I have a question (37)
AKDOPhd9 Threads 3,310 Postswell if i am not mistaken sweet JJ....isn't this ALL YOUR FAULT!!
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Well of course it is Darlin!!!
Hey this is the wrong thread for that!
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when something happens we must take time to deal with itonce we have dealt with it,than it is time to let go of it
and move on with our lives,what happen yesterday should not be bought into today,nor what happen today should be bought into tomorrow
the things of the past we can learn a lesson from them,once we learn that lesson,it is time to let go and move on with our lives,we should not bring things of yesterday into today,nor should we bring things of today into tomorrow.what we should do with things of the past is leave them in the past where they belong
we cannot move on with our lives if we are not willing to let go things of the past.we cannot let oursevles heal unless we let go,in order to heal we must be willing to let go,now it is time to let go and not keep bringing it up,but leave it in the past where it belongs
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I think I understand well the difference. In my last relationship I was mentally abused. When I finally left I thought I'll never be able to feel anything for anybody again. But it didn't break my heart, I was glad that I got out
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Panther you said
"I do not live in the past, I live for right now, and the future."
You do live in a past,woman It's OVER! ... All you do now is selfpity!
you keep on the edge not just yourself but him as well.
I do not understand the reason for doing so on the Forum.
You should talk about it with your friends via e-mail( sorry but i would rate it as a very personal)
Wake up and happy hunting!
Peace
"I do not live in the past, I live for right now, and the future."
You do live in a past,woman It's OVER! ... All you do now is selfpity!
you keep on the edge not just yourself but him as well.
I do not understand the reason for doing so on the Forum.
You should talk about it with your friends via e-mail( sorry but i would rate it as a very personal)
Wake up and happy hunting!
Peace
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Broken hearts heal....and no one has ever died of a broken heart (though they may like to think they will...)...people will "love" again...
Emotional destruction is devastating and scarring...it dictates who and what you will become in the future...it becomes part of your "make up"...but it doesn't have to be a "bad" thing...if you draw from the experience you can become a stronger person...but it is a lonely road to walk trying to heal yourself emotionally....
Emotional destruction is devastating and scarring...it dictates who and what you will become in the future...it becomes part of your "make up"...but it doesn't have to be a "bad" thing...if you draw from the experience you can become a stronger person...but it is a lonely road to walk trying to heal yourself emotionally....
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Z, thank you for the deep thoughts, but it I ask a qquestion, about hearts and emotions.
I did not ask for information on how to move on, I can do that on my own...
I ask a real question...thanks
I did not ask for information on how to move on, I can do that on my own...
I ask a real question...thanks
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Konisberg, who made you God to tell me what I am doing?
Who made you God to come to judge me?
I made it very clear here this was a real question,
"Broken hearts vs Emotional destruction"
I also made it clear that it was not about how I was feeling.
I did not want sympathy...I wanted answers to an intelligent question.
Are you in my shoes? How the hell would you know if I am living in the past, I posted in very clearly, I am living for today and the future...because it is what I do, I move on.
Self pity....never. I brought my pain here two days ago and shared an onlined experience.
A CS experienced gone bad...and I am not the first or last person that would be their pain to her online friends.
Many were able to actually relate to it, and when the thread was over at the end of the night , I left it alone, like history.
Next time before you put your foot in your mouth, try intellectual comprehension of the question posted.
Everybody else on the thread did.
Do not judge...look in the mirror and face your own faults...one of them being your rude remarks to others.
That is would do you a whole lot better than trying to judge me.
Again it was a question, not a self pity party.
Enjoy your day.
Angel
Who made you God to come to judge me?
I made it very clear here this was a real question,
"Broken hearts vs Emotional destruction"
I also made it clear that it was not about how I was feeling.
I did not want sympathy...I wanted answers to an intelligent question.
Are you in my shoes? How the hell would you know if I am living in the past, I posted in very clearly, I am living for today and the future...because it is what I do, I move on.
Self pity....never. I brought my pain here two days ago and shared an onlined experience.
A CS experienced gone bad...and I am not the first or last person that would be their pain to her online friends.
Many were able to actually relate to it, and when the thread was over at the end of the night , I left it alone, like history.
Next time before you put your foot in your mouth, try intellectual comprehension of the question posted.
Everybody else on the thread did.
Do not judge...look in the mirror and face your own faults...one of them being your rude remarks to others.
That is would do you a whole lot better than trying to judge me.
Again it was a question, not a self pity party.
Enjoy your day.
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Yes I can relate, being emotionally destroyed is devesatating. putting your whole being into your emotions just to have them crushed like they were no existant.
A broken heart and being emotionally detroyed are in a class of their own. Yet they are connected with one another. I have found that for myself I must find which one has the easiest fixable damage. For me I am focussing on my emotions. Letting go, moving on, keeping hope, and surviving.
First I am letting go of the negative energy
Then I am moving on with the positive thoughts
Then I am keeping hope that my destoryed emotions and broken heart will mend
Finally I am surviving because I have to.
It's a process Angel that you have to get through on your own and in your own time.
