Elegsabiff: Oh, if romance is even a remote possibility that would be a different thing altogether. Either I would be keen, in which case it does become exclusive, or I would retreat as nicely as possible to a safe distance.
I thought your question was general chat, and I am usually chatting to a couple of people at any time, but not on a romantic basis. I find people interesting. Someone only wanting to talk about 'us' when I don't see an 'us' is not so interesting.
Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?
Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there. It's happened to me on several occasions.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
One2note: Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?
Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there. It's happened to me on several occasions.
There's a stark difference between friendly, general chat to outrageous flirting with all n sundry....
One2note: Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?
Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there. It's happened to me on several occasions.
Oh yeah i hate that , when someone gets the wrong idea,
and runs with it,,,, only to think it is the woman getting the wrong ides.
The wonders of internet , searching for a date scenario,, priceless: rolleyes:
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Jokes aside, it's rare to make that connection online, but if one does and is unwilling to put a 100% effort into developing things further in becoming exclusive, then ultimately they become lifers on online dating site forums.
One2note: Does online dating mean you should be exclusive to one person , or do you think it's morally ok to talk to multiple people, considering there may be feelings involved?
It depends which style for chatting you chose for communication with multiple people, in case if you just like person of being in friend zone so it couldn’t be appropriate the style with flirt and some kind of ambiguity… Nobody could be protected from some unpleasant feelings especially from the beginning of communication when you couldn’t for 100% know does this person is suitable or not… But when decide for yourself something it couldn’t be appropriate to chat with way which could provide some hope and concern some others feelings, thus honest should be expressed especially for yourself. false couldn't be nice companion on this matter.
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I thought your question was general chat, and I am usually chatting to a couple of people at any time, but not on a romantic basis. I find people interesting. Someone only wanting to talk about 'us' when I don't see an 'us' is not so interesting.
Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?
Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there.
It's happened to me on several occasions.