lindsyjones: Yep that is called gossiping. Soliciting gossip about other people a very justifiable turn off. I listen to people's gripes but I never tell them what I feel about anyone if they seem to be getting a sympathy from me.
If a new poster arrives so what stuffed if I know what all the bloody hoopla is about.
If I hurt some ones feeling because of my sense of humour or because I was completely out of line I will be the first to apologise.
A few bloody owe me an apology but they can punch it as I realise some don't have the correct DNA that I was blessed with.
Mercedes_00: Exactly I will quote that poster or I will type their name.
Not one person on this site is significant enough for me to even care so it's on them not me.
Mercedez good morning from California. I was thinking you must have been really bombed up by some kind of a negative posts but just move on. Stay positive and be as you are.
Mercedes_00: If a new poster arrives so what stuffed if I know what all the bloody hoopla is about.
If I hurt some ones feeling because of my sense of humour or because I was completely out of line I will be the first to apologise.
A few bloody owe me an apology but they can punch it as I realise some don't have the correct DNA that I was blessed with.
I know that to be forgiven is a great relief and I personally ask apologies if I am mistaken, but if I don't know that I have hurt anyone, then how can I know how to ask for such forgiveness. On the other hand I don't hold grudges either so if they won't forgive me, that is on them. Like you said, it is on them.
I am glad you shared your two cents of what turns you off.
lindsyjones: Mercedez good morning from California. I was thinking you must have been really bombed up by some kind of a negative posts but just move on. Stay positive and be as you are.
Good Evening from Sydney Australia..No not bummed at all have had 12 years experience on forums I know the drill just posting about my turn off's on forums and I was also speaking up for others who maybe too shy or too afraid for what ever reason to speak up.
Mercedes_00: Good Evening from Sydney Australia..No not bummed at all have had 12 years experience on forums I know the drill just posting about my turn off's on forums and I was also speaking up for others who maybe too shy or too afraid for what ever reason to speak up.
Mean't to add not only in regard to forums but for the jealous gossip mongers.
Mercedes_00: Good Evening from Sydney Australia..No not bummed at all have had 12 years experience on forums I know the drill just posting about my turn off's on forums and I was also speaking up for others who maybe too shy or too afraid for what ever reason to speak up.
I am glad you are here. 12 years is a very good record. I have been on here for almost that long but only on the forum since 5 years ago. And I have never been a member of any other site.
Mercedes_00: Mean't to add not only in regard to forums but for the jealous gossip mongers.
Yes we have quite a few on here I guess. They are operating like a gang. I know who they are really because I already had an altercation with them and their modus operandi is to avoid my posts and my threads. And then always mention it in their post even if it is not needed to be announced. lol I laugh at them really. And quite honestly, I don't give a damn about who they are.
Just recently someone wrote: "I avoid those people on RL as I avoid them on here". Who cares, it is a choice you want to make, that is your concern. Announcing it like to spite the person you want to read your gripes is quite childish to me.
lindsyjones: I am glad you are here. 12 years is a very good record. I have been on here for almost that long but only on the forum since 5 years ago. And I have never been a member of any other site.
I was a member for 10 years at another site she shut shop on the 9th of this month.
We have 500 members from that site posting on a page set up on fb..Some others made their own sites which is cool as I'm able to stay in contact with many wonderful posters of yesteryear.
Mercedes_00: I was a member for 10 years at another site she shut shop on the 9th of this month.
We have 500 members from that site posting on a page set up on fb..Some others made their own sites which is cool as I'm able to stay in contact with many wonderful posters of yesteryear.
lindsyjones: Yes Slaint, if only we can avoid them. Completely..
LJ you can't avoid them, because so many are here...many from the left post on this site and you know the ideology they follow...gangs are not healthy and alienate people
LeeCharming: LJ you can't avoid them, because so many are here...many from the left post on this site and you know the ideology they follow...gangs are not healthy and alienate people
Who don't drop their trousers, bend over and let them stick it to them...
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If I hurt some ones feeling because of my sense of humour or because I was completely out of line I will be the first to apologise.
A few bloody owe me an apology but they can punch it as I realise some don't have the correct DNA that I was blessed with.