Should I date this guy or not? ( Archived) (204)

Feb 8, 2015 1:18 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
aramaya
aramayaaramayawiltshire, Wiltshire, England UK7 Threads 559 Posts
It does all sound a little strange but then it could be genuine>In my eyes you have nothing to loose if he decides to meet you and you him..does it really matter its only an hour out of your life and you will know more then..dont expect anything and meet him as a friend...enjoy
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Feb 8, 2015 1:18 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
truheart1941: emmmmmmmm when it comes to thinking.....your not the brightest star in the heavens are you.....perhaps its just a glitch ,that will soon pass......


I am that star that gives you some brightness wink wink wave
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Feb 8, 2015 1:20 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
Harryonline: He may be rushed of his feet with how it is these days with modern life.

He may not be the texting type of person.

If he has given you this much info. already then you have enough on him for a date. And he may leave his wife for you and pigs may fly (just kidding)

In all honesty, there is no hard evidence of a wife!

And i'm sure you dont want someone texting you all the time, either.


right again. he is super busy, I do have all these information , and there is no evidence of wife (except in my minds) ....no, if someone text me all the time it gets annoying
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Feb 8, 2015 1:23 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
Lannna23: you are right.
i have asked him, he stated that he is single. Also, I know his first and last name, company that he works for, and have found some records oh his speech on youtube......guess what? He has ring on left hand - and for some reason he was pushing left hand in his pocket most of the time




Are you sure he isn't married?wink
It happened to me once, I did know his first and last name and made some search and found out he was not only married, but also 14 years older than me!laugh

If you can't get any contact with him evening time and during weekends, he'll most likely be busy with his "family life"!

There are many red flags here, try to forget him and move on.
I wish you allthe best, but be careful.handshake
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Feb 8, 2015 1:24 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
MrBenjaminWright
MrBenjaminWrightMrBenjaminWrightCadillac, Michigan USA10 Threads 89 Posts
I always say: "If someone is not worth your time, he/she isn't worth a dime." dancing
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Feb 8, 2015 1:34 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
MrBenjaminWright: I always say: "If someone is not worth your time, he/she isn't worth a dime."


if you dont try you never will know.
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Feb 8, 2015 1:34 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
Lannna23: right again. he is super busy, I do have all these information , and there is no evidence of wife (except in my minds) ....no, if someone text me all the time it gets annoying


One thing I do like is "ethics" in all manner of things...you might want to find out if he has any (and demonstrable, not just by uttering words). This takes a bit of time to know on the width and breadth of this.
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Feb 8, 2015 1:40 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
Harryonline: One thing I do like is "ethics" in all manner of things...you might want to find out if he has any (and demonstrable, not just by uttering words). This takes a bit of time to know on the width and breadth of this.


I might, because I got scared to go out of my comfort zone
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Feb 8, 2015 1:43 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Harryonline: One thing I do like is "ethics" in all manner of things...you might want to find out if he has any (and demonstrable, not just by uttering words). This takes a bit of time to know on the width and breadth of this.

A man with ethics and time to spend with his significant one.
A man with ethics and no-time to spend with his significant one.

Which one would I like to relate with?

hmmm

lifeisadream: When there is an interest to communicate with that especial-one,

Time does not exist
there are not excuses,....

I would not date him.


Lannna23: Lifeisdream, ...


Thank you Lannna!

tip hat
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Feb 8, 2015 1:43 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
Lannna23: you are right.
i have asked him, he stated that he is single. Also, I know his first and last name, company that he works for, and have found some records oh his speech on youtube......guess what? He has ring on left hand - and for some reason he was pushing left hand in his pocket most of the time




Not only is he married but he a liar too,some people actually come clean if they married from the onset,

If he can lie to his wife he can lie to you to and if he unfaithful to one he can be the unfaithful type to you too,

Yes get well rid do yourself a favour.

thumbs up
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Feb 8, 2015 1:45 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
peachmelba: Not only is he married but he a liar too,some people actually come clean if they married from the onset,

If he can lie to his wife he can lie to you to and if he unfaithful to one he can be the unfaithful type to you too,

Yes get well rid do yourself a favour.


Goodness, does Lanna know for sure that he's married? I didn't see that?
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Feb 8, 2015 1:48 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
peachmelba: Not only is he married but he a liar too,some people actually come clean if they married from the onset,

If he can lie to his wife he can lie to you to and if he unfaithful to one he can be the unfaithful type to you too,

Yes get well rid do yourself a favour.




He probalaly got his hot young secatary too or trying it on ,,,he probalaly does that alot,

laugh
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Feb 8, 2015 1:50 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba: He probalaly got his hot young secatary too or trying it on ,,,he probalaly does that alot,


He seems luckyrolling on the floor laughing gotta go joy hole
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Feb 8, 2015 1:51 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
azucena2013
azucena2013azucena2013Caracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela3 Threads 42 Posts
If I were you I would cut all contact with him, many guys have done the same in the past and they were married or had a girlfriend. Don't lose your time with a guy like that. Move on.
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Feb 8, 2015 1:51 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
unlaoised: Goodness, does Lanna know for sure that he's married? I didn't see that?




Up to Leanne to find that one out,

Just a guess he is .


Anyway what man says he too tired after work at 5 pm if they really interested to meet up with her,yes they usually busey texting especallaly if they want a date and they wouldn't worry how tired they are.

wink
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Feb 8, 2015 1:51 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
lifeisadream: A man with ethics and time to spend with his significant one.
A man with ethics and no-time to spend with his significant one.

Which one would I like to relate with?

Thank you Lannna!


I make highlight above the adjective word in this. There is no significant other spoken in the tread.
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Feb 8, 2015 1:54 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
azucena2013: If I were you I would cut all contact with him, many guys have done the same in the past and they were married or had a girlfriend. Don't lose your time with a guy like that. Move on.




I think so too she should move on because say he be the type to move on when he gets bored,

laugh
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Feb 8, 2015 1:56 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Harryonline: I make highlight above the adjective word in this. There is no significant other spoken in the tread.


You are right but there is a motive there to look for a "potencial significant one".

Would I be interested in anyone who is too busy even to write a text message?


No, way.
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Feb 8, 2015 1:57 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
peachmelba
peachmelbapeachmelbawexford, Wexford Ireland72 Threads 9,779 Posts
guysimple: He seems lucky



well he probalaly tries to get lucky,

rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 8, 2015 2:02 PM CST Should I date this guy or not?
vfrman
vfrmanvfrmanholland landing, Ontario Canada1 Threads 14 Posts
I think you answered your own question right there.
Lannna23: grrrrrr
You think I should go on date, with all those ugly little things, to date guy who does not care that much about me (obviously - that is a fact, and I am grown enough to accept it), and to try to smile and laugh?!?! - I am not sure that I am capable of something like that
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