Should I date this guy or not? (204)
sometimes overthinking does help. sometimes it dont. but most of the time u have to realise ur dealing with the unkown. this whole online thing. untill u meet in person. u cannot get to know someone by text and skype. there is only soo much u can know. u have to meet them. spend time with them.
too many people are full of doodoo.
sadly the world is a strange place where one is never satisfied with what they have. it is the greed for more. the adrenaline of doing something wrong and the idea that u have to cover ur tracks to not get caught and the stuff u do mmmmm.
that rush is crazy.
too many people are full of doodoo.
sadly the world is a strange place where one is never satisfied with what they have. it is the greed for more. the adrenaline of doing something wrong and the idea that u have to cover ur tracks to not get caught and the stuff u do mmmmm.
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azucena2013: Unfortunately online dating world is full of married men and scammers. So you have to be careful and don't believe 100% of them until you meet them and have some time knowing them well.
I bet you say that to all the men.
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Harryonline: I bet you say that to all the men.
I dont..... and i am not going to meet every single person in person to decide if I am going to believe them or not. This was a very first guy meeting in person from CS.....and boomer
But it is just a bad luck,.......next one will be better
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Lannna23: I dont..... and i am not going to meet every single person in person to decide if I am going to believe them or not. This was a very first guy meeting in person from CS.....and boomer
But it is just a bad luck,.......next one will be better
But it is just a bad luck,.......next one will be better
I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
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Harryonline: I was referring to another poster.
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
Well, you know and have ascertained what many still cant contemplate, that what looks good on paper (in this case a web page for a profile) is wafer thin and is the last thing to go by.
Also, you have ascertained you are definitely worth going against the gods (and hell fire from the wife)
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He is either married or not who he says he is
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Lanna, it would be unwise to pursue someone who offers so many excuses. Initial dates should have charm and anticipation - already, there is conflict...
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Hey girl!
For me that sounds like Red Flags everywhere... but even so... I think you should talk to him face-to-face and tell him the way you feel and ask why , I think that the sooner you have an honest conversation is always the better, then may be you will realize that simply he´s not willing to give you the time and attention you want, may be you confirm what you think and the guy is actually married...or may be...JUST MAY BE ...there are some other reasons and he actually turns out to be a nice guy.
But talking personally is the best, you won´t loose a thing :)
Best of luck :):)
For me that sounds like Red Flags everywhere... but even so... I think you should talk to him face-to-face and tell him the way you feel and ask why , I think that the sooner you have an honest conversation is always the better, then may be you will realize that simply he´s not willing to give you the time and attention you want, may be you confirm what you think and the guy is actually married...or may be...JUST MAY BE ...there are some other reasons and he actually turns out to be a nice guy.
But talking personally is the best, you won´t loose a thing :)
Best of luck :):)
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When you have too many open questions like that, doesn't sound good. Trust your gut.
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dlmurphy01: When you have too many open questions like that, doesn't sound good. Trust your gut.
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So many excuses..not a good start.. Move on.
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It doesn't sound good. I used to monitor a returns request inbox with most of my clients being from Ireland and Japan, but it did not affect what time I worked and slept here in the USA. So that sounds a little off. So does his schedule.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
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felixis99: It doesn't sound good. I used to monitor a returns request inbox with most of my clients being from Ireland and Japan, but it did not affect what time I worked and slept here in the USA. So that sounds a little off. So does his schedule.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
I have met him, as I said in previous posts and found out that he is married.
Funnies thing is that another guy, that I have started skype conversation with, was insisting on me to get skype on my iPhone, so I did, but then he "was too busy" to send me a message. i was almost felt as a fool "playing" around him and trying to get some message from him. His explanation was: "he was in gym, after that running, and then since it was friday, had a drinks with a friends."
Me......having a bad experience was like: seriously???? You coun't find a time to send me a word or two in between obligations.....And when I told him that, he got mad at me, and doesnt want to speak with me at all
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felixis99: It doesn't sound good. I used to monitor a returns request inbox with most of my clients being from Ireland and Japan, but it did not affect what time I worked and slept here in the USA. So that sounds a little off. So does his schedule.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
Ask to have a few phone conversations before meeting. If he will not talk to you evenings & weekends, or if he consistently doesn;t answer when you call in the evenings (and calls back the next day or several days later), he is probably married. You could also ask him directly if he is married if u have not already done so.