A broken heart and being emotionally detroyed are in a class of their own. Yet they are connected with one another. I have found that for myself I must find which one has the easiest fixable damage. For me I am focussing on my emotions. Letting go, moving on, keeping hope, and surviving.
First I am letting go of the negative energy
Then I am moving on with the positive thoughts
Then I am keeping hope that my destoryed emotions and broken heart will mend
Finally I am surviving because I have to.
It's a process Angel that you have to get through on your own and in your own time.
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Thank you wikked...another good example that you are an intelligent woman, who understood my question, and answer it accordingly.
And to all the men and women that did, thanks once again.
And to all the men and women that did, thanks once again.
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Thank you Mike,
You make sense in your own way and bring up a good point.
But I really do not have a broken heart...maybe some people can link both together, and I guess that happens with long term commitments.
If I had a broken heart, I would not be able to even ask an intelligent question that really made me "think", because of what my friend posted.
Faceing myself in a brutal honest way, is my way of dealing with things, and it works for me.
I do not have time to whine over something that was not meant to be...I can only deal with what I do have, and that is the capacity to shut one door permanently.
I shut that door, by last night less than 24 hours later.
And moved on....until I get it right.
...................... Angel
You make sense in your own way and bring up a good point.
But I really do not have a broken heart...maybe some people can link both together, and I guess that happens with long term commitments.
If I had a broken heart, I would not be able to even ask an intelligent question that really made me "think", because of what my friend posted.
Faceing myself in a brutal honest way, is my way of dealing with things, and it works for me.
I do not have time to whine over something that was not meant to be...I can only deal with what I do have, and that is the capacity to shut one door permanently.
I shut that door, by last night less than 24 hours later.
And moved on....until I get it right.
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WHOOOOOOAAAAAAAA...............
back up ...Panther now you are out of line...Marina is not rude , nor was she judging.
It has been my observation as well that all this would have been better handeled in private.
out of respect for all . you have been thru alot, rest now and sleep if you are able.
regroup, and come back fresh.
it's alot harder to hold on than to let go.
back up ...Panther now you are out of line...Marina is not rude , nor was she judging.
It has been my observation as well that all this would have been better handeled in private.
out of respect for all . you have been thru alot, rest now and sleep if you are able.
regroup, and come back fresh.
it's alot harder to hold on than to let go.
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No broken heart = Quicker mending time
Being brutally honest is a good thing but may not be the healthiest choice.
Sometimes we have to hurt to be able to understand the pain and to not hurt in return, or hurt someone else.
Being brutally honest is a good thing but may not be the healthiest choice.
Sometimes we have to hurt to be able to understand the pain and to not hurt in return, or hurt someone else.
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Hi Alex,
I know I am being rude...maybe even a total b----.
But I believe people should read, and if they do not understand the question, then leave it alone.
ASSuming, what was behind the question is not right, since it did come out of genuine interest in comparing it to others opinions.
Thanks, Angel
I know I am being rude...maybe even a total b----.
But I believe people should read, and if they do not understand the question, then leave it alone.
ASSuming, what was behind the question is not right, since it did come out of genuine interest in comparing it to others opinions.
Thanks, Angel
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PS: I had just said this a few days ago...
I have no middle ground...a person in a relationship eithers works with me, and give all, a or leave it for good, and never look back.
That is my own cruelty, a person is either on my good side or on my bad side, but there is no in betweens.
I have been there, done that, and decided 5 yrs ago, that nobody in my life is worth a second chance.
This is the reason I can let go very easily, while still confronting the issue at the moment.
Because there is no turning back, what is done is over with forever in my book.
I forgive, forget it, and live my life in my spitual peace...and being brutal with my honesty is a part of that, I can face myself without regrets.
Angel
I have no middle ground...a person in a relationship eithers works with me, and give all, a or leave it for good, and never look back.
That is my own cruelty, a person is either on my good side or on my bad side, but there is no in betweens.
I have been there, done that, and decided 5 yrs ago, that nobody in my life is worth a second chance.
This is the reason I can let go very easily, while still confronting the issue at the moment.
Because there is no turning back, what is done is over with forever in my book.
I forgive, forget it, and live my life in my spitual peace...and being brutal with my honesty is a part of that, I can face myself without regrets.
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oh Angel.... friend,
that may have been a wise choice 5 years ago...but to be flexible is truely the better way.
it does not mean that when someone is not there for you , you have to put up with them, it just allows you more possibility....humans are not always so able to JUMP when we say "jump!"....
don't throw the baby out with the bath water!!
take care
alex
that may have been a wise choice 5 years ago...but to be flexible is truely the better way.
it does not mean that when someone is not there for you , you have to put up with them, it just allows you more possibility....humans are not always so able to JUMP when we say "jump!"....
don't throw the baby out with the bath water!!
take care
alex
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Yesterday is history,tommorow has yet to come,and today is present,a gift,treat it as such...........
Grieve then let it be,for if not it begins to tkae control,and your far stronger then that,you have shown us that many a times.........
Grieve then let it be,for if not it begins to tkae control,and your far stronger then that,you have shown us that many a times.........
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