Has anyone been in contact with the user on this site called andyshc 65 years old from Beverly, Hills, CA???????? because me and him wrote messages to each other for 2 weeks, they all disappeared yesterday. In his last message, he kept talking about his civil engineering job and that he lives all alone in a 2,125 square feet house with a pool, gym, in Beverly Hills, Ca. He said that he is originally from Paris, France. His profile is "not available" WAS I BEING SCAMMED?????? PLEASE HELP ME.
you allways can check out his photo by google ,or the text he write to you ,but i think yes he is a scammer some other women my report him or get cold feets
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
irena0688: Has anyone been in contact with the user on this site called andyshc 65 years old from Beverly, Hills, CA???????? because me and him wrote messages to each other for 2 weeks, they all disappeared yesterday. In his last message, he kept talking about his civil engineering job and that he lives all alone in a 2,125 square feet house with a pool, gym, in Beverly Hills, Ca. He said that he is originally from Paris, France. His profile is "not available" WAS I BEING SCAMMED?????? PLEASE HELP ME.
dutchfreckles: you allways can check out his photo by google ,or the text he write to you ,but i think yes he is a scammer some other women my report him or get cold feets
Thank you for messaging me. I did upload his phone onto Google, it shows 2 other photos of a weird Asian person in a car. I still don't understand, why he wrote really long messages to me about his work, life??????? He also said he wants to meet me soon.
Why would someone write really long messages like huge paragraphs? I also found some weird phone number in California and an internet business company with his name that expired in 2011. The first message he wrote was that he moved here some years ago because his father was sick.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
dutchfreckles: if his profile looks to good to being true ,you now it is not true
Nonsense .. There are some nice looking charming people who are genuine & use dating sites because they have busy lives.. You shouldn't categorise people just because of their appearance.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
irena0688: Why would someone write really long messages like huge paragraphs? I also found some weird phone number in California and an internet business company with his name that expired in 2011. The first message he wrote was that he moved here some years ago because his father was sick.
Did he give you a contact number or a forwarding address?
irena0688: Has anyone been in contact with the user on this site called andyshc 65 years old from Beverly, Hills, CA???????? because me and him wrote messages to each other for 2 weeks, they all disappeared yesterday. In his last message, he kept talking about his civil engineering job and that he lives all alone in a 2,125 square feet house with a pool, gym, in Beverly Hills, Ca. He said that he is originally from Paris, France. His profile is "not available" WAS I BEING SCAMMED?????? PLEASE HELP ME.
I'm afraid it sounds like it. Let me guess, he has one child and he's a widower?
MintyFeetLongchamps, Buenos Aires Argentina131 posts
Why would he feel the need to say he has a pool and a gym. He sounds like a snob. I would never speak to someone who includes details of how many things they have. Like those pathetic men who post pics of themselves with smart cars. Or those very old men with pics of motorcycles they can barely hold because of how really really old they are.
unlaoised: I'm afraid it sounds like it. Let me guess, he has one child and he's a widower?
He said had 2 kids. One lived with his mother in Paris and another son lived in California. He said he was divorced. He also said he loves to travel through the usa and through out the world and that he goes to concerts.
allthegoodnamest: Did he give you a contact number or a forwarding address?
He did not give me his phone number or address. He asked me if I have another email address so that me and him can talk more. I said no that I do not have one. I still do not understand why someone would write so many long paragraphs about himself for 2 weeks and he said that he likes my honesty and openess in life. He also said that he wants to meet me soon.
MintyFeet: Why would he feel the need to say he has a pool and a gym. He sounds like a snob. I would never speak to someone who includes details of how many things they have. Like those pathetic men who post pics of themselves with smart cars. Or those very old men with pics of motorcycles they can barely hold because of how really really old they are.
Yes, I do not understand why he would write that he lives in a 1,125 square feet house all by himself. His profile also said that his income $100,000-$150,000 , nothing is making sense to me at all. I never used this kind of website. I even wrote to him that I lost everything in a divorce. I feel devastated.
irena0688: He said had 2 kids. One lived with his mother in Paris and another son lived in California. He said he was divorced. He also said he loves to travel through the usa and through out the world and that he goes to concerts.
Well, if his profile is gone, he's either deleted it himself or the mods on CS have done it for him.
unlaoised: Well, if his profile is gone, he's either deleted it himself or the mods on CS have done it for him.
I responded back to him at 4pm yesterday and 3 hours later his profile, messages in my inbox were gone. I feel confused, devastated. Nothing is making any sense to me.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
irena0688: He did not give me his phone number or address. He asked me if I have another email address so that me and him can talk more. I said no that I do not have one. I still do not understand why someone would write so many long paragraphs about himself for 2 weeks and he said that he likes my honesty and openess in life. He also said that he wants to meet me soon.
For future reference, if you feel you have a connection with someone, ask for his number or something personal that may indicate how genuine he is.. I hope no money was exchanged on you behalf..
irena0688: Yes, I do not understand why he would write that he lives in a 1,125 square feet house all by himself. His profile also said that his income $100,000-$150,000 , nothing is making sense to me at all. I never used this kind of website. I even wrote to him that I lost everything in a divorce. I feel devastated.
Anybody who talks about their income and the dimensions of their house like that is obviously a scammer.
You saying you lost everything in a divorce was his alarm bell that you weren't worth scamming.
allthegoodnamest: For future reference, if you feel you have a connection with someone, ask for his number or something personal that may indicate how genuine he is.. I hope no money was exchanged on you behalf..
I regret not asking for his phone number earlier. I did ask him personal questions, he never responded. He kept writing about his job, hobbies, family in Paris. I specifically told him that I lost everything in a divorce, he never responded. I feel really confused, and I do not know why someone would do this kind of this thing.
mollybaby: Anybody who talks about their income and the dimensions of their house like that is obviously a scammer.
You saying you lost everything in a divorce was his alarm bell that you weren't worth scamming.
Sorry
Hi Molly, Everything feels so confusing to me. I did loose everything in a divorce, he never responded to that. He said that he likes my honesty and openness in life.
irena0688: Why would someone write really long messages like huge paragraphs? I also found some weird phone number in California and an internet business company with his name that expired in 2011. The first message he wrote was that he moved here some years ago because his father was sick.
Anybody can write long messages etc that seems to good to be true. No matter how good someone may sound, you must always have doubt because you will never know what will happen. even good friends do bite. i guess the rule to find out if anybody is a scammer or otherwise is to look for signs that he/she is asking for money, or fake his arrival, or fake of delivering anything to you (something got stuck at the customs etc). take care.
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