Should I date this guy or not? (204)
mollybaby: Aw thanks!
But I've no doubt I've been guilty of a bit of verbal (and written) diarrhoea in my time!
But I've no doubt I've been guilty of a bit of verbal (and written) diarrhoea in my time!
Writing on the back of Parking Tickets and Bills do not count...we all vent...
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedalguy59: I agree, I would squeeze her big..................heart.
That's not my big......heart...you are squeezing there ...
..
------ This thread is Archived ------
mollybaby: That's not my big......heart...you are squeezing there ... ..
Thought so, there was two of em.
------ This thread is Archived ------
pedalguy59: Thought so, there was two of em.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lannna23: Finally, after few months spent here, and keeping all conversations only through CS e-mails, I've never text to someone, or even exchanged personal e-mail. I've decided that is time to change something and to go step forward - to upgrade conversation to text messages (cell phone) or skype.
And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
Sorry, love, but I would say he is married (or at least in a long term relationship).
Forget him and find someone worthy!
------ This thread is Archived ------
xxDandelionxx: Sorry, love, but I would say he is married (or at least in a long term relationship).
Forget him and find someone worthy!
Forget him and find someone worthy!
You are right. In her post earlier she checked him out, and he is
married with kids.
------ This thread is Archived ------
i THINK HE IS MARRIED, FORGET HIM
------ This thread is Archived ------
phyche: i THINK HE IS MARRIED, FORGET HIM
whaaaaaaaaat...I'm not married
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lannna23: It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
I can't believe it either.
I was in a situation something like yours. We had been CS emailing for nine months. He didn't want to talk on the phone. He didn't want to meet. He didn't want to use personal email. Three red flags went up. I told him it's time to meet but I wouldn't meet him until I talked to him on the phone. He went along with it and we met. We lasted another six months and then it was time to move on.
In your situation my guess why he doesn't want to talk on the phone is because in today's world there are many search websites where you can find out anything about someone. If he's married he's probably afraid you will contact his wife.
Meeting him in Vegas probably means meeting at a hotel. You might want to think twice about that. I don't want to see a story about you on Dateline.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Lannna23: Thank you! I have red your post and (I dont care if someone gets wrong if someone checks on someone else) I did that after reading your post, you brought me down on earth, and all that to SAVE a time to myself, and to SAVE myself of suffer. So i double checked........guy is married! He was lying on me, but he is polite!
thankful to checking - everything stayed on nice dinner, small walk and that was end of evening!
Please, if someone else wants to date me - No MARRIED! I am not going to make a green card to anyone! Also, I dont want to move from Vegas to meet someone!
Thank you all
thankful to checking - everything stayed on nice dinner, small walk and that was end of evening!
Please, if someone else wants to date me - No MARRIED! I am not going to make a green card to anyone! Also, I dont want to move from Vegas to meet someone!
Thank you all
win win!
ya got off spin and you have your answers.
you took a chance, enjoyed an evening, did some research and saved yourself a whole lot of time and heartache. and you're ready to focus on what you want, rather than on what you don't want. (cuz...you're gonna get what you focus on...yanno...
)
------ This thread is Archived ------
xxDandelionxx: Sorry, love, but I would say he is married (or at least in a long term relationship).
Forget him and find someone worthy!
Forget him and find someone worthy!
he is
you are right
------ This thread is Archived ------
secretagent09: I can't believe it either.
I was in a situation something like yours. We had been CS emailing for nine months. He didn't want to talk on the phone. He didn't want to meet. He didn't want to use personal email. Three red flags went up. I told him it's time to meet but I wouldn't meet him until I talked to him on the phone. He went along with it and we met. We lasted another six months and then it was time to move on.
In your situation my guess why he doesn't want to talk on the phone is because in today's world there are many search websites where you can find out anything about someone. If he's married he's probably afraid you will contact his wife.
Meeting him in Vegas probably means meeting at a hotel. You might want to think twice about that. I don't want to see a story about you on Dateline.
