What are these guys thinking? (55)
PrettyPrescious: Their profile will clearly state that they WANT KIDS. I'm 54 years old! They say my age isn't an issue, and they want to get to know me better. I point out that it isn't a match, because they want kids. They insist that is not important to them.......Really??? Seriously? They clearly state in their profile that they want kids, yet want to start something up with a 50-s woman, who is supposed to fall for the guy hook line and sinker, but I know better than to get emotionally invested with a man who would want kids!! Am I over-reacting? I would not be interested in a fling. I want something permanent!
That's true,, sometimes the contradictories are so blatant, how to interpret such acts? for me i can say they just do it without any further interest,, we might just be part of their past time ,, otherwise how could we consider it as a serious affair,,,
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chris27292729: ""Some fun"",sometimes can have a ""Happy Ending"".
Cris
,,, let's have fun then ,,, 
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Lolette: That's true,, sometimes the contradictories are so blatant, how to interpret such acts? for me i can say they just do it without any further interest,, we might just be part of their past time ,, otherwise how could we consider it as a serious affair,,,
That's exactly the way I see it. They think they can fool me for a period of time, and then "mess up" so I'll get rid of them after I'm used up, so that they can meet someone to have kids with later, after they've had their fun. Not. Gonna. Happen. Not with me it isn't
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PrettyPrescious: I'll meet someone younger, who has his own kid already. But if he has no kids, and/or wants more, it isn't going to happen. Period. However, if he has no kids, and does NOT care to have any.......we can talk
Pretty ,, yes,, having kids might be included in the long term plan, or i can say we can have kids by adoption. I have seen/tv, in Italy a grandma over 60's had her kid thru artificial medical manipulations,, she was well followed by the medical staff who performed it & it was a sucess, though not to be taken lightly,,,
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PrettyPrescious: That's exactly the way I see it. They think they can fool me for a period of time, and then "mess up" so I'll get rid of them after I'm used up, so that they can meet someone to have kids with later, after they've had their fun. Not. Gonna. Happen. Not with me it isn't
I think that's a risk we take when engaging with younger men anyway
It's a slippery, but enjoyable, slope
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serene56: In everyday life, perhaps.But the internet is full of idiots thinking they can flatter older women with their sweet-talking BS.Wise up, older women
Serene ,, yes,,let's be wiser and reasonable , or is it really wise to look for a lifetime partner here? one in a million chance maybe , internet fling is just sort of a pastime for so many ,,
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kandacyhope: No ma'am you are not over-reacting at all, you are totally right, its a pity ladies your age wont take that kind of stand, you know what u want and you are not settling.
Thank you. I try to point it out to these guys why it won't work, but these fools, er, dudes want to insist that "kids don't matter", only love does. I think they are confusing "love" with "love making". Big difference
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serene56: I think that's a risk we take when engaging with younger men anyway It's a slippery, but enjoyable, slope
also it takes a brit girl...to understand a brit guy.....
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serene56: I think that's a risk we take when engaging with younger men anyway It's a slippery, but enjoyable, slope
I'm telling you, alot of these men are in their 40s and 50s. I was telling a counselor I was seeing about this once, and she was NOT surprised. She said people are waiting longer to have kids....This is a problem I've run into over and over again
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truheart1941: also it takes a brit girl...to understand a brit guy.....
Tru
,, is there a lot to understand in a brit guy, for a non brit woman,,it might be a long process of learning/comparison ,, that could reduce the possibility or making the margin a litle narrow, moreso in a net,, brits for brits? ------ This thread is Archived ------
Lolette: Serene ,, yes,,let's be wiser and reasonable , or is it really wise to look for a lifetime partner here? one in a million chance maybe , internet fling is just sort of a pastime for so many ,,
Very true Lolette
I'm not looking myself
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truheart1941: also it takes a brit girl...to understand a brit guy.....
Yes I could see myself with a British man before an Aus one, tbh
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PrettyPrescious: I need to get some sleep now, will get back to this forum later.....good night all, and thanks for your opinions and humor so far
Pretty ,,, good night there, it's 12:04 noon here in France ,,
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Lolette: Pretty ,,, good night there, it's 12:04 noon here in France ,,
Bonjour Chérie, et Bon Appétit !
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HappyValerie: Bonjour Chérie, et Bon Appétit !
Happy,, hi there beauté,, thanks,,, careful to thunderstorm in your area,,
you're in the red alert zone,,, Bon Ap as well ,,,
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Lolette: Happy,, hi there beauté,, thanks,,, careful to thunderstorm in your area,,
you're in the red alert zone,,, Bon Ap as well ,,,
you're in the red alert zone,,, Bon Ap as well ,,,
Thank you for caring Lolette, yes we are on alert. I love thunderstorms & will welcome those, it would be so refreshing after a heatwave of 10 days over 35 celsius
. Enjoy your pause 
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Hmmm... I'm mostly contacted by/run into those that don't want children at all or not anymore. 
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I'll meet someone younger, who has his own kid already. But if he has no kids, and/or wants more, it isn't going to happen. Period. However, if he has no kids, and does NOT care to have any.......we can talk