Great little micro discussion with a good friend...and the question above was asked...i had to confess, from the outside looking in, chemistry, and it's not what I wanted to say... I like to believe there's hope for the 'good-un' in the arena of free dating... While I put great value in honesty, ought we to consider the odds of chancing a first meet against a little sparing of the absolute truth... So, in a straw hat, chemistry, truth, good-uns and little white indisclosures... Discuss if you will...
Tulefell: Too many degrees of freedom here: what you call "little white undisclosurs", someone else would define as "lie by omission" or even "blue murder".
Existing in same axiomatic space is a good start. The rest is a matter of good will and yes, chemistry.
That's a 'meat on the bones' reply, thank you... So as not to try reading anything in that isn't there, are you saying one should employ outright honesty from the onset, as anything less is deception, whether undisclosed or minimalized... (please excuse spelling errors)...
Arthur_Sixpence: That's a 'meat on the bones' reply, thank you... So as not to try reading anything in that isn't there, are you saying one should employ outright honesty from the onset, as anything less is deception, whether undisclosed or minimalized... (please excuse spelling errors)...
Well... no. I'm totally against the outright honesty and absolutely for sparing my nearest mourner as much heart burn as only possible. As every stick, it has two ends, least, I do realise it and willing to pay the price.
And I would not dream of spilling my guts on the net.
Honesty is a derivative of truth and there are as many truths as there are people.
So good will and chemistry while based on the same axioms.
Arthur_Sixpence: Great little micro discussion with a good friend...and the question above was asked...i had to confess, from the outside looking in, chemistry, and it's not what I wanted to say... I like to believe there's hope for the 'good-un' in the arena of free dating... While I put great value in honesty, ought we to consider the odds of chancing a first meet against a little sparing of the absolute truth... So, in a straw hat, chemistry, truth, good-uns and little white indisclosures... Discuss if you will...
For me, mutual attraction is important. I need to look at that person and want to do bad things with them
However, physical attraction won't sustain a relationship. There has to be real friendship, common ground, similar goals, etc. to sustain a relationship.
As for "little white indisclosures', it depends on how little and how white. I wouldn't expect someone to tell me their guilty secret is watching Coronation Street or liked strawberry flavoured toothpaste, but I would expect them to tell me if they were schizophrenic or married or had a gambling addiction.
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So, in a straw hat, chemistry, truth, good-uns and little white indisclosures...
Discuss if you will...