I was in a situation something like yours. We had been CS emailing for nine months. He didn't want to talk on the phone. He didn't want to meet. He didn't want to use personal email. Three red flags went up. I told him it's time to meet but I wouldn't meet him until I talked to him on the phone. He went along with it and we met. We lasted another six months and then it was time to move on.
In your situation my guess why he doesn't want to talk on the phone is because in today's world there are many search websites where you can find out anything about someone. If he's married he's probably afraid you will contact his wife.
Meeting him in Vegas probably means meeting at a hotel. You might want to think twice about that. I don't want to see a story about you on Dateline.
As I said i met him. He was so nice polite, real gentlemen. Followed all my conditions: dinner after my work in Square Town, some Italian Restaurant, walking around a little....he hold my hand...walked me to car, kissed and i went home. After I came back home, he sent me address of the hotel, but politely wished him a good night. when I asked about coming back from Dallas here (as we agreed before), he said something as excuse....then he told me that his phone is always in silence mode, but while he was walking me to my car his phone rang. So, I entered here and someone posted something about being gentlemen and polite mean he is married, and I started checking, through internet face book with that little information that I had.....and puffff Bingo - found his son on Fb. took a pictures of it, sent it to him and told him: delete me!!!! From memory, life and my number.
Tomorrow is new day
I am learning how to fish,.... Once I will become expert
------ This thread is Archived ------
BlueSkyJ: Lessons Learned....Trust in your instincts...Learn to listen to what your body is telling you...You knew, you just needed assurance.
Checking up on somebody makes perfectly smart sense...(setting them up like someone else did in another thread in not okay)
And meeting someone in Vegas is the best choice given you live there...
Good luck on the Next one...
Checking up on somebody makes perfectly smart sense...(setting them up like someone else did in another thread in not okay)
And meeting someone in Vegas is the best choice given you live there...
Good luck on the Next one...
Thank you
Hate that part "Meeting someone in Vegas" - I dont like this town because of that "what happen in Vegas stays in Vegas" - seems like a curs!
------ This thread is Archived ------
jono7: win win!
ya got off spin and you have your answers.
you took a chance, enjoyed an evening, did some research and saved yourself a whole lot of time and heartache. and you're ready to focus on what you want, rather than on what you don't want. (cuz...you're gonna get what you focus on...yanno... )
ya got off spin and you have your answers.
you took a chance, enjoyed an evening, did some research and saved yourself a whole lot of time and heartache. and you're ready to focus on what you want, rather than on what you don't want. (cuz...you're gonna get what you focus on...yanno... )
------ This thread is Archived ------
bungallow55: whaaaaaaaaat...I'm not married
I know, but there are sharks and alligators.......remember?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Darling... believe me when I say...
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
------ This thread is Archived ------
hbenson239: Darling... believe me when I say...
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
Thank you my dear. As i said in previous posts, when I found that he is married, I sent him some photos and told him in face. He admitted, and said that he was lying on me.
Thank you.....no worries I am safe
Let's go on river ........something might be there
------ This thread is Archived ------
hbenson239: Darling... believe me when I say...
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
Thank you my dear. As i said in previous posts, when I found that he is married, I sent him some photos and told him in face. He admitted, and said that he was lying on me.
Thank you.....no worries I am safe
Let's go on river ........something might be there
------ This thread is Archived ------
hbenson239: Darling... believe me when I say...
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
He has 99% of probabilities to be married....
Your story sounds exactly similar as one of mine here in CS... yes he was married and with one children...
take care!
Thank you my dear. As i said in previous posts, when I found that he is married, I sent him some photos and told him in face. He admitted, and said that he was lying on me.
Thank you.....no worries I am safe
Let's go on river ........something might be there
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
s*xual skills
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
your favorite topic?
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
beauty of the heart
makeover
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
Democrats destroyed America
wanting beyond need
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Related Forums
- s*xual skills
- Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
- your favorite topic?
- More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
- I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
- beauty of the heart
- makeover
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- Democrats destroyed America
- wanting beyond need
for your Safety... you not need for yourself....
Aw thanks!
But I've no doubt I've been guilty of a bit of verbal (and written) diarrhoea in my time!