dessertRose2006wOPmelbourne, Victoria Australia88 posts
ive made new friends who dont live far from me but i think their taking anvantage offme..their forever asking for things..and i think they stole my mobile phone..its funny how my friend dont ask me to come round anymore.. and do yous think its wrong for my ex to bring his new girlfriend to my house...i wasnt happy ill tellya...
PanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
It seems you have the right answer already considering your "friends".
Now about your ex, if you feel uncomfortable with him bringing the new girl over, let him know.
He should respect your home. But have you thought why it bothers you that he brings her over, do you still have feelings and need closure?
I believe when sometihing is over that is it, there is no turning back, move forward and live your life.
Personally, once my ex and I got divorced, I did not care, nor had any type of feelings for him. He could bring his new girlfriend to my jouse and I was ok with that.
She was very nice, and we got along well.
When he remarried, he also brought the new wife over, and that was fine with me, let somebody else have him, I sure did not want him.
I get along with his wife, have been invited over to visit, and she has been very nice to me. We have also done family outings together, with my son, my ex, his wife, her son, and all the extra relative that like to come along. In my family, everybodys ex, is welcome to our homes.
hey rose why do you let them treat you this way and no its not right that your ex should bring is bit of stuff home to your place i know what i would tell him
You need to choose your friends more carefully, As for your ex bringing his new girlfriend to your house- What is that all about? Why would you want your ex in the house? To bring his girlfriend is taking the piss, Wake up gey rid of the lot of them
dessertRose2006wOPmelbourne, Victoria Australia88 posts
hi and thank you...it dother me a bit but i think i got a shock...i dont have feelings for him but it hurt to see him with some 1 else who was very young my ex is 46..he should asked first this is my home not hes..but a week of her being here we started talking and she also helped me do house work..and she paid her way...she was lovely to talk too...and got on well with my 4 kids...this ex thingy might work with some but to others maybe not...
dessertRose2006wOPmelbourne, Victoria Australia88 posts
i guess you right my family went mad when they found out what my ex was doing with his new tart....they even slept in the same room i was next door..he sure did rub into my face...and it hurt i never felt so used and put down...i havent seen him in weeks i told him over the phone ...hes to never todo that ever again...hes answer was,,whats the big deal...i could off slapped him...oh well i now what to do now..move on....and im trying...
dessertRose2006wOPmelbourne, Victoria Australia88 posts
as for ex who can be violent i wanted to say something but couldnt...i was to scared to... so i told him over the phone... as for my friends well i dont see them..whats the diff any how i get used all the time u soughta get use it...see its my kindness,personality that ppl take avantage off..maybe i should change instead....
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