Should I date this guy or not? (204)
Harryonline: About the last line you wrote. This can only happen over a little bit of time. Give it a bit time, thats what I am saying, otherwise you may miss out on a great guy inadvertently (due to the ones who are messing it up for everyone ...thats the players and the cheats...I dont know where they get off on it)...thats just getting misunderstood. Us men are not as good as the lady's when it comes to time management and touch typing. The little things mean a lot...but these things go over our heads. However the players and the cheats...its something they polish up on.
that makes sense....it is a weeding and sorting process. it seems to bother some more than others
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Harryonline: About the last line you wrote. This can only happen over a little bit of time. Give it a bit time, thats what I am saying, otherwise you may miss out on a great guy inadvertently (due to the ones who are messing it up for everyone ...thats the players and the cheats...I dont know where they get off on it)...thats just getting misunderstood. Us men are not as good as the lady's when it comes to time management and touch typing. The little things mean a lot...but these things go over our heads. However the players and the cheats...its something they polish up on.
that makes sense....it is a weeding and sorting process. it seems to bother some more than others
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In response to: Finally, after few months spent here, and keeping all conversations only through CS e-mails, I've never text to someone, or even exchanged personal e-mail. I've decided that is time to change something and to go step forward - to upgrade conversation to text messages (cell phone) or skype.
And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
for one thing you got red flags here.I dated one in the UK he had so many secrets.Course I uncovred them all that's due to my love of discovery.That five hour difference doesn't mean they can disrupt better.If he wanted something with u he would be moving faster than this snails crawl.Im not sure meeting him will erase the questions already there,unless he wants to answer them now.And thinking about that, this guy showed up: He is real, polite, nice, good looking, taller than me - in one word he has all what I was looking for.
So we start texting each other. At the beginning I havent pay attention that his text messages are mostly written during his working hours, after few days I have noticed that - I barely get any messages after 5PM I've asked him. Explanation was: "I have to go in bad early and stand up early because of business that he runs in Europe".....I take that.
Then, we decided to meet, he lives not that far away from me. We should meet tomorrow - on Monday. I thought he picked Monday because he is busy with work during the weekend, but yesterday he was off whole day, and he is off today too. Why someone will meet during the week day if you have weekend off? - The only reason that crossed my mind is: he is married.
So, yesterday I sent him some message around non, and got respond on that message on late evening, I was super disappointed.
During the working hours i understand that you cannot text all day long, but during the time when you are off?? - he could tell me: I am busy talk to you later" - if you care about person you would say that right? You wouldnt let her wit on you for 7 hours (and thankful to iPhone you can tell if the message has been read or not - it has a small marks below saying: "delivered" and than latter on "read"). Also he said he is in car driving, when I said that I would like to call him, he said: I have to go to sleep. After saying that - I was like........Really??? he turned me down!
should I even meet him tomorrow when he comes in Vegas?
It would be better for me if I sicked with a CS e-mails.....or it is me panicking, or all this is reality but I cannot take it yet since it is very first experience and cannot believe that I am this naive
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I say forget about him date me instead..... :)
We got nothing to loss
quote=Harryonline]I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
We got nothing to loss
quote=Harryonline]I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
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singletrini2013: I say forget about him date me instead..... :)
We got nothing to loss
quote=Harryonline]I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
We got nothing to loss
quote=Harryonline]I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
He has been forgotten
But I am not dating you either.......sorry
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Harryonline: I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
I do.....for sure! I have been so actively looking for someone to date, but at same time paying attention "what looks good on paper...." (just to protect myself of being hurt) that 3rd bummer in a line is enough!!! It is up to me (I must be some glue for certain type of people) or it is up to this web site!
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Lannna23: I do.....for sure! I have been so actively looking for someone to date, but at same time paying attention "what looks good on paper...." (just to protect myself of being hurt) that 3rd bummer in a line is enough!!! It is up to me (I must be some glue for certain type of people) or it is up to this web site!
It's actually the behavior of the cheater, compared the non-cheaters.
The cheaters on average reach out to alot more women than non-cheaters.
They're running around giving the cheater experience to a lots of women,
and the non-cheater is only giving the non-cheater experience to one woman.
The cheaters are also less selective.
They're always giving out the cheater experience, the non-cheaters are more selective. They need to choose carefully(because they're only with one woman) so they take more time selecting a woman to reach out to.
