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Sep 17, 2014 3:24 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,702 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I feel better now I've seen a quote, even if the video won't play for me just at the moment (my internet connection).

I wonder if I'm being a bit spectrummy about this. Y'know, like, "Where's the quote?! This isn't the way it's supposed to be!"


I understand what you say when things are not like they've been and I'll keep your feelings in mind.. hug

wine
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Sep 17, 2014 3:30 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,702 Posts
bohemianjack: I understand what you say when things are not like they've been and I'll keep your feelings in mind..


I was down in the cities for the day and fell asleep earlier and now up later... and should be going to sleep but you ladies kept me up.. devil

Not really... but you are keeping me awake.. laugh

wine
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Sep 17, 2014 3:35 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,702 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I feel better now I've seen a quote, even if the video won't play for me just at the moment (my internet connection).

I wonder if I'm being a bit spectrummy about this. Y'know, like, "Where's the quote?! This isn't the way it's supposed to be!"


You might try clicking on the settings wheel, bottom right of the youtube screen to a lower video resolution.. idea

wine
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Sep 17, 2014 4:37 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
romygreece: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.


Sometimes after long term it is more of an invisibility factor.
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Sep 17, 2014 6:47 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
bohemianjack: I understand what you say when things are not like they've been and I'll keep your feelings in mind..

Thank you Jack, but I'm sort of making fun of myself. giggle

Change is good, it's inspiring and it's good for me to play around with my feelings about change. I will learn something.

I also like to say things out loud to someone who gets it.

hug
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Sep 17, 2014 8:26 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
In response to: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.


Well, that's not very nice but it is more important to keep on being important to yourself... wine
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Sep 17, 2014 10:11 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
marij070
marij070marij070Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK3 Threads 146 Posts
romygreece: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.


Yep, is totally disappointing and sad..broken heart.
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Sep 17, 2014 10:23 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.




sigh But you soon learn to just move on.
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Sep 17, 2014 11:56 AM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada759 Posts
romygreece: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.



It is just the ‘normal’ way people are; we are all no deposit, no return disposable ‘items’ and everyone acts accordingly so why be sad; why be surprised as all relationships have a ‘shelf life’.
Modern life; so expectant...
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Sep 17, 2014 2:00 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
romygreece: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.



It is sad.

Until you realize all you've lost is the belief you were valued. Once free of the delusion we can look at the relationship comparatively with relationships wherein we were valued(as we are), see the glaring disparities between the two and find comfort in having escaped settling for someone who doesn't see our value.
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Sep 17, 2014 2:10 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
romygreece: It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought you were.

Whether you think you are important to someone, or think you are not, it's still to do with your interpretation which is unlikely to be identical to how they feel.

What you choose to think will be serving a purpose for you, whatever you choose to think.

Until you understand that it's not just about the other person pulling your strings, but an interaction, you are undervaluing both you and them.
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Sep 17, 2014 2:11 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
It hurts blues sigh
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Sep 17, 2014 2:21 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
...I am very important........snooty ...good evening morons.......grin giggle giggle
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Sep 17, 2014 2:26 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: ...I am very important........ ...good evening morons.......


I agree, you are an important Git.rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 17, 2014 2:29 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
Thats sad better to move on
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Sep 17, 2014 2:30 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Ocee102: It is sad.

Until you realize all you've lost is the belief you were valued. Once free of the delusion we can look at the relationship comparatively with relationships wherein we were valued(as we are), see the glaring disparities between the two and find comfort in having escaped settling for someone who doesn't see our value.

That's an honest way of dealing with it. There is another way... one can simply assume that they are the most important and ought be the most important. When it appears the other has a different opinion about how important, one is, you can simply conclude that they have mental illness and don't know what they want, really.

That's maintains a bullet proof ego.

laugh
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Sep 17, 2014 2:34 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
pedalguy59: I agree, you are an important Git.
...your on the wrong thred......this is about being important....not impotent.......snooty giggle giggle giggle
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Sep 17, 2014 2:35 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: ...your on the wrong thred......this is about being important....not impotent.......


laugh Oops, actually I thought I was on the Mars colony one.
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Sep 17, 2014 2:42 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
truheart1941: ...I am very important........ ...good evening morons.......

I support that very strongly hug kiss
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Sep 17, 2014 2:47 PM CST when u realize you r nt importanat
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
Cocheta: I support that very strongly
really....then pack your bags girl....your been pulled......rolling on the floor laughing
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