22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once. I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later. Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?
I look at quite a few profiles, and sometimes return to them several times. If your profile is up, I can't see how you can avoid this. Goes with the territory, my dear. Just ignore it. Gee, what else can you do? (I am constantly having to shake off unwanted or distasteful crappola. In my middle age, I believe I'm at least starting to cope, and maybe someday I'll be able to let the water fall off my back, like a duck, as is said.) Try to remember this helpful hint from an employer interview, when a bothersome detail arose. He said, "Well, it's only as big as YOU make it". Carpe Diem, lovie
rohaan: I look at quite a few profiles, and sometimes return to them several times. If your profile is up, I can't see how you can avoid this. Goes with the territory, my dear. Just ignore it. Gee, what else can you do? (I am constantly having to shake off unwanted or distasteful crappola. In my middle age, I believe I'm at least starting to cope, and maybe someday I'll be able to let the water fall off my back, like a duck, as is said.) Try to remember this helpful hint from an employer interview, when a bothersome detail arose. He said, "Well, it's only as big as YOU make it". Carpe Diem, lovie
It really wouldn't bother me. I don't pay too much attention to WVM.
It's obviously bothering you, however, so I'd suggest taking a look at his profile, and if you're simply not interested in communicating with him, then block and delete all his views.
22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once. I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later. Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?
He's probably unable to date, and has a list of profiles he looks through wondering about what it would be like to have relationships with the women in them, if not for whatever it is he thinks/knows makes him undateable.
I assume it's a guy. He obviously likes you. He might be too shy to contact you or maybe he is too intimated by you. If he is freaking you out then close your curtains, ie; block him.
Guys who look at my profile everyday don't bother me because I don't look at the "who's viewed me" list. Some guys like to flirt by looking at a woman's profile everyday. They think it turns a woman on. I simply don't look and so they don't exist.
AnnaNastasiya: I assume it's a guy. He obviously likes you. He might be too shy to contact you or maybe he is too intimated by you. If he is freaking you out then close your curtains, ie; block him.Guys who look at my profile everyday don't bother me because I don't look at the "who's viewed me" list. Some guys like to flirt by looking at a woman's profile everyday. They think it turns a woman on. I simply don't look and so they don't exist.
Some guys flirt by looking at a Woman's profile? Then think it turns them on. Is that the latest article in Cosmopolitan?
22W00: I am baffled as to why someone would visit my profile everyday, sometimes more than once. I could understand someone viewing a profile a couple of times, and maybe with a memory lapse a month or so later. Can anyone give me an insight to explain this behaviour - I am not after compliments, but serious opinions. I am considering deleting my account and coming back faceless or confronting him with a message asking him to stop...what do you think?
In this case ( if he is not desirable) be thankful that he is not living in your town. lol. Just guessing of course but if that is the case then hopefully you can just ignore him. It would be too bad if you decided to remove your picture because of one person. I agree with many of the others that maybe he is too shy to write you or maybe he does not know how to write in the correct language depending on his abilities.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Faint heart never won fair lady, if he is watching this I would say to him take your courage in your hands and contact the lady explaining your feelings. To the OP give him a chance to explain himself. JMO
tomcatwarne: Faint heart never won fair lady, if he is watching this I would say to him take your courage in your hands and contact the lady explaining your feelings. To the OP give him a chance to explain himself. JMO
I often think that 'regular viewers' may be blocked by my settings
rohaan: I look at quite a few profiles, and sometimes return to them several times. If your profile is up, I can't see how you can avoid this. Goes with the territory, my dear. Just ignore it. Gee, what else can you do? (I am constantly having to shake off unwanted or distasteful crappola. In my middle age, I believe I'm at least starting to cope, and maybe someday I'll be able to let the water fall off my back, like a duck, as is said.) Try to remember this helpful hint from an employer interview, when a bothersome detail arose. He said, "Well, it's only as big as YOU make it". Carpe Diem, lovie
Hmmm..you have never done that to me...I feel left out now
To the OP, turn it into a game. Change one word on your profile every day, and give a to the first person who notices it
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