cj1988: I am pregnant. Alone. Broken. Disappointed. Feeling so down throughout these months. My baby in my tummy doesn't have her father. They leave us. Because He revealed that He is a married man, then he left us without any word. He leave me hanging. Sometimes I want to abort it, but my conscience can't fight it. I love my baby. I don't know what to do. I Iost my job. I'm starting to sell few stuffs of my own. Now I am going to zero! I have nothing. Help me.. I don't have family. I live by my own. I don't know how to handle this stress coming to my life. Will i let it adopt to others? But i don't wanna lose this angel. I love him/her so much. I dont know the gender yet. It's 20weeks old on my bump. PLEASE HELP ME.. I AM SO DEPRESS NOW!
chatonlyman2: Think about it is all I can say. I would hate to see a scammer mess this site up but its Possible.
ah , the sun is shinning , the bird is chirping . Some people need to look at the OP's testimonials , you may have hit a little nail on the head chats . Tis the season for giving .
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
cj1988: I am pregnant. Alone. Broken. Disappointed. Feeling so down throughout these months. My baby in my tummy doesn't have her father. They leave us. Because He revealed that He is a married man, then he left us without any word. He leave me hanging. Sometimes I want to abort it, but my conscience can't fight it. I love my baby. I don't know what to do. I Iost my job. I'm starting to sell few stuffs of my own. Now I am going to zero! I have nothing. Help me.. I don't have family. I live by my own. I don't know how to handle this stress coming to my life. Will i let it adopt to others? But i don't wanna lose this angel. I love him/her so much. I dont know the gender yet. It's 20weeks old on my bump. PLEASE HELP ME.. I AM SO DEPRESS NOW!
Is he responsible for you having a baby? Of course he is and so are you.
Be responsible for your baby, if you can not sustain him/her (although you have stated “her” in your OP) adoption would be a good option. If you decide to keep the baby, you can ask the Father for child support/care, get a lawyer.
Let his wife know about your pregnancy so he shares the responsibility and he will think twice before fooling around.
The best to you and the baby and next time think twice before getting pregnant.
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
chatonlyman2: I seen 2 babies tonight and neither one of them were desperate fo attention but both caught my notice, Little guy (8 months) was moving me with a shovel and the 18 month old tried to be the pusher of the shovel soon after. I Liked their reaction when I stole the shovek grunting in their Language as a head game with rock on status to both.
sorry, I do not get it Chat.
if I was desperate for attention, did I get yours?
Cannot believe that, with all the advice about scammers not to mention the hundreds of threads put up about them, it is still possible that people will fall for their stories. This, in my opinion, is a blatent attempt to 'money launder' (excusing the pun!) a scam..make herself look trustworthy. So this lady get's pregnant and is not able to find the father of the child. She now thinks that men who are unknown to her, living thousands of miles across oceans, are going to send her money!... Just a coincidence i suppose that she happens to look like miss world.....
I would think that saying that she had to sell everything she had and had nothing left would insinuate that. The advice she got must not have been what she was looking for anyway as she never came back to say thanks..
OgGoDeo: I would think that saying that she had to sell everything she had and had nothing left would insinuate that. The advice she got must not have been what she was looking for anyway as she never came back to say thanks..
epirb: ah , the sun is shinning , the bird is chirping . Some people need to look at the OP's testimonials , you may have hit a little nail on the head chats . Tis the season for giving .
Thanks Epi I even missed the testimonial but now I am certain some of us were right. Thanks again
Bspoken4: Methinks OgGoDeo and a few previous poster are right... Why register on a dating website if ya in serious need for financial & moral support....
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