Currently pregnant and alone..?? ( Archived) (164)

Dec 26, 2014 2:08 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Ccincy: Ok then Everybodys.
You wingrin
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Dec 26, 2014 2:16 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
chatonlyman2: Hi cc I am not convinced the story is true.

Are you convinced that it isn't?

What if it's not a scam? How might the OP feel right now?

Does it matter if it is a scam, if it generates some interesting debate that might be useful to someone?
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Dec 26, 2014 3:17 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
cj1988: I am pregnant.
Alone. Broken. Disappointed.
Feeling so down throughout these months. My baby in my tummy doesn't have her father. They leave us.
Because He revealed that He is a married man, then he left us without any word. He leave me hanging.
Sometimes I want to abort it, but my conscience can't fight it.
I love my baby.
I don't know what to do.
I Iost my job.
I'm starting to sell few stuffs of my own.
Now I am going to zero! I have nothing.
Help me..
I don't have family.
I live by my own.
I don't know how to handle this stress coming to my life.
Will i let it adopt to others?
But i don't wanna lose this angel.
I love him/her so much.
I dont know the gender yet.
It's 20weeks old on my bump.
PLEASE HELP ME.. I AM SO DEPRESS NOW!
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Dec 26, 2014 3:34 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
chatonlyman2: Think about it is all I can say. I would hate to see a scammer mess this site up but its Possible.
ah , the sun is shinning , the bird is chirping . Some people need to look at the OP's testimonials , you may have hit a little nail on the head chats . Tis the season for giving . detective
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Dec 26, 2014 6:21 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
cj1988: I am pregnant.
Alone. Broken. Disappointed.
Feeling so down throughout these months. My baby in my tummy doesn't have her father. They leave us.
Because He revealed that He is a married man, then he left us without any word. He leave me hanging.
Sometimes I want to abort it, but my conscience can't fight it.
I love my baby.
I don't know what to do.
I Iost my job.
I'm starting to sell few stuffs of my own.
Now I am going to zero! I have nothing.
Help me..
I don't have family.
I live by my own.
I don't know how to handle this stress coming to my life.
Will i let it adopt to others?
But i don't wanna lose this angel.
I love him/her so much.
I dont know the gender yet.
It's 20weeks old on my bump.
PLEASE HELP ME.. I AM SO DEPRESS NOW!

Is he responsible for you having a baby?
Of course he is and so are you.

Be responsible for your baby, if you can not sustain him/her (although you have stated “her” in your OP) adoption would be a good option.
If you decide to keep the baby, you can ask the Father for child support/care, get a lawyer.

Let his wife know about your pregnancy so he shares the responsibility and he will think twice before fooling around.

The best to you and the baby and next time think twice before getting pregnant.


bouquet
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Dec 26, 2014 7:19 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
chatonlyman2: I seen 2 babies tonight and neither one of them were desperate fo attention but both caught my notice, Little guy (8 months) was moving me with a shovel and the 18 month old tried to be the pusher of the shovel soon after. I Liked their reaction when I stole the shovek grunting in their Language as a head game with rock on status to both.


sorry, I do not get it Chat.

if I was desperate for attention, did I get yours?




laugh


wave
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Dec 26, 2014 7:43 PM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
lifeisadream: sorry, I do not get it Chat.

if I was desperate for attention, did I get yours?
Long time ago but I am pretty much done for tonight.hug Its not easy being melaugh wink laugh
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Dec 27, 2014 3:50 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
Cannot believe that, with all the advice about scammers not to mention the hundreds of threads put up about them, it is still possible that people will fall for their stories. This, in my opinion, is a blatent attempt to 'money launder' (excusing the pun!) a scam..make herself look trustworthy. So this lady get's pregnant and is not able to find the father of the child. She now thinks that men who are unknown to her, living thousands of miles across oceans, are going to send her money!... Just a coincidence i suppose that she happens to look like miss world.....
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Dec 27, 2014 4:09 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
mised
misedmisedLaois, Leix Ireland55 Posts
Did I miss her requests for money ??
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Dec 27, 2014 4:14 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
OgGoDeo
OgGoDeoOgGoDeogalway, Galway Ireland19 Threads 248 Posts
I would think that saying that she had to sell everything she had and had nothing left would insinuate that. The advice she got must not have been what she was looking for anyway as she never came back to say thanks..
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Dec 27, 2014 4:16 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
mised
misedmisedLaois, Leix Ireland55 Posts
OgGoDeo: I would think that saying that she had to sell everything she had and had nothing left would insinuate that. The advice she got must not have been what she was looking for anyway as she never came back to say thanks..


True !
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Dec 27, 2014 5:20 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
mised: Did I miss her requests for money ??


Considering yer profile name, Miss...I find that statement kinda ironic...grin doh
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Dec 27, 2014 5:22 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Methinks OgGoDeo and a few previous poster are right...
Why register on a dating website if ya in serious need for financial & moral support....dunno
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Dec 27, 2014 6:05 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
epirb: ah , the sun is shinning , the bird is chirping . Some people need to look at the OP's testimonials , you may have hit a little nail on the head chats . Tis the season for giving .
Thanks Epi I even missed the testimonial but now I am certain some of us were right.thumbs up Thanks againcheers
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Dec 27, 2014 6:08 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Bspoken4: Methinks OgGoDeo and a few previous poster are right...
Why register on a dating website if ya in serious need for financial & moral support....

Looking for a husband in a hurry...?
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Dec 27, 2014 6:29 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
...just a cheap stunt.....jmo.
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Dec 27, 2014 6:53 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
truheart1941: ...just a cheap stunt.....jmo.

Maybe it depends on the culture.

My aunt did it in the 60's when she found herself pregnant and unmarried.

That's what was expected at the time.

dunno
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Dec 27, 2014 7:00 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Maybe it depends on the culture.

My aunt did it in the 60's when she found herself pregnant and unmarried.

That's what was expected at the time.
My own mother scammed my father cause she was pregnant and my the baby(my older brother)was not his kid. handshake
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Dec 27, 2014 7:02 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: My own mother scammed my father cause she was pregnant and my the baby(my older brother)was not his kid.
Wayuh oh
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Dec 27, 2014 7:08 AM CST Currently pregnant and alone..??
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
chatonlyman2: My own mother scammed my father cause she was pregnant and my the baby(my older brother)was not his kid.


When did he find out, Chat?
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