Do people thrive on chaos and or drama in their lives ? ( Archived) (19)

Do people thrive on chaos and/or drama in their lives?

No...God, NO!!! NO! NO! NO! NO!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

For the love of God, man, I said NO, they do not!!! What more do you want from me? Waahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

Hi Jay, from experience and working in the underground railroad/battered women's shelters, it's about a "Bad Love is Better than No Love Syndrome" It's sad, I agree, but even those women who have had the "tar" beat out of them go back because they don't know what good love is. I hope you will be patient if you are in love with one of those women and be her friend, she needs that more than anything. One day they wake up, eventually we all do. If you can be their friend it will be the blessing they need. It doesn't mean you have to wait around for them to wake up, just be strong when they are not. Kim

Thanks Kooper,
I am in the process of weeding out the BS myself. I think it leaks over into my personal life and therefore has influence on the way others view me.

Thanks MorninGloria,
My next thread comes from your reply, I might catch some flak from it but after all it is just a question ! It should be fun.

Thanks Dark,
Point taken that it is not exclusive to women only, it is a human thing.

Thanks Deianeira,
I am glad that you were able to get out of your abusive relationship. I do not seek out ladies with bad relationships, they seem to gravitate to me for whatever reason. I am very trustworthy and all my friends know this, I am easy to talk to so my friends do.

Thanks Adrian,
Excellent point, “If a flower is constantly beat down and can never bloom, it will always look like a weed!”


Thanks for all the replies,
Jay

Your not? Is that not a cat I see standing on you? hahahaha. Btw, love the picture!!

<<<<<<<<<<Drama Free since 2003

All you have to do is read through a few of these threads and you will see a lot of examples of people who thrive on it so much they create it out of nothing. Just "attention seekers" wanting everyone to feel sorry for them. I never will.

proof positive

SOAP OPRAS

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First off, don't tell them that. They want to hear crap like that. That is why they tell you their problems. You are like their lil comfort crutch, who is being used to feed their ego and such. (Most) women want the prize, so make yourself not so available. Pretty much, you listen to what they want, and you make them meet you halfway. If you are the type who will "Do anything for love". Then seek out someone who has been abused to make you feel like "The Man". Although if you seek a good relationship, look for someone who is very family oriented.

I ran into too many women who let themselves get used, and it never stops. They go and complain to another guy, the (neutered) "gentleman" then takes the woman's side just because she is a woman (Who am I to call them a girl?), and she easily gives herself up because she "Thinks" she has all she wants, and you appreciate her less, for it was not a task. Or she doesn't respect you because you are neutered and seeks "The Bad Boy".

You have to examine Today. Today, we got a lot of single women raising children today. Where is the example of a good steady marriage for these children? When you got TV shows with gold-diggers like "Who wants to marry a millionare?" and crap like that. People are easily influenced and can believe lies if they are funished well. People are lost but are free to believe what they want to believe no matter how right or wrong because society says "So long as it feels good". No one can handle having their feelings hurt anymore, Honesty is lost, and Lies seem like the right thing to do.

None the less, get to know both sides of the story before you believe that someone really has it that bad. No one is sick and tired until they are sick and tired of being sick and tired. Catch my drift?