allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Lindsy. Nice to see you to....hope you're well.. On a business level , women can be very logical and focused , sometimes over compensating in a male dominated field .. As far as personal is concerned , it depends on the time of the month!
I disagree. certainly from a dating aspect, the men I have dated have all been quite over emotional, tending to become controlling, Jealous, needy, highly strung etc, on many occasions. I have found these men quite illogical in the manner that they need to be told I love them continuously, numerous times a day, or lose the plot if I chat to a waiter. I would, and most of my friends would, describe me as an extremely realistic and logical person. I tend to require logic as a staple of everyday life, even more so when it comes to understanding the actions and thought processes of others.
saoirse10: I disagree. certainly from a dating aspect, the men I have dated have all been quite over emotional, tending to become controlling, Jealous, needy, highly strung etc, on many occasions. I have found these men quite illogical in the manner that they need to be told I love them continuously, numerous times a day, or lose the plot if I chat to a waiter. I would, and most of my friends would, describe me as an extremely realistic and logical person. I tend to require logic as a staple of everyday life, even more so when it comes to understanding the actions and thought processes of others.
I am glad to hear about your tendency to be the opposite of my observation. I guess there are so many women in here who are more logical than our counterparts. I may be wrong again and that's great to hear from you.
Thanks for joining. You would definitely be a great catch.
allthegoodnamest: Lindsy. Nice to see you to....hope you're well.. On a business level , women can be very logical and focused , sometimes over compensating in a male dominated field .. As far as personal is concerned , it depends on the time of the month!
All, I am overly impressed.
I'm feeling great All. Great weather and great health, can't ask for more. Going back to school this fall is something I'm looking forward to after my Europe trip in September.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Lindsy. As far as relationships are concerned, I don't think it's the gender that determines the more emotional , it all comes down to the personality of the individual .. Who can keep their emotions intact giving them the "upper hand" as far as logic is concerned.
lindsyjones: In my observation men generally tend to be more logical and realistic while women are the opposite.
In your experience, do you share the same observation? If not, why?
Thanks all for your contribution or opinions, agreement or disagreement.
Yes, men are more practical and women are more emotional and there are males who lean towards womanliness and females who lean mannishly.
But to be realistic is to be somewhere in the middle of all this. It's not realistic to think people are unemotional robots instead of Human Beings, and it's also not realistic to think that we are hysterically emotional children instead of proper grown ups. To be truly practical and realistic entails not being too much of either of these, and instead you should be as rounded and balanced as possible.
allthegoodnamest: Lindsy. As far as relationships are concerned, I don't think it's the gender that determines the more emotional , it all comes down to the personality of the individual .. Who can keep their emotions intact giving them the "upper hand" as far as logic is concerned.
I can completely understand All. However, I have listened so much about dr. Laura Schlessinger's lecture on the wide diffrences on men and women's emotional as well as logical tendencies and it's amazing how it supports my observation, or perhaps I'm just thrown in the world of women who are more emotional.
My children are my immediate example. My son, hardly ever shows emotions, my girls, three of them, are very emotional on almost everything they do. Don't get me wrong, they're perfectly normal living great lives, thanks for the help of my mom raising them.
Obstinance_Works: Yes, men are more practical and women are more emotional and there are males who lean towards womanliness and females who lean mannishly.
But to be realistic is to be somewhere in the middle of all this. It's not realistic to think people are unemotional robots instead of Human Beings, and it's also not realistic to think that we are hysterically emotional children instead of proper grown ups. To be truly practical and realistic entails not being too much of either of these, and instead you should be as rounded and balanced as possible.
Thanks as always. Remarkable analysis as always Obs.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
Lindsy. I'm not sure I agree lindsy.. Openly , yes , women do show more emotion and in your circumstance you may be right but men generally hide their emotions with humour and Maybe we are better at hiding them.
lindsyjones: In my observation men generally tend to be more logical and realistic while women are the opposite.
In your experience, do you share the same observation? If not, why?
Thanks all for your contribution or opinions, agreement or disagreement.
Speaking empirically and from read surveys... women in (general) tend to be more emotional in their mindset. Whereas men are less emotional, and, more logical and pragmatic in their thought processing. Case in point: no matter how much logic and rationale I imparted to my ex-fiancé... she would usually react and retort via her emotions. Thus I am in agreement with you pretty lady. Thank you.
allthegoodnamest: Lindsy. I'm not sure I agree lindsy.. Openly , yes , women do show more emotion and in your circumstance you may be right but men generally hide their emotions with humour and Maybe we are better at hiding them.
All yes I think that's what makes it difficult to assess one's true character because of this ability to hide.
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In your experience, do you share the same observation? If not, why?
Thanks all for your contribution or opinions, agreement or disagreement.