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Mar 5, 2014 2:11 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: I often think that 'regular viewers' may be blocked by my settings Which is fine Hi smunchkin



Hello frogpuss grin grin grin grin
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Mar 5, 2014 2:34 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne: Hello frogpuss




Ooh you have my favourite pic up love



You know what it does to me flirty
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Mar 5, 2014 2:36 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: Ooh you have my favourite pic up
You know what it does to me



I know I love the way you quivergrin
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Mar 5, 2014 2:39 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne: I know I love the way you quiver



My frog needs adjusting blushing
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Mar 5, 2014 2:41 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: My frog needs adjusting



I'll just tune up my adjuster stickgrin grin
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Mar 5, 2014 7:34 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
Ocee102: He's probably unable to date, and has a list of profiles he looks through wondering about what it would be like to have relationships with the women in them, if not for whatever it is he thinks/knows makes him undateable.


This is a possibility.

For those who have suggested changing my settings and blocking him, this won't help, as he is in a neighbouring country I would have to block all of western Europe and that won't stop the incessant profile views. I was really hoping that he would read this thread and stop, but alas he is back on my WVM list again today, maybe he doesn't read the forums, who knows? I just find it creepy.
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Mar 5, 2014 7:38 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
check_mate: Bet his 70+


laugh no he is mid forties
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Mar 5, 2014 7:39 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
22W00: This is a possibility.

For those who have suggested changing my settings and blocking him, this won't help, as he is in a neighbouring country I would have to block all of western Europe and that won't stop the incessant profile views. I was really hoping that he would read this thread and stop, but alas he is back on my WVM list again today, maybe he doesn't read the forums, who knows? I just find it creepy.


sorry to hear it -

I have a fellow visit my profile every time I check - only he is waiving in the photo - so I think of him someone saying hello. It is up to you to decide ignore it or not.
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Mar 5, 2014 7:56 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
itsimpossible
itsimpossibleitsimpossibleBrisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 777 Posts
JeanKimberley: sorry to hear it -

I have a fellow visit my profile every time I check - only he is waiving in the photo - so I think of him someone saying hello. It is up to you to decide ignore it or not.
How did you get that cow to jump out of the water like that?
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Mar 5, 2014 7:57 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once.
I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later.
Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?


That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.
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Mar 5, 2014 8:01 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
He is only viewing no harm done.beer at least he not sending you mail with naked pics like some of the mail i get from here or the same scammer every 2 weeks sends me mail doh cause he forgets he already did..doh blocking people is too much i gave up i just ignore the mail nowcheers viewing someone is harmless and besides sometimes i accidently click on a pic here in the forums and it goes to there profile..whooopsblushing
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Mar 5, 2014 8:03 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
itsimpossible
itsimpossibleitsimpossibleBrisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 777 Posts
Well I won't stalk anyone - I promised the Judge I wouldn't do it again.
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Mar 5, 2014 8:08 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
A silly suggestion or maybe getting to the heart of the matter?dunno
Rewrite your profile directed solely and entirely towards him, addressing his country by name and asking him what his motivations are? If he views it everyday, he is sure to notice the changes! Suggest he visit the "Forums", in other words reach out and be proactive, and take steps to stop it. Someone suggested that he speaks a different language, but he would surely notice the different profile, and perhaps ask a friend to translate.

You need only to keep the new profile up for a day or two? Maybe remove your pic during that time. You are a beautiful woman, and he is obviously infatuated by what he sees. Wishing you luck in finding a solution. hug
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Mar 5, 2014 8:13 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I think the OP is getting off on all the attention on a matter which anyone else would delete and ignore and report to.

I know I have this woman who looks at my profile at least twice a day AND calls me chubby cheeks should I tell the police?????????????????????????+
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Mar 5, 2014 8:16 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think the OP is getting off on all the attention on a matter which anyone else would delete and ignore and report to.

I know I have this woman who looks at my profile at least twice a day AND calls me chubby cheeks should I tell the police?????????????????????????+
laugh "chubby cheeks" rolling on the floor laughing sorry tomcat i find that toooo funny laugh and yes call the fashion police..laugh
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Mar 5, 2014 8:17 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Carmengetme: It really wouldn't bother me. I don't pay too much attention to WVM.

It's obviously bothering you, however, so I'd suggest taking a look at his profile, and if you're simply not interested in communicating with him, then block and delete all his views.

Simple really.


No, not as simple as you think. I have been in a similar situation so I know. You can block people from messaging you but you can't stop people from VIEWING you. even blocking all of western europe won't work if he is in western europe too as she is. CS mods say you can't block people in the same area as you. thae's the way system is designed to work
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Mar 5, 2014 8:19 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
@ Tomcat..for god sake put a shirt on wow laugh
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Mar 5, 2014 8:20 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
22W00: If I turn off my WVM does this mean he and no one else can see my profile or just that I will be unaware of who is looking, because if this is the case it doesn't solve my problem, it just makes me unaware of it.



I've had the very same men view me and I think nothing of it.I just delete their picture.

They can still view your profile regardless if your WVM is turned off or not.It's obvious you won't see their pictures unless you turn your WVM back on.


Unless he sends you a threatening or harassing mail I wouldn't get too awfully concerned.
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Mar 5, 2014 8:21 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
shell1964: "chubby cheeks" sorry tomcat i find that toooo funny and yes call the fashion police..



You making fun cause I have put on weight??????????????????????????
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Mar 5, 2014 8:24 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
We all have our Pictures up on an International Bulletin board, on
a dating site for the sole purpose to be viewed by people. Not really
much of a dilemma is it.
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