This is very condescending. Women do this too, are they married ? People are allowed to be "offline" instead of being at someones beck and call. And all for what a date, nothing more but that. Whos says its going to be more than one date anyway. Straight away your looking to buying cutains for his bedroom
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Lannna23: I have met him, as I said in previous posts and found out that he is married.
Funnies thing is that another guy, that I have started skype conversation with, was insisting on me to get skype on my iPhone, so I did, but then he "was too busy" to send me a message. i was almost felt as a fool "playing" around him and trying to get some message from him. His explanation was: "he was in gym, after that running, and then since it was friday, had a drinks with a friends."
Me......having a bad experience was like: seriously???? You coun't find a time to send me a word or two in between obligations.....And when I told him that, he got mad at me, and doesnt want to speak with me at all
Funnies thing is that another guy, that I have started skype conversation with, was insisting on me to get skype on my iPhone, so I did, but then he "was too busy" to send me a message. i was almost felt as a fool "playing" around him and trying to get some message from him. His explanation was: "he was in gym, after that running, and then since it was friday, had a drinks with a friends."
Me......having a bad experience was like: seriously???? You coun't find a time to send me a word or two in between obligations.....And when I told him that, he got mad at me, and doesnt want to speak with me at all
I apologize I must have missed that in the thread where you found out he was already married. Be a little more careful about who you give your phone and contact info to, is my thought. Some can just be spammers building lists for sale with no real interest in further contact with you. That is what I would think if someone asked for my info and then did not want to connect....
so I basically do not give it out any more
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Lannna23: I have met him, as I said in previous posts and found out that he is married.
Funnies thing is that another guy, that I have started skype conversation with, was insisting on me to get skype on my iPhone, so I did, but then he "was too busy" to send me a message. i was almost felt as a fool "playing" around him and trying to get some message from him. His explanation was: "he was in gym, after that running, and then since it was friday, had a drinks with a friends."
Me......having a bad experience was like: seriously???? You coun't find a time to send me a word or two in between obligations.....And when I told him that, he got mad at me, and doesnt want to speak with me at all
Funnies thing is that another guy, that I have started skype conversation with, was insisting on me to get skype on my iPhone, so I did, but then he "was too busy" to send me a message. i was almost felt as a fool "playing" around him and trying to get some message from him. His explanation was: "he was in gym, after that running, and then since it was friday, had a drinks with a friends."
Me......having a bad experience was like: seriously???? You coun't find a time to send me a word or two in between obligations.....And when I told him that, he got mad at me, and doesnt want to speak with me at all
I apologize I must have missed that in the thread where you found out he was already married. Be a little more careful about who you give your phone and contact info to, is my thought. Some can just be spammers building lists for sale with no real interest in further contact with you. That is what I would think if someone asked for my info and then did not want to connect....
so I basically do not give it out any more
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Harryonline: This is very condescending. Women do this too, are they married ? People are allowed to be "offline" instead of being at someones beck and call. And all for what a date, nothing more but that. Whos says its going to be more than one date anyway. Straight away your looking to buying cutains for his bedroom
sorry you feel it's condescending but that is simply a perception where I have somehow pushed a button of yours. Rather than condescending it is simply advice based on experience that obviously does not always apply. it is an opinion built from experience. yes of course women can do that too (being dodgy with contact info), however, I can't speak to that as my experience has been with men (supposedly, anyway lol)
As it turns out he is married....as I and others on her predicted... There are signs I've gotten to know...and patterns. There is a difference between not always being available, and having a consistent pattern. Outside of that, it could simply be incompatability-- they want different things
I do agree with you, that we cannot expect anyone to be at our "beck and call" whether it's online or in real life. So there has be be a balance that meets our comfort levels.
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aww sorry that it never worked out all good,but it was a date and thankfully he was honest enough when you met,,he should have been at the start...but you mat and had a smile and you can move on..you have to try sometimes..
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Thank you.....no worries I am safe Let's go on river ........something might be there
Sorry darling...
Yes, I just read your last comment about it...
I think, this kind of experiences learn you to be stronger.
I am so happy you are safe.
I am sure a beautiful and sweet girl like you will find the correct person ;)