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Mar 10, 2015 6:23 AM CST I am angry
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Kaybee50: I also live in a similar situation.

There are 3, or more, college boys living above me and they, and their friends and girlfriends, get home around 10:00 in the evenings and don't settle down until around 4 in the morning. One of them lifts weights and lets it drop to the floor. I about have heart-attack each time that happens.

My neighbors below me scream and curse at each other from the moment they wake up every day until the moment they go to sleep. They have a mentally challenged young boy who then sobs and cries the entire time, they slam doors.

It is a living hell and I understand about the depression and sadness. I stay at the office many times late into the night so that I don't have to go home. It is a rare night that I get more than 4 hours sleep and with my hypothyroidism, I should be receiving at least 7 hours for my thyroid balance.

My lease ends at the end of July. I will be moving if I can make it that long without losing my sanity.


Wow, that is one hell of a challenge. My ex had hypothyroidism, it is not a nice thing to have. I hope you get it under control real soon.
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Mar 15, 2015 10:26 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
i wanna take action against her through police. Do u think they will take a strong action against them?
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Mar 15, 2015 10:31 AM CST I am angry
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
max_max123: Upstair neighbour has become my enemy. And I can't do anything.
Get even in the best way possible....marry her and make her life miserable forever head banger
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Mar 15, 2015 10:39 AM CST I am angry
Bernhardiner
BernhardinerBernhardinerDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Posts
What would the doctor do? Get a mouse or two, place regularly into up stairs flat, wait and if cure not effective repeat with frogs and other lovable roaches.
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Mar 28, 2015 12:59 PM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
so is there anyone left who would wanna talk about it anymore?
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Mar 28, 2015 1:03 PM CST I am angry
cgedvr1
cgedvr1cgedvr1Socal., California USA10 Threads 551 Posts
max_max123: Upstair neighbour has become my enemy. And I can't do anything.


nice to meet you "angry"...

you have choices....think before you act














not that i do...rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 28, 2015 1:11 PM CST I am angry
Stedan
StedanStedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 1,780 Posts
cgedvr1: nice to meet you "angry"...

you have choices....think before you actnot that i do...


Well if one makes the wrong choice.....just think you could be having 3 square meals a day....a quiet time from 1030pm till 6am....everyone gets shuteye......rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 28, 2015 6:12 PM CST I am angry
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
raphael119: Germany has laws and regulations for pee breaks, I have rare German stamps authenticated there and there is only one or two people qualified to authenticate each issue.

My sympathy to the op, noise pollution seems to everywhere- not just in apartments.


That's true laugh Sometimes the rules there annoy me when I don't get my way, BUT it's better than the crap that the OP or Kay have to put up with. She has no choice but to move to escape those people.
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Mar 28, 2015 6:16 PM CST I am angry
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
max_max123: so is there anyone left who would wanna talk about it anymore?


Have to tried to talk to the husband?

So what's the story with the building owner? Did you talk to him/her?
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Mar 28, 2015 6:44 PM CST I am angry
nomoregoodnames
nomoregoodnamesnomoregoodnamesSpringwood, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 137 Posts
Kaybee50:

It is a rare night that I get more than 4 hours sleep and with my hypothyroidism, I should be receiving at least 7 hours for my thyroid balance.



Hi Kaybee,

Have you tried taking evening primrose oil? I was surviving on around an hour and a half sleep a night because of the medication for Hashimoto's, the doctor put me onto evening primrose oil and (so far) it's helping a bit.
Worth a try.

I also sleep with a fan on in the bedroom to block out the neighbours when they're out on their balcony or have their tv loud etc. You can get white noise apps for free if it's too cold for a fan.
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Mar 28, 2015 6:49 PM CST I am angry
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
max_max123: I live in a 3 storey building and the woman upstairs always trying to tease me. She is constantly pounding with a small hammer or something slowly at 6 a.m. or at 4.30 am. Lot of things have also happend in last 6-7 years. So what should i do? im angry, sad and depressed. It is having effect on my health. I would like to get views from u all.


Surely, you have a Council department that covers noise abatement/noise pollution/anti-social behaviour? Complain to them. I can't believe you have endured this for 6-7 years! Stress to them that it is having an effect on your health, which I imagine it would do.

Good luck! handshake
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Apr 1, 2015 9:08 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
its an apartment where everyone who live in the their flats is owner of the flat(apartment). So they r the owners of their flats. And i own my flat. And talking to her husband? He himself do the things to annoy me. Now at 7 a.m. they dust off their doormat in the gallery so the dust would drop in my gallery. and she kinda of hits that doormat on the railing making big sound so we can hear the sound and reply to it. Its a new idea they are applying on me.
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Apr 1, 2015 9:09 AM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
cgedvr1: nice to meet you "angry"...

you have choices....think before you actnot that i do...
yeah im thinking and thats why i havent dont anything that will put me behind the bars
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Apr 1, 2015 9:29 AM CST I am angry
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Sell the flat and move somewhere quiet.
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Apr 2, 2015 12:26 PM CST I am angry
max_max123
max_max123max_max123Pune, Maharashtra India4 Threads 22 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Sell the flat and move somewhere quiet.
cant do that. to expensive
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Apr 2, 2015 1:03 PM CST I am angry
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
max_max123: its an apartment where everyone who live in the their flats is owner of the flat(apartment). So they r the owners of their flats. And i own my flat. And talking to her husband? He himself do the things to annoy me. Now at 7 a.m. they dust off their doormat in the gallery so the dust would drop in my gallery. and she kinda of hits that doormat on the railing making big sound so we can hear the sound and reply to it. Its a new idea they are applying on me.


We have homeowners associations in the US and in Germany. I don't know about other countries. Everyone who owns a flat is a member and pays into an account money for building repairs, housemeister/super, sewer, garbage, etc. That is also where grievances are aired - such as your problem. If a person, even though they own the flat, causes a nuisance they can be legally forced to quit whatever it is they do.

Do you not have such an association for your building? If not, you should!
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