1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Aphaea: here ya go everyone!!
now there's no more excuse...
of course the answers coming from each of you, will have a huge role in what happens to the chemistry....
but hey! it's Spring!
plant some gardens
Hi Aphea ,,, huge indeed,, it reminds me of my highschool years ,, or the board exam in sociology ,, so many have taken, few have passed ,, plus the chemistry and all it's formulas ,,, try to answer them if i want to hook one ,, wish me luck ,,
I've used some of those before and it took me months to realise the trick of listening to her answers with apparent enthusiasm. Not yawning, sighing and scraping the sleep out of your eye are key.
Obstinance_Works: I've used some of those before and it took me months to realise the trick of listening to her answers with apparent enthusiasm. Not yawning, sighing and scraping the sleep out of your eye are key.
Ccincy: If I were to ask someone that many questions all at once they would probably be bored and never wish to see me again.
hahhahaa i know right!
in a real life scenario, we would have to have much more imagination than that to extract/exchange, all that information !
on the other hand just to have an awareness ,of how the mind works and how easily we can be manipulated if we neglect our own personal development and consciousness, is useful.
I think these experiments are valuable in that they show us what we are hungry for, what we long for from one another...interest,communion..intimacy, empathy, these ingredients are the seeds of powerful chemistry, that give is 'relationship'.
I thought it was at least worthy of posting on a dating site for Spring tho
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a word of caution....
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.
you may just get it