How to say "No"? (106)
felixis99: it's no fun getting those messages tho....I go for the "ounce of prevention" route
Very wise i think..
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twazzle70: Very wise i think..
thanks
either wise or completely lacking in courage
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Just be bold and diplomatic - Tell'em to Fox-trot Oscar
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felixis99: it's no fun getting those messages tho....I go for the "ounce of prevention" route
i hear ya....
i'm pretty sure they wouldn't last in a thread...
i pick wise.....
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jono7: i hear ya....
i'm pretty sure they wouldn't last in a thread...
i pick wise.....
i'm pretty sure they wouldn't last in a thread...
i pick wise.....
so true...I think of those types as brave enough to pick on a woman in a PM but sterling to imagine how they'd fare in the forums....hilarious
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PrimaveraSpring: How to say "No" to men who write you but you dont like them at all? I dont want to hurt them! Any ideas?
Just don't reply. If they reply anyhow your not commited to read it.
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allthegoodnamest: You must have some "very powerful tools" at your disposal.
Morning J...
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Ccincy: If you don't like them just ignore, simple.
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KremaP: My headline is "Single but NOT looking", and you know what, they write to try and convince me I actually don't really mean that...
Don't reply, that's polite in it's own, "dating site" way!
Don't reply, that's polite in it's own, "dating site" way!
Thanks
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serena123: Push your tongue to the top of your mouth..start making a nnnnn sound, then push your lips forward to form a circle..the word NO should come out
Wow! Brilliant! Thanks for teaching me that!
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jono7: thankyou for taking the time to view my profile.
i do not think we are a match, but i wanted to say thank you and wish you success in your search.
(and then get ready for the abusive remarks some will send in return to your email. at which point, remind yourself that, that any derogatory comments sent are about them and not you, thank your lucky stars you didn't pursue it further, then block and delete become useful.).
i do not think we are a match, but i wanted to say thank you and wish you success in your search.
(and then get ready for the abusive remarks some will send in return to your email. at which point, remind yourself that, that any derogatory comments sent are about them and not you, thank your lucky stars you didn't pursue it further, then block and delete become useful.).
Actually, that is the best answer and I've always did like that! Thanks God, till now no rude answer.
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Lindzi: I usually say I'm looking for someone who can communicate in English
Most of them speak Englsh, some perfect, some even worse than me
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mollybaby: Just reply with a flower, rather than an email, saying
'Thanks for the message.I am not interested, but best of luck on the site!'
That will let 90% of men know where they stand, in a polite manner.
The other 10% will either keep trying, or try to insult.
Either way, if they mail back after getting the flower, do NOT engage with them anymore.End of
'Thanks for the message.I am not interested, but best of luck on the site!'
That will let 90% of men know where they stand, in a polite manner.
The other 10% will either keep trying, or try to insult.
Either way, if they mail back after getting the flower, do NOT engage with them anymore.End of
Thanks!
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dutchfreckles: i say thanks but im not intrested
but some don't thank no as a aswehr ,than i can get pist ,and sometime i am not so polite than ,sorry can happen
but some don't thank no as a aswehr ,than i can get pist ,and sometime i am not so polite than ,sorry can happen
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2intrigued: You can do one of two things...either ignore the email altogether or respond with a thank you but I'm not interested and wish them luck. Sometimes a polite response results in abusive replies at which time you simply delete, block and forget it even happened.
Thanks
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KremaP: Well, you are right...
You are trying to flatter me Guy, putting me in the pretty group, haha, no, I am not one of them and I don't get much mail.
You are trying to flatter me Guy, putting me in the pretty group, haha, no, I am not one of them and I don't get much mail.
You are modest
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Aragorn11: Invite them around your house for dinner and a chat.
From their profile, you will see what they are interested in, so plan ahead and have a 'let down' pressie for them.
Face to face is a really nice way of breaking bad news and in my experience men are mature enough to handle it.
Have a 6 pack ready for their journey home.
That should do it.
From their profile, you will see what they are interested in, so plan ahead and have a 'let down' pressie for them.
Face to face is a really nice way of breaking bad news and in my experience men are mature enough to handle it.
Have a 6 pack ready for their journey home.
That should do it.
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Track16: In some cases it may not matter how you say no, they are just going to be bruised about it.
Agree
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Any guy adult enough to be on here should also be adult enough to handle the fact that not every woman is gonna be interested in them..
Sadly some do become abusive when rejected,,but that says more about them than you....
it's no fun getting those messages tho....I go for the "ounce of prevention" route