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Apr 3, 2015 10:26 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
I don't know if u ladies have experienced this. But I am certainly getting tired of guys in this website assuming that u r rejecting a guy because u r a gold digger. Sometimes, some men wont take rejection so easy and they would call u a gold digger without a given reason.

For example: This one time, a random guy emailed me, I simply told him I wasn't interested... then he said "Oh, I know why u aren't interested, it is because u think people from my country are poor, so u think I'm poor, but don't worry, that's not true... I got money" then I was like "Are u stupid or a u just plain dumb?? U don't even know me, so don't call me a gold digger (which I'm not) and I simply don't like u cuz u ugly as hell!! (In that case, I told him the truth because he called me a gold digger without a given reason, he didn't answer after that)

I usually get these types of messages from middle eastern guys... are middle eastern women gold diggers or what?? Why do they assume every woman is a gold digger??

I don't know how many of u women experienced this, but I'm getting tired of these men slandering arses.... mumbling
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Apr 3, 2015 10:57 AM CST Gold Diggers
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: I don't know if u ladies have experienced this. But I am certainly getting tired of guys in this website assuming that u r rejecting a guy because u r a gold digger. Sometimes, some men wont take rejection so easy and they would call u a gold digger without a given reason.

For example: This one time, a random guy emailed me, I simply told him I wasn't interested... then he said "Oh, I know why u aren't interested, it is because u think people from my country are poor, so u think I'm poor, but don't worry, that's not true... I got money" then I was like "Are u stupid or a u just plain dumb?? U don't even know me, so don't call me a gold digger (which I'm not) and I simply don't like u cuz u ugly as hell!! (In that case, I told him the truth because he called me a gold digger without a given reason, he didn't answer after that)

I usually get these types of messages from middle eastern guys... are middle eastern women gold diggers or what?? Why do they assume every woman is a gold digger??

I don't know how many of u women experienced this, but I'm getting tired of these men slandering arses....


laugh I have to tell you that your posts make me laugh, honestly (in a good way) laugh

Guys will say anything to try to hit you below the belt if they're rejected. Might as well get used it.

Some will use the "you're a gold digger" line to the reverse psychology number where they expect you then to go on the defensive and deny it and submit to your own insecurity or to overreact. That's another low-brow strategy to either hurt or get a foot in the door.

Some will use the line to try to cover their own shortcomings professionally. i.e. If you don't date a loser, then you must be a gold digger.

The middle eastern women that I know won't date some guy who doesn't have a penny to his name. They are a lot more down to business when it comes to money than the westerners are, in my experience. They don't say that, but it's true nonetheless. Traditionally, there's a whole family looking out for the woman who wants to marry and they'll have their say about the prospective husband.
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Apr 3, 2015 11:03 AM CST Gold Diggers
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: I don't know if u ladies have experienced this. But I am certainly getting tired of guys in this website assuming that u r rejecting a guy because u r a gold digger. Sometimes, some men wont take rejection so easy and they would call u a gold digger without a given reason.

For example: This one time, a random guy emailed me, I simply told him I wasn't interested... then he said "Oh, I know why u aren't interested, it is because u think people from my country are poor, so u think I'm poor, but don't worry, that's not true... I got money" then I was like "Are u stupid or a u just plain dumb?? U don't even know me, so don't call me a gold digger (which I'm not) and I simply don't like u cuz u ugly as hell!! (In that case, I told him the truth because he called me a gold digger without a given reason, he didn't answer after that)

I usually get these types of messages from middle eastern guys... are middle eastern women gold diggers or what?? Why do they assume every woman is a gold digger??

I don't know how many of u women experienced this, but I'm getting tired of these men slandering arses....


