One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, really. . . How childish is this statement. To me is is just one more way, to actually avoid any kind of decision, or commitment.
"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.
54xmax: One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, really. . . How childish is this statement. To me is is just one more way, to actually avoid any kind of decision, or commitment.
"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.
Everybody has the right to change their mind, as long as nothing was promised. That's why I don't promise anything, you never know what can happen in life.
54xmax: One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, really. . . How childish is this statement. To me is is just one more way, to actually avoid any kind of decision, or commitment.
"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.
Fickleness and indecision is to a woman what violence and war is to a man. The difference is that men haven't convinced society into describing beating the hell out of and killing people as a right(unless it's done in large numbers to the sound of trumpets).
Doesn't everyone have the right to change their mind?
I thought the cliche you are talking about is,
"It is a woman's prerogative to change her mind"
The difference is pretty semantic but the above means it's her exclusive right to change her mind.
If people are denied the right to change their mind then how can they be expecting to grow and develop? Changing you values and beliefs is probably one of the quickest and way of implementing lasting change in your life.
dateadave: Doesn't everyone have the right to change their mind?
I thought the cliche you are talking about is,
"It is a woman's prerogative to change her mind"
The difference is pretty semantic but the above means it's her exclusive right to change her mind.
If people are denied the right to change their mind then how can they be expecting to grow and develop? Changing you values and beliefs is probably one of the quickest and way of implementing lasting change in your life.
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Always be aware a woman may change her mind at any given moment....its just not nice to jilt someone at the alter but one may have pondered on it right up to the bit when bride runs back down aisle.
peachmelba: . Always be aware a woman may change her mind at any given moment....its just not nice to jilt someone at the alter but one may have pondered on it right up to the bit when bride runs back down aisle.
Exactly, it is one thing to make an informative change of heart after a good discussion about a certain thing.
What I am talking about is that completely schizophrenic, I don't know what I want, but I want it now, kind of changing her mind all the time about everything .
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
54xmax: Exactly, it is one thing to make an informative change of heart after a good discussion about a certain thing.
What I am talking about is that completely schizophrenic, I don't know what I want, but I want it now, kind of changing her mind all the time about everything .
You're misusing the term 'schizophrenic' there, Max.
It's not conducive to awareness and social acceptance of the illness.
54xmax: One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, really. . . How childish is this statement. To me is is just one more way, to actually avoid any kind of decision, or commitment.
"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.
The carbon-14 method doesn't work with mineralized fossils but other than that you're right.
jac379: And in the process you're fuelling common prejudice about the illness. Perhaps there are other ways you could express yourself?
You are the only one who thinks that. There is no prejudice here. Not to mention, that being all the time politically correct, solves nothing. It just makes things worse.
So when is a person allowed to change their mind? And when is a person no longer allowed to change their mind? Do people get informed in advance when and when not they are allowed to change their mind?
54xmax: One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, really. . . How childish is this statement. To me is is just one more way, to actually avoid any kind of decision, or commitment.
"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.
Everyone has a right to change their mind, if there playing games with your head, get rid. Ask yourself, why am I tolerating this nonsense.
emerald888: Everyone has a right to change their mind, if there playing games with your head, get rid. Ask yourself, why am I tolerating this nonsense.
I don't tolerate it in any shape or form .
Changing one's mind is one thing. I am not talking about regular life. I am talking about using it as an excuse not to take responsibility for one's actions, and not committing even for a cup of coffee at a given time at a given place. . . . ( For example ).
First it is yes, then no, then maybe, then we shall see . . . I mean come on ( This is just an example ).
54xmax: I don't tolerate it in any shape or form .
Changing one's mind is one thing. I am not talking about regular life. I am talking about using it as an excuse not to take responsibility for one's actions, and not committing even for a cup of coffee at a given time at a given place. . . . ( For example ).
First it is yes, then no, then maybe, then we shall see . . . I mean come on ( This is just an example ).
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
54xmax: You are the only one who thinks that. There is no prejudice here. Not to mention, that being all the time politically correct, solves nothing. It just makes things worse.
One should call things as they are.
I agree one should call things as they are, which is why I pointed out you'd misused the word 'schizophrenic'.
You called a behaviour 'schizophrenic' that had nothing to do with schizophrenia.
As for me being the only one who thinks this, I don't change my mind according to the majority vote if I know that something is unfair, or inhumane.
“The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule is a person's conscience.” ~ Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird
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"A Woman has the right to change her mind."
Seriously, how can one then believe anything she says, not to mention, how can than one trust her that she will do what she says she will.
Oh, and this is not a thread to point fingers at men. We are discussing this cliche, allot of women use.