Can anyone explain this behaviour? ( Archived) (117)

Mar 5, 2014 2:37 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
mollybaby: It's ok even if I do, you don't live on the plain.

And we know that is where the rain fallsMainly
That's true! laugh
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Mar 5, 2014 3:10 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
rebel2: Its a rough life


Hey Reb, sun shining there?
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Mar 5, 2014 3:18 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Torless: Hey Reb, sun shining there?
Its been a lovely day! cool wave
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Mar 5, 2014 3:54 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.


Thank you for understanding my plight wine
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Mar 5, 2014 4:01 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.



Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.

I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.
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Mar 5, 2014 4:06 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Glatlol: Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.

I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.


Valid point. thumbs up
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Mar 5, 2014 4:09 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
22W00: Thank you for understanding my plight


I understand your unease, but there is really nothing much this person can do to harm you. hug
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Mar 5, 2014 4:11 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Glatlol: Sorry but thats a total over reaction. We are willingly on a dating site for goodness sake, putting our pictures up for the world and its Mother to see. Someone looking at them a lot is not stalking.

I bet the OP doesnt find the guy attractive either, we wouldnt be having this discussion if she did.


Now that makes sense beer
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Mar 5, 2014 4:14 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
equiya: That's stalking. It's happened to me before. He sent me a nasty message, I blocked him but he keeps stalking me, sometimes severa times a day! Too bad you can't him to prevent him from viewing you.


You obviously have no idea what stalking is. Just because he is looking at a very blurred photo of you, it doesn't cause you any harm or fear, so is hardly stalking you.

Much drama over something that really is a wee in the ocean. Someone is looking at someone and doing nothing about it. Big deal. Wonder what would happen if there was a real crisis?
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Mar 5, 2014 4:29 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
I'd like to thank everyone who has given their thoughts and opinions to explain this guy's behaviour, it is always helpful to see the situation from someone else's perspective.
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Mar 5, 2014 4:37 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once.
I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later.
Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?



ignore and move on. regarding this kind of attitude it is inconsequential. some people enjoy being insecure and alone.
wine

btw, going to click your profile. laugh
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Mar 5, 2014 5:25 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Bogart_1960: ignore and move on. regarding this kind of attitude it is inconsequential. some people enjoy being insecure and alone.


btw, going to click your profile.
I hear you...I am also guilty of looking at pretty women once in awhilehandshake wave
I like the term "To perved a profile"
cheers To the thrill of the chase buddies
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Mar 5, 2014 5:27 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: I hear you...I am also guilty of looking at pretty women once in awhile
I like the term "To perved a profile"
To the thrill of the chase
Kiddingrolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 5, 2014 5:43 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
chatonlyman2: I hear you...I am also guilty of looking at pretty women once in awhile
I like the term "To perved a profile"
To the thrill of the chase



pretty eloquently put, my friend. agree, guilty as charged. handshake wave
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Mar 5, 2014 5:48 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
chatonlyman2: I hear you...I am also guilty of looking at pretty women once in awhile
I like the term "To perved a profile"
To the thrill of the chase


Perving profiles is one of the joys of CSwink
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Mar 5, 2014 6:57 PM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
mollybaby: Perving profiles is one of the joys of CS
You two should be on my friends list.thumbs up and a couple morehandshake conversing head banger
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Mar 6, 2014 3:52 AM CST Can anyone explain this behaviour?
check_mate
check_matecheck_mateLondon, Greater London, England UK42 Threads 12 Polls 968 Posts
Ask him On t'a bercé trop près du mur? laugh
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