Why do people never change ? (11)
Luxmanko3london, Ontario Canada1 Threads 1 PostsI was married for 25 years - better days since then - I'm not saying it was all her fault basically just not a good match. My point here is this - why do people try to find exactly what they had when it obviously didn't work the first time. I'm now 62 , my expectations are vastly different then when I was a 25 year old kid - yes I said kid. I'm simple looking for a pleasant woman somewhere near my age . Someone who's learned many of lifes lessons and has come out on top in one piece. We all have our baggage and idios and that has to be considered in finding a new mate. I have no intentions of getting married again I am perfectly happy with a more casual relationship that can still nurture both of us through our later years. Some of the wants and expectations I've seen on profiles are kinda silly - people can do and expect whatever they want right but please get real . Who would be interested in looking through a list of 35 things that a woman requires before you ever say hello. Is there even a chance for equality ? Good luck with that I hope you are patient. What the hell is wrong with a coffee friend ? A movie night friend > ? or even a friend with benefits ? You have someone you like and care about in your life and you can still go home and do your own thing. That's my plan and I'm sure many will not agree - to each his or her own - just try to be happy - and always be kind to animals - cheers )
Luxmanko3: I was married for 25 years - better days since then - I'm not saying it was all her fault basically just not a good match. My point here is this - why do people try to find exactly what they had when it obviously didn't work the first time. I'm now 62 , my expectations are vastly different then when I was a 25 year old kid - yes I said kid. I'm simple looking for a pleasant woman somewhere near my age . Someone who's learned many of lifes lessons and has come out on top in one piece. We all have our baggage and idios and that has to be considered in finding a new mate. I have no intentions of getting married again I am perfectly happy with a more casual relationship that can still nurture both of us through our later years. Some of the wants and expectations I've seen on profiles are kinda silly - people can do and expect whatever they want right but please get real . Who would be interested in looking through a list of 35 things that a woman requires before you ever say hello. Is there even a chance for equality ? Good luck with that I hope you are patient. What the hell is wrong with a coffee friend ? A movie night friend > ? or even a friend with benefits ? You have someone you like and care about in your life and you can still go home and do your own thing. That's my plan and I'm sure many will not agree - to each his or her own - just try to be happy - and always be kind to animals - cheers )
understand where you coming from, welcome to cs
It's easier in your country to find coffee friends...unfortunately you are so far away from Merida...
Hugs.Rosa
Hugs.Rosa
We all have our standards.
The trick is to find someone who wants the same as you.
Then it will be the perfect match.
The trick is to find someone who wants the same as you.
Then it will be the perfect match.
Luxmanko3: my expectations are vastly different then when I was a 25 year old kid - yes I said kid.
i think many folks our age have vastly different expectations from when they were young.i know what i want now is not the same as when i was young.
focus on what you want, what you think is what you will become, or invite into your life.
i wish you luck with your search.
Am not really concerned about people changing, it's got to happen, eventually. Only thing I think about, are all the pictures people posted 25 or more years ago n are still posted without any updates.
Luxmanko3: I was married for 25 years - better days since then - I'm not saying it was all her fault basically just not a good match. My point here is this - why do people try to find exactly what they had when it obviously didn't work the first time. I'm now 62 , my expectations are vastly different then when I was a 25 year old kid - yes I said kid. I'm simple looking for a pleasant woman somewhere near my age . Someone who's learned many of lifes lessons and has come out on top in one piece. We all have our baggage and idios and that has to be considered in finding a new mate. I have no intentions of getting married again I am perfectly happy with a more casual relationship that can still nurture both of us through our later years. Some of the wants and expectations I've seen on profiles are kinda silly - people can do and expect whatever they want right but please get real . Who would be interested in looking through a list of 35 things that a woman requires before you ever say hello. Is there even a chance for equality ? Good luck with that I hope you are patient. What the hell is wrong with a coffee friend ? A movie night friend > ? or even a friend with benefits ? You have someone you like and care about in your life and you can still go home and do your own thing. That's my plan and I'm sure many will not agree - to each his or her own - just try to be happy - and always be kind to animals - cheers )
I get where you're coming from. I too am divorced and not looking to get married again but it seems that's all people want these days. I am seeking a companion, not partner to live with. I love my home life and I love me being in it. For now that's the way I like it and hopefully if I do find someone, they will like it that way too :) Happy hunting.Chrissy
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This is the internet, to find somebody on your level
or have the some of the same things you’re
Looking for is getting off the internet and go out
some these people on the internet can be whatever
they wanna be, there are some people on here that are legitimate but you got to do some looking
or have the some of the same things you’re
Looking for is getting off the internet and go out
some these people on the internet can be whatever
they wanna be, there are some people on here that are legitimate but you got to do some looking
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