Not sure why still we are using the terms like "gold diggers". I mean, i know that gold is expensive, but diamond is even more expensive. So, ladies, if you are going to be accused anyway, why don't you tell the guys to accuse you as some "diamond diggers"?dunno laugh
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Apr 3, 2015 11:19 AM CST Gold Diggers
Just be careful my friend and just block the world like I did. But if you're really searching for Mr Right, be careful okay? bouquet teddybear
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Apr 3, 2015 11:22 AM CST Gold Diggers
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: I don't know if u ladies have experienced this. But I am certainly getting tired of guys in this website assuming that u r rejecting a guy because u r a gold digger. Sometimes, some men wont take rejection so easy and they would call u a gold digger without a given reason.

For example: This one time, a random guy emailed me, I simply told him I wasn't interested... then he said "Oh, I know why u aren't interested, it is because u think people from my country are poor, so u think I'm poor, but don't worry, that's not true... I got money" then I was like "Are u stupid or a u just plain dumb?? U don't even know me, so don't call me a gold digger (which I'm not) and I simply don't like u cuz u ugly as hell!! (In that case, I told him the truth because he called me a gold digger without a given reason, he didn't answer after that)

I usually get these types of messages from middle eastern guys... are middle eastern women gold diggers or what?? Why do they assume every woman is a gold digger??

I don't know how many of u women experienced this, but I'm getting tired of these men slandering arses....


*****
Sandra Yelitzza2 ,, i enjoy your topics, they are so fresh and tender like your age, As I see in your profile, you're young. It's quite a pity and funny at times how people are tagged in dating sites, men and women alike, it's somewhat a kind of revealation if we really analize it further, or to be pricise, phsycologically!
For the sake of sharing, i'll say, mine is the other way, the fact that i am at an advance age and a widower,, it's me who encounter those what are branded as gold diggers, the short time that i was in a dating site, i feel everyday you can have them depends on how often you're on line, but since i don't have golds, it would end up in deception,, not for me of course, because i'm aware those risks.
Just don't be affected by them, you know your person ,, just take it cooly and let them know you have your own gold ,, why not ? power to you ,,
handshake
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Apr 3, 2015 11:26 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
Nidifugous: I have to tell you that your posts make me laugh, honestly (in a good way)

Guys will say anything to try to hit you below the belt if they're rejected. Might as well get used it.

Some will use the "you're a gold digger" line to the reverse psychology number where they expect you then to go on the defensive and deny it and submit to your own insecurity or to overreact. That's another low-brow strategy to either hurt or get a foot in the door.

Some will use the line to try to cover their own shortcomings professionally. i.e. If you don't date a loser, then you must be a gold digger.

The middle eastern women that I know won't date some guy who doesn't have a penny to his name. They are a lot more down to business when it comes to money than the westerners are, in my experience. They don't say that, but it's true nonetheless. Traditionally, there's a whole family looking out for the woman who wants to marry and they'll have their say about the prospective husband.

Well, I'm glad they make u laugh wink
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Apr 3, 2015 11:27 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
mnowsa: Not sure why still we are using the terms like "gold diggers". I mean, i know that gold is expensive, but diamond is even more expensive. So, ladies, if you are going to be accused anyway, why don't you tell the guys to accuse you as some "diamond diggers"?

laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 11:28 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
lindsyjones: Just be careful my friend and just block the world like I did. But if you're really searching for Mr Right, be careful okay?

Oh, I know so... I have a large blocked list 2... honestly, I don't worry bout my blocked list, but I'd make sure I humiliate those type of guys first laugh laugh rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 11:31 AM CST Gold Diggers
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: Oh, I know so... I have a large blocked list 2... honestly, I don't worry bout my blocked list, but I'd make sure I humiliate those type of guys first


Big deal! you can humiliate me all you can, but i will still want to make you my favorite 4th wife. So, how much dowry you want, sandara?banana
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Apr 3, 2015 11:33 AM CST Gold Diggers
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
mnowsa: Not sure why still we are using the terms like "gold diggers". I mean, i know that gold is expensive, but diamond is even more expensive. So, ladies, if you are going to be accused anyway, why don't you tell the guys to accuse you as some "diamond diggers"?



