Ending a marriage or a relationship ( Archived) (24)

Jan 14, 2014 11:33 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Who initiates/decides FIRST, to end a marriage or relationship???? He???..She???..Both.???
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Jan 14, 2014 11:38 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Sometimes it can be the man or the woman and sometimes it can be both.
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Jan 14, 2014 11:38 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
How long is a piece of string?

In my view both a ridiculous question roll eyes
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Jan 14, 2014 11:44 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
How you calculate your string???? In days,months,years, decades????confused
almera03: How long is a piece of string?

In my view both a ridiculous question
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Jan 14, 2014 11:46 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
chris27292729: Who initiates/decides FIRST, to end a marriage or relationship???? He???..She???..Both.???


How can this be answered? Every circumstance is different confused
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Jan 14, 2014 11:47 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
unlaoised: How can this be answered? Every circumstance is different


thumbs up wave
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Jan 14, 2014 11:48 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
wave wave hug
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Jan 14, 2014 11:50 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Between 66% and 90% of divorces are instigated by women. Women my age instigate divorce at nearly 10x the rate of men, the inbetween percentile is where "no-fault" divorce exists, and "mature" women only instigate divorce at twice the rate of men.

I'm not sure how this manifests in less serious relationships. As the problem of men is getting them to settle down properly in the first place, and the problem of a woman is getting her to make an enduring commitment. I suspect that men dump women more often in short relationships.
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Jan 14, 2014 11:50 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729: Who initiates/decides FIRST, to end a marriage or relationship???? He???..She???..Both.???
women
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Jan 14, 2014 11:51 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729: Who initiates/decides FIRST, to end a marriage or relationship???? He???..She???..Both.???
bad dreams in the night told me i was going to lose the fight so my girlfriend became my ex
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Jan 14, 2014 11:52 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
unlaoised: How can this be answered? Every circumstance is different
Sure,every circustance is different,but it has to start from someone.dunno
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Jan 14, 2014 11:54 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
pedro27: bad dreams in the night told me i was going to lose the fight so my girlfriend became my ex
Sotty Pedro. I forgot to aid "dreaming" as an optionlaugh
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Jan 14, 2014 11:54 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
chris27292729: Sure,every circustance is different,but it has to start from someone.


Sorry chris, I think this question is a bit silly. My story would be quite different to yours and yours quite different to the next person. It all depends on the relationship in question.
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Jan 14, 2014 11:55 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
ali110: women
If you say so.wave
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Jan 14, 2014 11:57 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
she had a temper like my jealousy, i hated her i loved her too.. i whine a lot i pine a lot, so now i groan at night...im happy though and ive come home,,, so let me in...
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Jan 14, 2014 11:59 AM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
unlaoised: Sorry chris, I think this question is a bit silly. My story would be quite different to yours and yours quite different to the next person. It all depends on the relationship in question.
If it was you,how you would off phrase it???handshake
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Jan 14, 2014 12:00 PM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
chris27292729: If it was you,how you would off phrase it???


I wouldn't have posed the question. It's too individual. Everyone has their own story dunno handshake
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Jan 14, 2014 12:03 PM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Between 66% and 90% of divorces are instigated by women. Women my age instigate divorce at nearly 10x the rate of men, the inbetween percentile is where "no-fault" divorce exists, and "mature" women only instigate divorce at twice the rate of men.

I'm not sure how this manifests in less serious relationships. As the problem of men is getting them to settle down properly in the first place, and the problem of a woman is getting her to make an enduring commitment. I suspect that men dump women more often in short relationships.
Wow,66% and 90%, so Ladies the instigating champions.cheers
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Jan 14, 2014 12:10 PM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
unlaoised: I wouldn't have posed the question. It's too individual. Everyone has their own story
And every story has a different instigator,and sometimes BOTH decide this is the END.cheers handshake
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Mar 6, 2014 3:03 PM CST Ending a marriage or a relationship
check_mate
check_matecheck_mateLondon, Greater London, England UK42 Threads 12 Polls 968 Posts
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