Should I date this guy or not? (204)
Lannna23: good point of few, I even didnt think about that
Haha yes women think ahead.
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I wouldn't waste my time on him.
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truheart1941: hi Trigs .....you gave the best advice.......perhaps she wants to be ....another unsolved crime mysteries in some police file.......jesus christ how desparate is she......
Hiya Tru
It's a crazy world so yeah, why take the risk with someone who seems to be so elusive right from the start. 
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allthegoodnamest: Lannna.
Ask yourself what would disappoint you more,if you met him and he didn't meet your expectations or never knowing?
Ask yourself what would disappoint you more,if you met him and he didn't meet your expectations or never knowing?
There is too many of "what if"
After telling him some of my doubts last night.....he might be the one calling out the date
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peachmelba: Well I usually give a person the benifit of the doubt but not on this occasion,
Usually a man sends lots lots texts and finds the time no matter what,
Yes I smell a rat,,yep sorry to say go on your instincts ,anyway do what you feel is the right thing to do for you.
You could ask him directly if you meet him,.
Good luck anyway.
Usually a man sends lots lots texts and finds the time no matter what,
Yes I smell a rat,,yep sorry to say go on your instincts ,anyway do what you feel is the right thing to do for you.
You could ask him directly if you meet him,.
Good luck anyway.
i appreciate your honesty
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Ccincy: I wouldn't waste my time on him.
let's see what today's day will bring.
It would be my very first date after 10 months....
and it turns to be bummer 
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truheart1941: hi Trigs .....you gave the best advice.......perhaps she wants to be ....another unsolved crime mysteries in some police file.......jesus christ how desparate is she......
not me
not that desperate I will get my self together and via Mountain Charleston to enjoy fresh air and snow
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pls date him , cos you will never know if u don't face him and try to understand why, because there people like that out there,, I am one of them always busy all the time,,, but pls take your spray gun with you just in case
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Lannna23: grrrrrr
You think I should go on date, with all those ugly little things, to date guy who does not care that much about me (obviously - that is a fact, and I am grown enough to accept it), and to try to smile and laugh?!?! - I am not sure that I am capable of something like that
You think I should go on date, with all those ugly little things, to date guy who does not care that much about me (obviously - that is a fact, and I am grown enough to accept it), and to try to smile and laugh?!?! - I am not sure that I am capable of something like that
I think your overly over thinking (at this point), and who cares what he is up to (you cant explain everything by text and why should he anyway - are you the filth ?
) there is highly likely a logical explanation, and also he is a stranger so far, until you meet. And there is no shortage of men at all.
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Lannna23: Finally, after few months spent here, and keeping all conversations only through CS e-mails, I've never text to someone, or even exchanged personal e-mail. I've decided that is time to change something and to go step forward - to upgrade conversation to text messages (cell phone) or skype.
And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
To be quite frank, I would give your date on a trial basis, if it doesn't work in 2 weeks, ditch him. That way, no one gets hurt.
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xwatudzavhadzimb: pls date him , cos you will never know if u don't face him and try to understand why, because there people like that out there,, I am one of them always busy all the time,,, but pls take your spray gun with you just in case
I dont need spray gun. As I said I know a lot about him. That is why I got this irritated he seemed as a great guy.
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I agree with you Mr Bejamin or a month to the most
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Harryonline: I think your overly over thinking (at this point), and who cares what he is up to (you cant explain everything by text and why should he anyway - are you the filth ? ) there is highly likely a logical explanation, and also he is a stranger so far, until you meet.
And there is no shortage of men at all.
And there is no shortage of men at all.
that is true
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MrBenjaminWright: To be quite frank, I would give your date on a trial basis, if it doesn't work in 2 weeks, ditch him. That way, no one gets hurt.
have to think about everything. Maybe I am over reacting, maybe I made illusion and reality didnt match with that illusion. Maybe I have started expecting to much, and I should stay calm and with no expectations........
have to think
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Lannna23: have to think about everything. Maybe I am over reacting, maybe I made illusion and reality didnt match with that illusion. Maybe I have started expecting to much, and I should stay calm and with no expectations........
have to think
Good luck Lanna at whatever you do! You deserve to be happy, nontheless. have to think
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lanna, may be u need to make him to want to date you not other way round, so he will make effort,, dictate terms and let him follow you and that will be after you face him,, or can I say ask him to take you to his house so you will have a full picture of what you want or who he is
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MrBenjaminWright: Good luck Lanna at whatever you do! You deserve to be happy, nontheless.
Thank you
thank you to all of you
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Lannna23: have to think about everything. Maybe I am over reacting, maybe I made illusion and reality didnt match with that illusion. Maybe I have started expecting to much, and I should stay calm and with no expectations........
have to think
emmmmmmmm when it comes to thinking.....your not the brightest star in the heavens are you.....perhaps its just a glitch ,that will soon pass......have to think
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Lannna23: that is true
He may be rushed of his feet with how it is these days with modern life.
He may not be the texting type of person.
If he has given you this much info. already then you have enough on him for a date. And he may leave his wife for you and pigs may fly
(just kidding)In all honesty, there is no hard evidence of a wife!
And i'm sure you dont want someone texting you all the time, either.
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Usually a man sends lots lots texts and finds the time no matter what,
Yes I smell a rat,,yep sorry to say go on your instincts ,anyway do what you feel is the right thing to do for you.
You could ask him directly if you meet him,.
Good luck anyway.