Maybe what he have is only gold, diamond he don't/can't have it.

laugh it's not that already bad, depends on the quantity, diamond diggers are miners, they are in africa most of the time, that's where diamonds are ,, green emeralds ,, do you have ?handshake
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Apr 3, 2015 11:33 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
Lolette: *****
Sandra Yelitzza2 ,, i enjoy your topics, they are so fresh and tender like your age, As I see in your profile, you're young. It's quite a pity and funny at times how people are tagged in dating sites, men and women alike, it's somewhat a kind of revealation if we really analize it further, or to be pricise, phsycologically!
For the sake of sharing, i'll say, mine is the other way, the fact that i am at an advance age and a widower,, it's me who encounter those what are branded as gold diggers, the short time that i was in a dating site, i feel everyday you can have them depends on how often you're on line, but since i don't have golds, it would end up in deception,, not for me of course, because i'm aware those risks.
Just don't be affected by them, you know your person ,, just take it cooly and let them know you have your own gold ,, why not ? power to you ,,

Well, I'm glad u enjoy my topics wink
And I can assure that... I am very independent, I certainly don't need men to take care of me (if a guy wants to take care of me, then I gladly appreciate it, and the feeling should be mutual of course... I take care of him, and he takes care of me)

I'm just wondering cuz many guys place a "gold digger" sticker on ur face for no reason... Tell me the truth, do I look like a gold digger or something?? I don't think I do but if that's what my face portraits then oh well...
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Apr 3, 2015 11:34 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
mnowsa: Big deal! you can humiliate me all you can, but i will still want to make you my favorite 4th wife. So, how much dowry you want, sandara?

doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 11:37 AM CST Gold Diggers
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Lolette: Maybe what he have is only gold, diamond he don't/can't have it.

it's not that already bad, depends on the quantity, diamond diggers are miners, they are in africa most of the time, that's where diamonds are ,, green emeralds ,, do you have ?


Oh..no can do any green emeralds. But i can always put green color on stones just for you. Will that work?grin
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Apr 3, 2015 11:39 AM CST Gold Diggers
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Sandra.
There are good and bad people in all walks of life... Just keep an open mind and don't let a good opportunity pass you by.
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Apr 3, 2015 11:43 AM CST Gold Diggers
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
mnowsa: Oh..no can do any green emeralds. But i can always put green color on stones just for you. Will that work?




Ow,, no! that's not authentique, just like the men/women around dating sites ,, exception please, to those who are honest and sincere, like you mnowsa,, but i want real ones ,,bouquet
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Apr 3, 2015 11:47 AM CST Gold Diggers
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Lolette: Ow,, no! that's not authentique, just like the men/women around dating sites ,, exception please, to those who are honest and sincere, like you mnowsa,, but i want real ones ,,


Oh..i am all real with real hair, real hands, real legs, real eyes, real nose, and a real "ding dong". I am as real as one can get, Loletterolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 11:55 AM CST Gold Diggers
SandraYelitzza2
SandraYelitzza2SandraYelitzza2Midlothian, Texas USA23 Threads 449 Posts
mnowsa: Oh..i am all real with real hair, real hands, real legs, real eyes, real nose, and a real "ding dong". I am as real as one can get, Lolette

Is ur hair green too?? Like emeralds?? rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 11:59 AM CST Gold Diggers
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
mnowsa: Oh..i am all real with real hair, real hands, real legs, real eyes, real nose, and a real "ding dong". I am as real as one can get, Lolette



ha ha,, let those bells ring ding dong,, for real ones then ,,
that's great mnowsa ,, i don't have doubts ,, cheers ,,,laugh
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Apr 3, 2015 12:01 PM CST Gold Diggers
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
SandraYelitzza2: Is ur hair green too?? Like emeralds??


Oh..not only hair. In fact, the whole me is like "fresh and farm-green" banana rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2015 12:07 PM CST Gold Diggers
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I'm not looking but I've still blocked out the world.
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