Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time? ( Archived) (108)

Dec 17, 2017 8:31 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Elegsabiff: Oh, if romance is even a remote possibility that would be a different thing altogether. Either I would be keen, in which case it does become exclusive, or I would retreat as nicely as possible to a safe distance.

I thought your question was general chat, and I am usually chatting to a couple of people at any time, but not on a romantic basis. I find people interesting. Someone only wanting to talk about 'us' when I don't see an 'us' is not so interesting.


Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?confused laugh

Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there.
It's happened to me on several occasions.
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Dec 17, 2017 8:32 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Why indeed!


Hey misses, I'm not the one hiding my profile pic, which reminds me, what happened to that Christmas treat you displayed last year???cheering laugh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:34 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?

Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there.
It's happened to me on several occasions.


There's a stark difference between friendly, general chat to outrageous flirting with all n sundry....conversing
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Dec 17, 2017 8:34 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: I wasn't talking about you doing it to anyone.

I was thinking more about someone that did it to you.


Are you basing it on some experience?


Nah.. plenty of fish & all that.laugh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:37 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: Hey misses, I'm not the one hiding my profile pic, which reminds me, what happened to that Christmas treat you displayed last year???


The "outfit" is in for drycleaning....mumbling

uh oh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:37 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
BerrySmoothie: There's a stark difference between friendly, general chat to outrageous flirting with all n sundry....


You're a wise cookie madam. Nothing gets past you.professor laugh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:38 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: Well you know how some blogs diversify & to be honest, I can't really remember what the initial question curtailed?

Ok, back to the comment.... I get where you're coming from, but one person may see it as friendly chat, whilst the other may see something that may not be there.
It's happened to me on several occasions.





Oh yeah i hate that , when someone gets the wrong idea,

and runs with it,,,, only to think it is the woman getting the wrong ides.

The wonders of internet , searching for a date scenario,, priceless: rolleyes: uh oh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:39 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
BerrySmoothie: The "outfit" is in for drycleaning....


I wonder what made it so messed initially.
Are you a messy eater?dunno laugh
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Dec 17, 2017 8:42 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: Nah.. plenty of fish & all that.




Yes of course,, chin up there.comfort grin
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Dec 17, 2017 8:42 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: I wonder what made it so messed initially.
Are you a messy eater?


It wasn't me who messed on it....sigh

giggle
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Dec 17, 2017 9:10 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Jokes aside, it's rare to make that connection online, but if one does and is unwilling to put a 100% effort into developing things further in becoming exclusive, then ultimately they become lifers on online dating site forums.
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Dec 17, 2017 9:15 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
......I find it easier just not to talk......roll eyes grin
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Dec 17, 2017 9:19 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
......I find it easier just not to talk......[/quote





Shut up then...snooty
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Dec 17, 2017 9:23 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I'm from old school so to speak where long before the modern world of dating came about.

I suppose I wouldn't see any issue arising just as long everyone involved understood the rules of the so called game of chatting.

Plus and probably the jealousy that could happen if the people who one is chatting with.
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Dec 17, 2017 9:39 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
KremaP: ......I find it easier just not to talk......[/quote





Shut up then...
huh...................blow a balloon.......scold roll eyes foot in mouth giggle
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Dec 17, 2017 9:47 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
truheart1941: huh...................blow a balloon.......







I see your modeling career isn't going well darling, did they put you on a diet?! dunno


laugh
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Dec 17, 2017 9:50 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
KremaP: I see your modeling career isn't going well darling, did they put you on a diet?!
,,the only diff/,,,,,is your hair is longer.......grin roll eyes tongue giggle giggle
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Dec 17, 2017 10:19 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada587 Posts
I only chat to one person at a time, but that is how i am, I do not expect the same from another person.
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Dec 17, 2017 11:32 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
Almaty25
Almaty25Almaty25Almaty, Kazakhstan2 Threads 113 Posts
One2note: Does online dating mean you should be exclusive to one person , or do you think it's morally ok to talk to multiple people, considering there may be feelings involved?

It depends which style for chatting you chose for communication with multiple people, in case if you just like person of being in friend zone so it couldn’t be appropriate the style with flirt and some kind of ambiguity…
Nobody could be protected from some unpleasant feelings especially from the beginning of communication when you couldn’t for 100% know does this person is suitable or not…
But when decide for yourself something it couldn’t be appropriate to chat with way which could provide some hope and concern some others feelings, thus honest should be expressed especially for yourself.
false couldn't be nice companion on this matter.
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Dec 17, 2017 11:35 AM CST Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time?
Almaty25
Almaty25Almaty25Almaty, Kazakhstan2 Threads 113 Posts
One2note: You mean "where there's a will, there a relative" !!!

Knowing my luck, she will arrive with her 4 kids , parents , grandparents & the pet goat & other farmyard livestock!!!

Huh - fear our own thoughts - they are material!cheering
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