It's like stepping out side in the rain.
You not getting wet because you're you.
You just getting wet because you're going somewhere in the rain.
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i can be in vegas in less than 5 hours...
i'm as real as it gets...lol i lived in vegas for a short time 10 years ago or so...my brother lived there for many years
his house was near the palace station on sahara....i hung out there from time to time
i'd meet you there ANYTIME!!!
plus...how can you resist this face
don't even think i'm kidding around...
i'm as real as it gets...lol i lived in vegas for a short time 10 years ago or so...my brother lived there for many years
his house was near the palace station on sahara....i hung out there from time to time
i'd meet you there ANYTIME!!!
plus...how can you resist this face
don't even think i'm kidding around...
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forced to go about my pda...if thats what you want to call it 
but you see...i'm waaaaaayyyyy to old to send her a flower or an email....
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hey...i've got a thing for beautiful blonds
but you see...i'm waaaaaayyyyy to old to send her a flower or an email....
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hey...i've got a thing for beautiful blonds
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cgedvr1: forced to go about my pda...if thats what you want to call it
but you see...i'm waaaaaayyyyy to old to send her a flower or an email....
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hey...i've got a thing for beautiful blonds
but you see...i'm waaaaaayyyyy to old to send her a flower or an email....
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hey...i've got a thing for beautiful blonds
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yer no help!!!
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cgedvr1: yer no help!!!
I saw an opportunity and took it...what can I tell ya?
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cgedvr1: i can be in vegas in less than 5 hours...
i'm as real as it gets...lol i lived in vegas for a short time 10 years ago or so...my brother lived there for many years
his house was near the palace station on sahara....i hung out there from time to time
i'd meet you there ANYTIME!!!
plus...how can you resist this face
don't even think i'm kidding around...
i'm as real as it gets...lol i lived in vegas for a short time 10 years ago or so...my brother lived there for many years
his house was near the palace station on sahara....i hung out there from time to time
i'd meet you there ANYTIME!!!
plus...how can you resist this face
don't even think i'm kidding around...
wrong perception
I do not look for someone any more (it says nicely in my profile), I am juts debating should I stay as a member here or leave 
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Lannna23: wrong perception I do not look for someone any more (it says nicely in my profile), I am juts debating should I stay as a member here or leave
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hey L...don't give me those sad eyes or roll them at me...
meet me!!!
i'm not going to canada or england or ireland or new zealand....
but vegas i can do...nothing gonna happen on the first meeting other than a new friend...
breakfast...lunch...dinner you pick time and place
ya don't like what you see you can just leave
meet me!!!
i'm not going to canada or england or ireland or new zealand....
but vegas i can do...nothing gonna happen on the first meeting other than a new friend...
breakfast...lunch...dinner you pick time and place
ya don't like what you see you can just leave
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cgedvr1: hey L...don't give me those sad eyes or roll them at me...
meet me!!!
i'm not going to canada or england or ireland or new zealand....
but vegas i can do...nothing gonna happen on the first meeting other than a new friend...
breakfast...lunch...dinner you pick time and place
ya don't like what you see you can just leave
meet me!!!
i'm not going to canada or england or ireland or new zealand....
but vegas i can do...nothing gonna happen on the first meeting other than a new friend...
breakfast...lunch...dinner you pick time and place
ya don't like what you see you can just leave
been there - done it! Three is my lucky number! Now is enough!!! Need a break. Sorry.....
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Lannna23: been there - done it! Three is my lucky number! Now is enough!!! Need a break. Sorry.....
what....a married man...
a scammer...
a whatever...
now ya got a shot at someone REAL...just wants friends first....ok
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As it turns out he is married....as I and others on her predicted... There are signs I've gotten to know...and patterns. There is a difference between not always being available, and having a consistent pattern. Outside of that, it could simply be incompatability-- they want different things
I do agree with you, that we cannot expect anyone to be at our "beck and call" whether it's online or in real life. So there has be be a balance that meets our comfort levels.
About the last line you wrote. This can only happen over a little bit of time. Give it a bit time, thats what I am saying, otherwise you may miss out on a great guy inadvertently (due to the ones who are messing it up for everyone ...thats the players and the cheats...I dont know where they get off on it)...thats just getting misunderstood. Us men are not as good as the lady's when it comes to time management and touch typing. The little things mean a lot...but these things go over our heads. However the players and the cheats...its something they polish up on.