"Defensive narcissist" ( Archived) (258)

Aug 2, 2017 1:28 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
One2note: J is even worse . Makes me sound gay , not that I'm anti gay , or against gay marriage , or "garage" as I like to call it.
John , one will be fine.
What am I saying.


Note to self writing Refer to the OP as John or One and not J cuz it's gay like....gotcha. laugh
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Aug 2, 2017 1:29 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Ccincy: Is this a come as you are party?


Pretty much ... You're welcome to bring snacks, or even bake a special pie for Truheart .dunno laugh wave
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Aug 2, 2017 1:30 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One2note: Pretty much ... You're welcome to bring snacks, or even bake a special pie for Truheart .



Oh Thank You.A cake for Truheart that would be very interesting.laugh
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Aug 2, 2017 1:32 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
2intrigued: Note to self Refer to the OP as John or One and not J cuz it's gay like....gotcha.


Yeh but don't tell everyone.. I'm very selective who knows my name uh oh cool laugh doh
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Aug 2, 2017 1:37 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
One2note: Yeh but don't tell everyone.. I'm very selective who knows my name


It's a bit too late now isn't it. comfort laugh
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Aug 2, 2017 1:38 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
seaworthy
seaworthyseaworthyOranjestad, Aruba43 Posts
One2note: Ok . What's your opinion ?


wave If you believe that the narcissist understands what your're asserting in your comment, then you need to do a little more reading on the narcissistic mind. Understand, that they are just protecting their 'self'' and have no idea why those get upset at them.
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Aug 2, 2017 1:41 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
KNenagh: I don't find the narcissists on here particularly defensive.


What can I say .. It's a mad world .banana laugh wave
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Aug 2, 2017 1:48 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
seaworthy: If you believe that the narcissist understands what your're asserting in your comment, then you need to do a little more reading on the narcissistic mind. Understand, that they are just protecting their 'self'' and have no idea why those get upset at them.


Defensive narcissist is slightly different.. Look it up & get back to me.wine
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Aug 2, 2017 1:54 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
seaworthy
seaworthyseaworthyOranjestad, Aruba43 Posts
No its not. Look deeper, they're protecting their 'self' so that mask stays in place.
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Aug 2, 2017 1:56 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One2note: Defensive narcissist is slightly different.. Look it up & get back to me.



Look it up they are the same thing.
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Aug 2, 2017 1:56 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy: Well your friend John/One2note said I could bake you one .I suppose he was only looking out for your welfare.
..I think ,he,s a little jelouse because you love me more then you do him...dunno love love
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Aug 2, 2017 1:59 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
truheart1941: ..I think ,he,s a little jelouse because you love me more then you do him...



I can see his reply now.What on earth are you on?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 2, 2017 2:12 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy: I can see his reply now.What on earth are you on?
..I,m on the couch..poping blue tablets.....grin grin
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Aug 2, 2017 2:28 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
One2note: Jealousy is such a unnecessary emotion. Such an ugly trait to possess .

Jealous of what ? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 2, 2017 2:44 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
One2note: Defensive narcissist is slightly different.. Look it up & get back to me.


Sir - There is no such term even on Wikipedia. For the record - Wikipedia quotes are not regarded as reliable by Universities for a thesis presentation or when mentioned in a bibliography unless supported by a recognised accurate source which must be fully quoted.
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Aug 2, 2017 2:45 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
truheart1941: ..I,m on the couch..poping blue tablets.....

They won't get you big enough for Molly rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Aug 2, 2017 2:46 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Shanks25
Shanks25Shanks25graceville, Florida USA2 Posts
That sounds a lot like my ex because her friends would contact me through my phone and would give me nothing but death threats (from shooting me to and I would respond back in self-defense and even told them if they didn't back off I would get the law involved and after I hang up on them, she would call me and would say things like "what is the matter with you?" "Don't threaten my friends." "They were only trying to help." and when I explain the situation, she would claim they didn't threaten me and even go as far as saying "I was right there, watching and listening. They didn't threaten you." and we would get into a big argument about it. In the end, after we broke up for the final time, it turned out that she was making false claims about me, even twisting some things around make herself the victim and me the villain, like this one time I was tickling her belly and she kept squirming like crazy and even tried pushing my arm away and at some point, my arm did some sort of rubber band thing and I accidentally hit her. I apologized like crazy about it and I immediately stopped cause I didn't want to hit her again and she told her friends that I asked her to do something, she said no, and then I struck her. I never struck a woman and I openly apologize and stop if I did by accident and all I can say is that I'm accident-prone.
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Aug 2, 2017 2:58 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
seaworthy: No its not. Look deeper, they're protecting their 'self' so that mask stays in place.


Maybe you're right.
I made a post about it. I never claimed to be an expert on the subject.confused laugh
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Aug 2, 2017 3:03 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Shanks25: That sounds a lot like my ex because her friends would contact me through my phone and would give me nothing but death threats (from shooting me to and I would respond back in self-defense and even told them if they didn't back off I would get the law involved and after I hang up on them, she would call me and would say things like "what is the matter with you?" "Don't threaten my friends." "They were only trying to help." and when I explain the situation, she would claim they didn't threaten me and even go as far as saying "I was right there, watching and listening. They didn't threaten you." and we would get into a big argument about it. In the end, after we broke up for the final time, it turned out that she was making false claims about me, even twisting some things around make herself the victim and me the villain, like this one time I was tickling her belly and she kept squirming like crazy and even tried pushing my arm away and at some point, my arm did some sort of rubber band thing and I accidentally hit her. I apologized like crazy about it and I immediately stopped cause I didn't want to hit her again and she told her friends that I asked her to do something, she said no, and then I struck her. I never struck a woman and I openly apologize and stop if I did by accident and all I can say is that I'm accident-prone.


Sounds like you had a messy divorce. Ain't they all!!
I really don't like to comment on other people's domestic squabbles .

wave cheers
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Aug 2, 2017 3:07 PM CST "Defensive narcissist"
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One2note: Sounds like you had a messy divorce. Ain't they all!!
I really don't like to comment on other people's domestic squabbles .



One2note not all of them are messy.I know of at least two couples who had admitted to me that they get along better separated then living together.
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