfections
hi
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A friend in the forums askedwhat three questions would you ask God were you to find Him standing right there behind you. My answer was:
Where have you been?
Don't you know how much I was missing you?
Never mind all that. Doesn't matter. You're here now. Would you take me home now, please?
I realized those are just the same things I would say were I to look up and suddenly recognize the love of my life. Fact is, even though I am not religious at all, I am quite in love with Him and regard Him as the provider of all I need. Now if He'd just get a body...
Fact is, a man does NOT really have to be heroic to be a hero to the one who loves him. He just has to be her hero. For me that means knowing her heart's desire, something she has been missing all her life and looking for, and be the one who provides it. The man I am seeing now (Liam) is very soft spoken, nonjudgmental and accepting and he treats me very much like a lady and is tender. He loves animals and cuddles mine (except the bull. He's a little concerned about the bull as they are still the leading cause of farm deaths in this country.) He's tough enough to handle whatever comes up that needs handling and absolutely sweet to me. ("Fair and deadly"). And he's endearingly shy, (It's precious.) and generous with his hugs.
All the little things...
Where have you been?
Don't you know how much I was missing you?
Never mind all that. Doesn't matter. You're here now. Would you take me home now, please?
I realized those are just the same things I would say were I to look up and suddenly recognize the love of my life. Fact is, even though I am not religious at all, I am quite in love with Him and regard Him as the provider of all I need. Now if He'd just get a body...
Fact is, a man does NOT really have to be heroic to be a hero to the one who loves him. He just has to be her hero. For me that means knowing her heart's desire, something she has been missing all her life and looking for, and be the one who provides it. The man I am seeing now (Liam) is very soft spoken, nonjudgmental and accepting and he treats me very much like a lady and is tender. He loves animals and cuddles mine (except the bull. He's a little concerned about the bull as they are still the leading cause of farm deaths in this country.) He's tough enough to handle whatever comes up that needs handling and absolutely sweet to me. ("Fair and deadly"). And he's endearingly shy, (It's precious.) and generous with his hugs.
All the little things...
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