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serene56: Sometimes you read comments on here from people who say they are not concerned about a potential partner's physical appearance, it's what is inside that counts
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Why don't you get the ball rolling Serene, with what you consider to be your idea of perfection in a man...
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Carmengetme: Why don't you get the ball rolling Serene, with what you consider to be your idea of perfection in a man...
Really
Ok well .. tall, around the 6' mark, slender without being skinny, a little bit of muscle but not OTT .. ummm.. not too concerned about hair colour but seem to lean toward men with light brown to fair hair .. sun-kissed skin would be nice
Don't mind a little bit of facial hair as long as it's trimmed and neat.
Very well-groomed, dresses well and smells sensational
How am I going so far
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Your turn 
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serene56: Really
Ok well .. tall, around the 6' mark, slender without being skinny, a little bit of muscle but not OTT .. ummm.. not too concerned about hair colour but seem to lean toward men with light brown to fair hair .. sun-kissed skin would be nice
Don't mind a little bit of facial hair as long as it's trimmed and neat.
Very well-groomed, dresses well and smells sensational
How am I going so far
Ok well .. tall, around the 6' mark, slender without being skinny, a little bit of muscle but not OTT .. ummm.. not too concerned about hair colour but seem to lean toward men with light brown to fair hair .. sun-kissed skin would be nice
Don't mind a little bit of facial hair as long as it's trimmed and neat.
Very well-groomed, dresses well and smells sensational
How am I going so far
Splendid...
but I get the sense you're "holding back"....
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serene56: Your turn
er nope.
You ain't finished yet....
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Carmengetme: Splendid...
but I get the sense you're "holding back"....
but I get the sense you're "holding back"....
Not sure what you mean there C
I generally go for tall men, I'm 5'7" and like to wear heels on a date, yanno
How bout you
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serene56: Sometimes you read comments on here from people who say they are not concerned about a potential partner's physical appearance, it's what is inside that counts
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
It's not that we don't have to be physically attracted to someone, it's that being physically attracted to someone is dependent upon liking the person.
There's an expression in this part of Wales which is "I've lost the look for him..."
It means, 'I was attracted to him until I found something unattractive about his character.'
So, I might find one skinny, or fatty attractive, but another not.
What I have found though, is once I'm attracted to one person, I find myself attracted to people who have some similar qualities, be they physical, or personality traits. In that sense, I wonder if the development of having a 'type' has something to do with trying to hold on to other people we are, or have been attracted to.
Perhaps if we described our perfect type and then looked at who that reminded us of, we might find some revealing stuff about ourselves.
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serene56: Sometimes you read comments on here from people who say they are not concerned about a potential partner's physical appearance, it's what is inside that counts
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Its actually hard to describe it ,beside physical features,which are important ,there should be a strong emotional connection ...oh lets not forget her skills in the kitchen ,Im a fat Dude and I love to eat ...
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serene56: Not sure what you mean there C I generally go for tall men, I'm 5'7" and like to wear heels on a date, yanno
How bout you
How bout you
I do like tall men too.
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Dedovix: Its actually hard to describe it ,beside physical features,which are important ,there should be a strong emotional connection ...oh lets not forget her skills in the kitchen ,Im a fat Dude and I love to eat ...
So, she'll have to do the cooking, Dedo?
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In response to: Sometimes you read comments on here from people who say they are not concerned about a potential partner's physical appearance, it's what is inside that counts
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!
Hello serene ,Ok
I'm 6'6 black eyes , average body type ,black short hair. Hairy chest and brown skin.
I prefer brunettes then blondes.
So my ideal match would be a brunette , shorther then me with curves around the body at the right place and not a hairy chest
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jac379: It's not that we don't have to be physically attracted to someone, it's that being physically attracted to someone is dependent upon liking the person.
There's an expression in this part of Wales which is "I've lost the look for him..."
It means, 'I was attracted to him until I found something unattractive about his character.'
So, I might find one skinny, or fatty attractive, but another not.
What I have found though, is once I'm attracted to one person, I find myself attracted to people who have some similar qualities, be they physical, or personality traits. In that sense, I wonder if the development of having a 'type' has something to do with trying to hold on to other people we are, or have been attracted to.
Perhaps if we described our perfect type and then looked at who that reminded us of, we might find some revealing stuff about ourselves.
There's an expression in this part of Wales which is "I've lost the look for him..."
It means, 'I was attracted to him until I found something unattractive about his character.'
So, I might find one skinny, or fatty attractive, but another not.
What I have found though, is once I'm attracted to one person, I find myself attracted to people who have some similar qualities, be they physical, or personality traits. In that sense, I wonder if the development of having a 'type' has something to do with trying to hold on to other people we are, or have been attracted to.
Perhaps if we described our perfect type and then looked at who that reminded us of, we might find some revealing stuff about ourselves.
I think it's only natural to be drawn to people, more than once or twice, who have qualities that appeal to us.
It's quite possible that those qualities are ones that may be missing in ourselves, or that we miss about someone else, or that we would appreciate having what we see as the benefit of
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unlaoised: So, she'll have to do the cooking, Dedo?
yep,unless she can give me a heart-attack in the bedroom ,in which case I can order out every meal ...
See, Im flexible, I do compromise ...
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Carmengetme: I do like tall men too.
You can expand on that if you wish C
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Alexandro10: Hello serene ,Ok
I'm 6'6 black eyes , average body type ,black short hair. Hairy chest and brown skin.
I prefer brunettes then blondes.
So my ideal match would be a brunette , shorther then me with curves around the body at the right place and not a hairy chest
I'm 6'6 black eyes , average body type ,black short hair. Hairy chest and brown skin.
I prefer brunettes then blondes.
So my ideal match would be a brunette , shorther then me with curves around the body at the right place and not a hairy chest
Not too much to ask Alexandro
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Dedovix: yep,unless she can give me a heart-attack in the bedroom ,in which case I can order out every meal ...
See, Im flexible, I do compromise ...
See, Im flexible, I do compromise ...
She'll be a busy woman, no pressure there... but compromise is good
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serene56: I think it's only natural to be drawn to people, more than once or twice, who have qualities that appeal to us.
It's quite possible that those qualities are ones that may be missing in ourselves, or that we miss about someone else, or that we would appreciate having what we see as the benefit of
It's quite possible that those qualities are ones that may be missing in ourselves, or that we miss about someone else, or that we would appreciate having what we see as the benefit of
Hmmm...qualities that may be missing in ourselves. Interesting.
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unlaoised: She'll be a busy woman, no pressure there... but compromise is good
And yourself lil lady
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serene56: And yourself lil lady
Oh, I like a man who cooks
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Well what about the rest of us who do need to be physically attracted to someone right from the get-go
Describe your idea of perfection ... gender, height, hair colour, build and so on
And don't hold back!