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mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 PostsIf i had any true feelings for a person after a break up no matter the circumstances or what my friends or family thought about them i would take them back ive had break ups and bust ups but im a big softy deep down 
mjpd67: If i had any true feelings for a person after a break up no matter the circumstances or what my friends or family thought about them i would take them back ive had break ups and bust ups but im a big softy deep down
you are joking right??PRETTYPOLLY1: you are joking right??
ya best policy is to move on i dont usually burn my bridges i blow them up 
your a nice looking woman find another fella and enjoy yourself 
PRETTYPOLLY1: you are joking right??
although i did you back to some exes but never really works best policy and ive learnt the hard way is get on your horse and ride outta town 
In response to: Have any of you ever noticed that its only after a relationship ends that people will say the negatives about them?
I split up from a relationship a few months ago and within a week it was "oh he's this and he's that...and i always thought you were too good for him bla,bla,bla..."
And of course the untold stories come pouring out about him..
Where was all these stories before and why not tell them when the relationship was ongoing
Question here is would you make a person aware of the traits in their partner if you thought it would be in their best interest?
I split up from a relationship a few months ago and within a week it was "oh he's this and he's that...and i always thought you were too good for him bla,bla,bla..."
And of course the untold stories come pouring out about him..
Where was all these stories before and why not tell them when the relationship was ongoing
Question here is would you make a person aware of the traits in their partner if you thought it would be in their best interest?
When a relationship is over its like a grieving process regardless of whether it was mutual or in your case Polly you had finished it,it's something that has died and it takes time to move on we are creatures of habit and you had feelings for the man,,
If you are hearing negative things now about him now from friends it's not going to benifit you except to reinforce your decision to finish with him.
We don't always like to hear what we don't like and if they were true friend they would have told you of negative things they heard about him if they were almost certain they were true,
At the time you were going out with him your friends may have been reluctant to tell you because they may of not been sure,
Maybe you should tell your friends hw you feel about them telling you now and talk about it over wine over yea,it's always good to talk polly,
dont agree peach i gave my x partner a second and all she did was throw it back in my face and polly ppl came to me afterwards to tell me i made the right decision my answer to them was why didnt ye tell me then but life goes on im sure yheres other nice ladies out there ive no regrets
mjpd67: most relationships can go through a rocky patch from time to time but would you give a fella a 2nd chance Molly no matter what your friends said about him if you had any little feelings for him or is your p45 final ?
Yes, I would, and I have.
moc1234: dont agree peach i gave my x partner a second and all she did was throw it back in my face and polly ppl came to me afterwards to tell me i made the right decision my answer to them was why didnt ye tell me then but life goes on im sure yheres other nice ladies out there ive no regrets
Sorry mac I don't understand what your saying that you don't agree with what I said,
PRETTYPOLLY1: Have any of you ever noticed that its only after a relationship ends that people will say the negatives about them?
I split up from a relationship a few months ago and within a week it was "oh he's this and he's that...and i always thought you were too good for him bla,bla,bla..."
And of course the untold stories come pouring out about him..
Where was all these stories before and why not tell them when the relationship was ongoing
Question here is would you make a person aware of the traits in their partner if you thought it would be in their best interest?
I split up from a relationship a few months ago and within a week it was "oh he's this and he's that...and i always thought you were too good for him bla,bla,bla..."
And of course the untold stories come pouring out about him..
Where was all these stories before and why not tell them when the relationship was ongoing
Question here is would you make a person aware of the traits in their partner if you thought it would be in their best interest?
Lots of people reflexively stay out of other people's business in terms of relationships. Many will even say nothing when seeing 1 of a pair cheating or whatever behind their back. They'll just say it's none of their business. And in some cases that's a learned response. Some people learn the hard lesson when they get slammed back by the one they are trying to help. By denial or whatever.
Being a good friend that has is totally sure that rumours are in fact true facts tells their friend regardless of what come back at them by friend
That's my opinion anyway,
That's my opinion anyway,
peachmelba: Being a good friend that has is totally sure that rumours are in fact true facts tells their friend regardless of what come back at them by friend
That's my opinion anyway,
That's my opinion anyway,
I agree. But many others would steer clear. Until it's all over.. and out comes the "I told you so"
MADDOG69: I agree. But many others would steer clear. Until it's all over.. and out comes the "I told you so"
How can they tell them I told you so after if they didnt say it beforehand,
Some friends unless they were hit on and didnt decline,
peachmelba: How can they tell them I told you so after if they didnt say it beforehand,Some friends unless they were hit on and didnt decline,
Seriously tho,
In some cases people will do or think the opposite when you try and tell them something they don't want to hear,
They don't like happy bubble burst
May believe or not all depends how eluded they are from the reality while being loved up as they only see it that way themselves without flaws.
It's sensitive if I was to tell a friend I'd have to tread very carefully and may wear protection .
To suggest a drink to friend before I let him or her hear the facts I wouldn't recommend drink as it heighten emotions,
peachmelba: Seriously tho,
In some cases people will do or think the opposite when you try and tell them something they don't want to hear,
They don't like happy bubble burst
May believe or not all depends how eluded they are from the reality while being loved up as they only see it that way themselves without flaws.
It's sensitive if I was to tell a friend I'd have to tread very carefully and may wear protection .
To suggest a drink to friend before I let him or her hear the facts I wouldn't recommend drink as it heighten emotions,
In some cases people will do or think the opposite when you try and tell them something they don't want to hear,
They don't like happy bubble burst
May believe or not all depends how eluded they are from the reality while being loved up as they only see it that way themselves without flaws.
It's sensitive if I was to tell a friend I'd have to tread very carefully and may wear protection .
To suggest a drink to friend before I let him or her hear the facts I wouldn't recommend drink as it heighten emotions,
Lets face it most of us have been deluded in the happy bubble but was enjoyable at time,
Omg if I discovered he had betrayed me while I was with him and someone I was close to didnt tell me and they were certain at the time.
I'd I'd I'd.
and then rage. ,Then I'd be happy he was out of my life.
.The friend would get an earful.
MADDOG69: Lots of people reflexively stay out of other people's business in terms of relationships. Many will even say nothing when seeing 1 of a pair cheating or whatever behind their back. They'll just say it's none of their business. And in some cases that's a learned response. Some people learn the hard lesson when they get slammed back by the one they are trying to help. By denial or whatever.
Very true..i gave a friend a tip off once and she didnt believe me,she left me as her friend and guess what...he dumped her then.
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