Well..i didnt mean to date Grannys lol..women of 30s -40s wud be just perfect. To be honest..by ex gf was 32 yrs old and we had the nest relationship ever..she was 6 years elder to me..and she felt tht she was wid some1 more elder to her ..hehe..i swear..
No,is not weird.My granny is 96 years old,and expects you,to contact her.
cheerful_sanjo: Hii ppl !! I have great desires in dating older women, I find them matured and more interesting in conversations. well is it weird to date older women ?
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
cheerful_sanjo: Well..i didnt mean to date Grannys lol..women of 30s -40s wud be just perfect. To be honest..by ex gf was 32 yrs old and we had the nest relationship ever..she was 6 years elder to me..and she felt tht she was wid some1 more elder to her ..hehe..i swear..
I'm in my 40's...and a granny.
That's not an offer, I'm just pointing out grannies can be in their 30's and 40's.
I feel like I'm listening to a child who thinks once you've hit 35 you're a coffin dodger.
Although it's true, when you're in your teens, or twenties, 5 years is a big age gap for a relationship.
When you're in your 40's, 5 years is pretty insignificant, but someone in their 20's is your daughter's friend who drops by for a sandwich and a cup of tea when they're pissed off with their own mum.
truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK25,171 posts
jac379: I'm in my 40's...and a granny.
That's not an offer, I'm just pointing out grannies can be in their 30's and 40's.
I feel like I'm listening to a child who thinks once you've hit 35 you're a coffin dodger.
Although it's true, when you're in your teens, or twenties, 5 years is a big age gap for a relationship.
When you're in your 40's, 5 years is pretty insignificant, but someone in their 20's is your daughter's friend who drops by for a sandwich and a cup of tea when they're pissed off with their own mum.
but woman mature quicker........peak at 30...then on a downhill......regards to...gravitation/..crows feet.....extra...make,up.....to hide age.....
cheerful_sanjo: Hii ppl !! I have great desires in dating older women, I find them matured and more interesting in conversations. well is it weird to date older women ?
Let me know your views Cheers!
Yes, yes it is weird. Weird AND Beta. If we liken the typical cougar to a 1975 Toyota Corolla with 250,000 miles on the clock, then we have to ask ourselves what kind of a man buys a car like this?
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
Obstinance_Works: Yes, yes it is weird. Weird AND Beta. If we liken the typical cougar to a 1975 Toyota Corolla with 250,000 miles on the clock, then we have to ask ourselves what kind of a man buys a car like this?
and what is doubly weird... is ... how can an older person have a conversation around current affairs and politics with a younger man.. and say stuff... like... do you remember...
DazzleDazea river bog hill road, Meath Ireland264 posts
Between the ages of 15 - 18 a woman is like China or Iran ....... Developing at a sizzling rate with a lot of potential but as yet still not free or open.
Between the ages of 18-21 a woman is like Africa or Australia ..... She ishalf discovered, half wild and naturally beautiful.
Between the ages of 21 - 30 a woman is like America or Japan ... completely discovered, very well developed and open to trade especially with countries with cash or cars.
Between the ages of 30 - 35, she is like India or Spain .... Very hot, relaxed and convinced of it's own beauty.
Between the ages of 35 - 40 a woman like France or Argentina ... She may have been half destroyed during the war but can still be a warm and desirable place to visit.
Between the ages of 40 - 50 she is like Yugoslavia or Iraq .... She lost the war and is haunted by past mistakes. Massive reconstruction is now necessary.
Between the ages of 50 - 60 she is like Russia or Canada ... Very wide, quiet and the borders are practically unpatrolled but the frigid climate keeps people away.
Between the ages of 60 - 70 a woman is like England or Mongolia ... A glorious and all conquering past but alas no future.
After 70, they become Afghanistan or Pakistan .... Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there.”
DazzleDaze: Between the ages of 15 - 18 a woman is like China or Iran ....... Developing at a sizzling rate with a lot of potential but as yet still not free or open.
Between the ages of 18-21 a woman is like Africa or Australia ..... She ishalf discovered, half wild and naturally beautiful.
Between the ages of 21 - 30 a woman is like America or Japan ... completely discovered, very well developed and open to trade especially with countries with cash or cars.
Between the ages of 30 - 35, she is like India or Spain .... Very hot, relaxed and convinced of it's own beauty.
Between the ages of 35 - 40 a woman like France or Argentina ... She may have been half destroyed during the war but can still be a warm and desirable place to visit.
Between the ages of 40 - 50 she is like Yugoslavia or Iraq .... She lost the war and is haunted by past mistakes. Massive reconstruction is now necessary.
Between the ages of 50 - 60 she is like Russia or Canada ... Very wide, quiet and the borders are practically unpatrolled but the frigid climate keeps people away.
Between the ages of 60 - 70 a woman is like England or Mongolia ... A glorious and all conquering past but alas no future.
After 70, they become Afghanistan or Pakistan .... Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there.”
Merriweather: and what is doubly weird... is ... how can an older person have a conversation around current affairs and politics with a younger man.. and say stuff... like... do you remember...Nah... no thanks..
That's another point. And This may be different for the OP because he isn't Western, but generally speaking are older people actually more mature, knowledgable and better for conversation?
I mean, people over 75 we can look at as being the kind of wise elders we remember our(great)grandparents to be, but that generation aged from about 40 to 70 just seems to sink into an adolescent abyss of apathy and indifference not dissimilar to how my own generation was as teenagers, there seems to be little marked difference in seriousness between those aged 15 and those aged 50.
Well thts true ! But there are relationships that have build up.. lets say the relationship between Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher ..they have a difference of almost 20 years i believe !!
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
truheart1941: but woman mature quicker........peak at 30...then on a downhill......regards to...gravitation/..crows feet.....extra...make,up.....to hide age.....
Oh really?? I know a lot of people in their 30's who havn't "peaked" yet
DazzleDaze: Between the ages of 15 - 18 a woman is like China or Iran ....... Developing at a sizzling rate with a lot of potential but as yet still not free or open.
Between the ages of 18-21 a woman is like Africa or Australia ..... She ishalf discovered, half wild and naturally beautiful.
Between the ages of 21 - 30 a woman is like America or Japan ... completely discovered, very well developed and open to trade especially with countries with cash or cars.
Between the ages of 30 - 35, she is like India or Spain .... Very hot, relaxed and convinced of it's own beauty.
Between the ages of 35 - 40 a woman like France or Argentina ... She may have been half destroyed during the war but can still be a warm and desirable place to visit.
Between the ages of 40 - 50 she is like Yugoslavia or Iraq .... She lost the war and is haunted by past mistakes. Massive reconstruction is now necessary.
Between the ages of 50 - 60 she is like Russia or Canada ... Very wide, quiet and the borders are practically unpatrolled but the frigid climate keeps people away.
Between the ages of 60 - 70 a woman is like England or Mongolia ... A glorious and all conquering past but alas no future.
After 70, they become Afghanistan or Pakistan .... Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there.”
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
unlaoised: It boggles the mind how little men understand about women...seriously.
30 I was bogged down with bringing up children, and everyday life.. Didn't even have time to think, suddenly I have time (at nearly 50) to think about what I want and I'm loving it!
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