Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?... ( Archived) (42)

Sep 26, 2018 12:35 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
Great little micro discussion with a good friend...and the question above was asked...i had to confess, from the outside looking in, chemistry, and it's not what I wanted to say... I like to believe there's hope for the 'good-un' in the arena of free dating... While I put great value in honesty, ought we to consider the odds of chancing a first meet against a little sparing of the absolute truth...
So, in a straw hat, chemistry, truth, good-uns and little white indisclosures...
Discuss if you will...
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Sep 26, 2018 12:44 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Too many degrees of freedom here: what you call "little white undisclosurs", someone else would define as "lie by omission" or even "blue murder".

Existing in same axiomatic space is a good start. The rest is a matter of good will and yes, chemistry.
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Sep 26, 2018 12:44 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Too many degrees of freedom here: what you call "little white undisclosurs", someone else would define as "lie by omission" or even "blue murder".

Existing in same axiomatic space is a good start. The rest is a matter of good will and yes, chemistry.
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Sep 26, 2018 12:45 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Oy vey, sorry for hick-up :/
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Sep 26, 2018 12:53 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
if I had to choose I would say chemistry with a good one......grin
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Sep 26, 2018 1:06 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
Tulefell: Too many degrees of freedom here: what you call "little white undisclosurs", someone else would define as "lie by omission" or even "blue murder".

Existing in same axiomatic space is a good start. The rest is a matter of good will and yes, chemistry.
That's a 'meat on the bones' reply, thank you... So as not to try reading anything in that isn't there, are you saying one should employ outright honesty from the onset, as anything less is deception, whether undisclosed or minimalized... (please excuse spelling errors)...
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Sep 26, 2018 1:42 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: That's a 'meat on the bones' reply, thank you... So as not to try reading anything in that isn't there, are you saying one should employ outright honesty from the onset, as anything less is deception, whether undisclosed or minimalized... (please excuse spelling errors)...
Well... no. I'm totally against the outright honesty and absolutely for sparing my nearest mourner as much heart burn as only possible. As every stick, it has two ends, least, I do realise it and willing to pay the price.

And I would not dream of spilling my guts on the net.

Honesty is a derivative of truth and there are as many truths as there are people.

So good will and chemistry while based on the same axioms.
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Sep 26, 2018 2:23 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: Great little micro discussion with a good friend...and the question above was asked...i had to confess, from the outside looking in, chemistry, and it's not what I wanted to say... I like to believe there's hope for the 'good-un' in the arena of free dating... While I put great value in honesty, ought we to consider the odds of chancing a first meet against a little sparing of the absolute truth...
So, in a straw hat, chemistry, truth, good-uns and little white indisclosures...
Discuss if you will...
For me, mutual attraction is important. I need to look at that person and want to do bad things with them grin

However, physical attraction won't sustain a relationship. There has to be real friendship, common ground, similar goals, etc. to sustain a relationship.

As for "little white indisclosures', it depends on how little and how white.
I wouldn't expect someone to tell me their guilty secret is watching Coronation Street or liked strawberry flavoured toothpaste, but I would expect them to tell me if they were schizophrenic or married or had a gambling addiction.
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Sep 26, 2018 2:41 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
mollybaby: I need to look at that person and want to do bad things with them

Like scaring school kids of their pocket money? Or aiming higher: like Bonnie and Clyde adventure?
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Sep 26, 2018 2:45 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Like scaring school kids of their pocket money? Or aiming higher: like Bonnie and Clyde adventure?
Oh, pure Bonnie and Clyde laugh
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Sep 26, 2018 2:52 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
mollybaby: Oh, pure Bonnie and Clyde
Have you found your Bonnie yet?
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Sep 26, 2018 2:55 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Have you found your Bonnie yet?
Why? Have you taken Clyde? mumbling
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Sep 26, 2018 3:02 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
mollybaby: Why? Have you taken Clyde?
Why! I thought yóu were Clyde :D

I've taken the kayak, it's my run-away vehicle.
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Sep 26, 2018 3:08 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Why! I thought yóu were Clyde :D

I've taken the kayak, it's my run-away vehicle.
I hope the river freezes over
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Sep 26, 2018 3:09 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
It's sea, child :)
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Sep 26, 2018 3:14 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: It's sea, child :)
Damn mumbling

But you practically live in the Arctic, so it might freeze over anyway joy
grin
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Sep 26, 2018 3:16 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Golfström - yay!!!
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Sep 26, 2018 3:20 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Golfström - yay!!!
okay, you win.

You get Clyde, the kayak and the gulf stream
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Sep 26, 2018 3:25 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Thanks for permission, that's most kind of you :)
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Sep 26, 2018 3:28 PM CST Choose chemistry or a 'good-un'?...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Thanks for permission, that's most kind of you :)
It was an admission of defeat, rather than giving permission bowing
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