Do you think is right to chat to multiple people at one time? (108)
jono7: i think it's ok to talk to whomever you wish to talk to.
be yourself. be authentic.
if you meet someone, on line or in person, and you decide together to be exclusive, then be exclusive.
you can still talk to whomever you choose, but you might want to think about how your 'chat' effects the person you are 'in relationship' with. keep it transparent and honest.
some folks want an exclusive relationship, and some folks don't.
not everyone's moral compasses are the same.
so i don't think it's as important to assign moral judgement as it is to find the match that works for you.
and things are in constant change....emotions change...while both folks may choose an exclusive relationship...that can change too.
the thing about integrity...is that no one can take it from you, you have to give it away.
be yourself. be authentic.
if you meet someone, on line or in person, and you decide together to be exclusive, then be exclusive.
you can still talk to whomever you choose, but you might want to think about how your 'chat' effects the person you are 'in relationship' with. keep it transparent and honest.
some folks want an exclusive relationship, and some folks don't.
not everyone's moral compasses are the same.
so i don't think it's as important to assign moral judgement as it is to find the match that works for you.
and things are in constant change....emotions change...while both folks may choose an exclusive relationship...that can change too.
the thing about integrity...is that no one can take it from you, you have to give it away.
So you're saying that you should not put all your eggs in one basket , so to speak?
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pedro27: are you going 2 see him again?
Ah now Pedro, a policeman wouldn't ask me that
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Ccincy: Well I can't jump his bones.
was it just a hug or more?
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annaroach: Ah now Pedro, a policeman wouldn't ask me that
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pedro27: was it just a hug or more?
Pedro obviously you can read into it anything you wish you.
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Ccincy: Pedro obviously you can read into it anything you wish you.
so if one2note droped by to say hello you would hug him............?
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pedro27: so if one2note droped by to say hello you would hug him............?
I sure wouldn't hit him.
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One2note: It's easy when you have no family ties!
When there's children & family members who rely on you, it's not that easy to drop everything.
When there's children & family members who rely on you, it's not that easy to drop everything.
Well unless you are taking off to the USA, Canada, or Australia,,, then you wouldn't have to drop everything
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Ccincy: I sure wouldn't hit him.
a peck on the cheek would be ok........anything other than that he might have idea's
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pedro27: a peck on the cheek would be ok........anything other than that he might have idea's
Don't most men have ideas? I would think that the man would be so so boring if he didn't have ideas.
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annaroach: Well unless you are taking off to the USA, Canada, or Australia,,, then you wouldn't have to drop everything
And then what???
You have a good week or weekend.
What happens next?
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John,
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
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BerrySmoothie: John,
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
Very well said Berry....totally agree with this.
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2intrigued: Very well said Berry....totally agree with this.
Hi Deb....
Hope all is well with you.
I'm off to brave the masses with the start of my Christmas shopping....(the start
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One2note: And then what???
You have a good week or weekend.
What happens next?
You have a good week or weekend.
What happens next?
That would depend on what you wanted , everything is doable..
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BerrySmoothie: Hi Deb....
Hope all is well with you.
I'm off to brave the masses with the start of my Christmas shopping....(the start ....wish me luck )
Hope all is well with you.
I'm off to brave the masses with the start of my Christmas shopping....(the start ....wish me luck )
All is well here D and I hope life is treating you well. You've got a week of shopping left so good luck.
Merry Christmas to you and yours 
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2intrigued: All is well here D and I hope life is treating you well. You've got a week of shopping left so good luck. Merry Christmas to you and yours
I'm shattered before I even start....
All's well here Deb...
...and a blardy berry merry Christmas to you and family too....
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BerrySmoothie: John,
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
If you ever "meet" someone ONLINE, they curl ya toes.....and the feeling is definitely mutual.....your best chance of survival is to take it OFFLINE....dispense with online dating sites....give yourselves the opportunity to get to know one another in real life.
We all know sites like these are the ever revolving candy store.
If you're seriously interested in pursuing a relationship, then give CS the boot...you won't need the distraction, because you'll have each other to focus on and enjoy.
If it works out, you may come back as an item(or not), or if it doesn't work, you can always return anyway.
But, temporarily, at least, you both need that time.....alone....to give yourselves more than a fighting chance.
JMO....
my problem in recent months is. That I haven't invested enough time finding a suitable partner, due to work & personal commitments
I've cleared my head & feel it's time I made an effort to find that special person. If it works it works, but I've always been a gambler, both in business & personally & if it doesn't work , then it won't be through lack of trying.
I have a good feeling about the coming year.
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One2note: my problem in recent months is. That I haven't invested enough time finding a suitable partner, due to work & personal commitments
I've cleared my head & feel it's time I made an effort to find that special person. If it works it works, but I've always been a gambler, both in business & personally & if it doesn't work , then it won't be through lack of trying.
I have a good feeling about the coming year.
I've cleared my head & feel it's time I made an effort to find that special person. If it works it works, but I've always been a gambler, both in business & personally & if it doesn't work , then it won't be through lack of trying.
I have a good feeling about the coming year.
That sounds very positive John
I sincerely wish you the best of luck.
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