Dependance ( Archived) (14)

Mar 20, 2018 4:42 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Men prefer everyone, wife, kids and animals, to be dependent on them.

They then feel like a million dollars and very full of themselves.

Then they complain to everyone that will listen, how everyone spends their money.

Yes, that's life.

P.s. I'm independent. Lucky me !


lips
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Mar 20, 2018 4:46 AM CST Dependance
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
If Mr Right ever finds me I don't need his money the only thing I want and expect is him to be my bestest mate/honest/ respect me and adore me as I would he.
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Mar 20, 2018 6:20 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: But they don't Snooks, they don't...


Ur thinking of so called modern men. They revert back to the stone age very fast after thinking they caught u.
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Mar 20, 2018 7:02 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: No, Snooks,
it's about the modern woman who wants to be a man...
You can smell the testosterone coming from way too many women nowadays...
You don't need to shout out from the roof tops how masculine you are, that doesn't make you special but weird...


All these modern women r looking for a male to respect. The problem is that those hardly exist anymore.
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Mar 20, 2018 7:17 AM CST Dependance
Car54
Car54Car54Noneya, Luxembourg Belgium4 Threads 378 Posts
I had my dependants without complaining about it, my children and my ex. It was an another time, an era now done away with.
Now I'm happy to take care of myself and any g/f I had and may have in the future will take care of herself.
Men aren't needed now and it's just as well. Gives us more time for hobbies and friends.
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Mar 20, 2018 7:50 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
TokyoRogue: I think this gross generalization is formed by a person who perhaps has made some repeatedly bad choices in partners and doesn't realize just because she may have had certain negative personal experiences with men, those experiences can not then be applied carte blanche to every other living man on the planet.

To suggest all men want everyone in their life to depend on them is patently absurd. Most of us understand this through our day to day interactions with friends, colleagues, family and society in general, not to mention our own relationships. If at any time in my previous relationships would I have demanded my significant other be dependent on me, i'd have been kicked to the kerb.

Most of us men actually do want as much equality between ourselves and our partners as possible.I'm sorry your personal experiences have imbued you with such a negative opinion of us.


I have always been attracted to similar types. I have tried others but they all conform to the same pattern.
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Mar 20, 2018 7:53 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Car54: I had my dependants without complaining about it, my children and my ex. It was an another time, an era now done away with.
Now I'm happy to take care of myself and any g/f I had and may have in the future will take care of herself.
Men aren't needed now and it's just as well. Gives us more time for hobbies and friends.


I've been without a man to look after me and my kids since 1992. We would like someone to respect but have not found one.
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Mar 20, 2018 8:25 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Bnaughty: I´m the opposite of this you´ll be pleased to know Snooks, my mum still does everything for me , wakes me up, makes my food, takes me to work, I just don´t need people to be dependent on me at all, I guess I´m just a modern guy


And ur mom says nothing.

At some point u must develop some wings, I'm sure ur Mom hopes. It's nice to have the kids around, but they also eventually become independent.

As long as u can look after urself and pop in now and again, I'm sure ur Mom would be happy.
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Mar 20, 2018 8:49 AM CST Dependance
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
MsContessa: The role of the man was a hunter, a provider for his family.
His role in society has changed drastically as it has for women. In fact a reversal of roles in many cases! It is causing untold damage in every way!


applause cheering applause cheering applause hug cheers peace
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Mar 20, 2018 11:07 AM CST Dependance
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Mercedes_00: If Mr Right ever finds me I don't need his money the only thing I want and expect is him to be my bestest mate/honest/ respect me and adore me as I would he.



IF, by "adore", you mean "appreciate your uniqueness", then I'm, ALL IN, M! You'll be receiving my applicantion by registered mail, as soon as Santa can whip old Rudolf to your door! (The other 3 I have NO PROBLEMS with!) kiss hug cheers teddybear
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Mar 20, 2018 11:13 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Lu. I have had a hard life, and learned a lot more than most people.

I like myself just the way I am, with My beliefs.

We should all like ourselves for who we are, and Not what other people would like to believe or try to make us.

I please no-one but myself, kids and animals.

There !!!
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Mar 20, 2018 11:20 AM CST Dependance
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
KremaP: But they don't Snooks, they don't...



thumbs up applause cheering handshake hug
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Mar 20, 2018 12:52 PM CST Dependance
When I clicked on the thread, I expected to see something like a car wreck.

I thought it was about adult diapers.
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Mar 21, 2018 3:14 AM CST Dependance
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Let_Us: Snook, I have no argument or comment for ANY of that - EXCEPT - your assertion that you've "learned a lot more than most people." You've probably learned some things that others haven't. But it's just as likely that they've learned some that you haven't. Quality of life IS NOT determined by HOW MUCH you know. but by WHAT you know. So what's the point of saying "I know MORE than you know"? I'm sorry that your life's been hard, but so have a lot of other people's. And I'm sure that ALMOST ANY WOMAN IN SOMALIA would trade places with you in an instant! And GLADLY/HAPPILY assume ALL your problems! Even your old ______ ex, the British "difficulty". Comparing lives and knowledge is relative. And, while it CAN BE interesting, it's mostly useless/pointless. JMO


U tend to c ur life in relation to the people surrounding u, in this case Cs forums.
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