Emotional issues...Neglected baggage...Ghosts in the closets... (6)
mollybaby: Some people feel they should be in a relationship, even when they are not ready mentally for one.
They think that being in a relationship, or their new partner, will 'sort' them.
But in reality, we are the only ones who can sort ourselves.
Not everybody wants to do that though.
would yake a quare one to sort you I thinkThey think that being in a relationship, or their new partner, will 'sort' them.
But in reality, we are the only ones who can sort ourselves.
Not everybody wants to do that though.
think a lot of people never stop giving out over the ex to me if your with someone you love its normal that when they go that in conversation with say a new partner it comes up ..is just normal kids as well what can person do they become a big part of you
johnjjm: would yake a quare one to sort you I think
They'd be the happy 'quare yoke'
One can't have lived in this world and not have 'baggage'. Even if you have dealt with stuff, it still has had an impact. We get formed by our experiences, and the more we have lived, the more forming has happened. You'd need someone with amnesia to avoid 'baggage' 
I fully agree though with your overall sentiment. Happiness does come from within, and many, no matter how little or how much time they have lived, seem to expect that others will make everything alright for them. That's not possible. A relationship can add to life quality, but if you are miserable within, it does not provide an automatic miracle cure, certainly not on the long run. Think that expectation often destroys relationships (have been there twice with broken individuals, and no matter how hard you try, you can't pull someone out of the swamp, if they don't put effort into getting to safety themselves
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I fully agree though with your overall sentiment. Happiness does come from within, and many, no matter how little or how much time they have lived, seem to expect that others will make everything alright for them. That's not possible. A relationship can add to life quality, but if you are miserable within, it does not provide an automatic miracle cure, certainly not on the long run. Think that expectation often destroys relationships (have been there twice with broken individuals, and no matter how hard you try, you can't pull someone out of the swamp, if they don't put effort into getting to safety themselves
)
Should you maybe talk to people a while longer on site before dating them, by that i mean number one you would have a decent idea of how they feel mentally,and so you have the option.Number two you would have said on your profile what type of relationship you wanted.why wait until two months dating to find out what he wants.
I know you are only making a observation,but personnel comments between two people more so on a first date,when people can be most vulnerable should stay at the table.
I know you are only making a observation,but personnel comments between two people more so on a first date,when people can be most vulnerable should stay at the table.
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They think that being in a relationship, or their new partner, will 'sort' them.
But in reality, we are the only ones who can sort ourselves.
Not everybody wants to do that though.